Sex With Emily

In today’s throwback show, I talk to the one and only Shaun T, host of the podcast “Trust and Believe,” a world renowned fitness trainer, and a professional dancer. Not to mention a wonderfully sex positive man, but, as you’ll learn in the episode it took a journey – I repeat, a JOURNEY – to get there. But hey, if he can do it, you can too. Trust me: if you’ve been looking for inspo to feel yourself in the bedroom, this convo is an absolute must.  In this episode you’ll learn:  How Shaun and his partner keep things interesting after 12 years and two kids Why you have to do the work to heal from trauma – and why it’s so rewarding Shaun’s genius sex and arousal hacks Show Notes: Join me for a Sexual Wellness Weekend in Canyon Ranch! What’s Your Arousal Type? SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) This episode is brought to you by: Bathmate (Use code EMILY10 or visit the link for 10% off) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want

Let’s face it: casual sex often gets a bad rap. It’s thought of as just another swipe, a fleeting moment, a reflection of society’s current hookup culture, or something disposable. But hold up! It doesn't have to be that way. When you bring a little intention and mindfulness into the mix, casual sex can be the spark that reignites your erotic energy. In my opinion, the secret sauce is all about knowing yourself and being crystal clear about what you want from your casual encounters. This episode, I’ll be teaching you how to dive into casual sex with purpose and channel your inner Samantha Jones. In this episode you’ll learn:  All the different types of casual sex out there How to know if casual sex is right for you (because it isn’t for everyone!)  When it’s best to turn down a potential partner Show Notes: Join me for a Sexual Wellness Weekend in Canyon Ranch! 7 Myths of Non Monogamy Friends With Benefits: A Guide SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) LOKI WAVE 2 The only sex book

Today I had the pleasure of talking to the “Scientific Carrie Bradshaw”, a.k.a Amy Chan, the revolutionary mind behind Renew Breakup Bootcamp, to talk about all things relationship. We chat about how her heartbreak helped in creating Breakup Bootcamp, why being present during dates is hard but necessary, and why dating outside of your comfort zone might be the key to finding the one. If you’re sick of swiping left and tolerating toxicity, this one’s for you. In this episode you’ll learn:  How to measure your chemistry compass  Why it’s important to date that short person (even if they aren’t exactly your type!) How to spot the “green flags” in a relationship Show Notes: Attend Dating Bootcamp!  SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here f

Eager to transform your hottest sexual fantasy into reality? Then today’s throwback Ask Emily show is for you! I'll be taking calls about fantasies and offering concrete tips on how to actualize them. However, it's essential to recognize that this journey is a blend of creativity and strategy. You must embrace your sensual desires, visualize intensely passionate — and perhaps even forbidden — scenarios, and explore what genuinely excites you! Lucky for you, I’ve given you tips on how to do just that. Right this way for some sexy self-discovery… In this episode you’ll learn:  How to go about finding a “third” if your partner’s been hinting at cuckolding The 411 on play parties (and how to stay safe if you go to one!) What to do if you’ve been craving a sexual fantasy, but your imagination’s been letting you down Show Notes: The Yes, No, Maybe List Fetlife Feeld #Open SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Y

It’s my favorite month of the year: Masturbation May! On today’s throwback show, I’m honoring the month of self-love and giving you a brief history of the celebration, the health benefits of masturbation, and my favorite toys and lubes for bringing you pleasure this May and all year long. In this episode you’ll learn:  What to do if you feel yourself relying too much on your vibrator Why masturbation can help you have orgasms during sex with your partner Signs that you’re masturbating too much Show Notes: Mutual Masturbation Guide For their buy 1 get 1 50% off deal, head to 3DayBlinds.com/SWE  SEX WITH EMILY VESPER SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Today, I continue my conversation with my friend, YouTube personality, public speaker, and author Matthew Hussey. We chat about his latest book, Love Life: How to Raise Your Standards, Find Your Person, and Live Happily No Matter What, Matthew’s texting skills, and why it’s best to follow your path and not your feelings. And if you were wondering about the texting cliffhanger from Part 1, it’s answered in today’s show. Enjoy! In this episode you’ll learn:  Why “avoiders” can be more of a red flag in relationships than liars When to make things work and when it's not worth it Why speaking your truth is sexy Show Notes: Find Your Person & Lead Your Love Life w/ Matthew Hussey Pt. 1 Matthew’s New Book: Love Life LELO Tor 3 (Use code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off) SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text

When it comes to sex, a lot of us find ourselves getting in our head about the way it “should” go down. “I should look a certain way.” “They should kiss me a certain way.” “We’ll both orgasm at the same time.” In other words, we expect things to be straight out of a movie… But here’s the real deal: you’re going to orgasm way easier – and more intensely – if you get out of your head, and into your body. So on today’s throwback show, I’m helping you have fully embodied sex using your senses. If you're not turned on or inspired to have sex, I’ve got sensory tools you can use to remove mental blocks and seduce yourself or your partner…and feel all the electric sensations leading up to the big O.   In this episode you’ll learn: Why you’re dissociating during sex and how to stop Ways to talk dirty without swearing How to bring back an MIA orgasm Show Notes: Just Thrive (use this link to automatically get 20% off sitewide or use code SEXWITHEMILY at checkout!) Come As You Are - Dr. Emily Nagoski SHOP WITH

Listen in on my conversation with my friend Matthew Hussey. You may know him as the inspirational YouTube personality, author, and public speaker who has revolutionized the world of dating advice with his amazing methods. We chat about emotional journeys, what Matthew has learned in his experience as a relationship coach, and ways to take charge of your love life. If you've been in a dating slump, this is the episode for you. In this episode you’ll learn:  How to take charge of your love life Why reflecting on your instincts is a game changer The value of valuing yourself first Show Notes: Matthew’s New Book: Love Life More Matthew Hussey: Website | Instagram | Youtube SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regul

Today, I continue my candid convo with my friend Falguni, answering all your hottest and most personal sex questions. From my experiences in threesomes to my favorite positions, no question goes unanswered. If you’ve ever wondered what the mile high club is like or how to tell your partner they could step up their sex game, tune in. Trust me, this is an episode you won’t wanna miss.   In this episode you’ll learn:  Why penetration alone might not always give you an orgasm    How to take control of your orgasm  Why communication is the most important part of your threesome Show Notes: SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure LELO DOT Travel (Use code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off) Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes

Happy 4/20! While direct research is still in development, there's no denying the potential benefits of cannabis for enhancing your sexual experiences. Researchers theorize that the plant can unlock a world of heightened eroticism, tranquil minds, and pain-free sex. On today’s show, I chat about ways cannabis might light up your sex life, my favorite products and delivery methods for the occasion (I’m a huge edible fan!), and how to figure out if cannabis is right for you.  In this episode you’ll learn:   How cannabis can affect sexual performance   How to decide if you should bring cannabis into the bedroom My fave product recommendations for 4/20 fun Show Notes: 6 Ways to Use Cannabis for Sex: A Guide The Journal of Cannabis Research Study SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure VIIA Hemp Co’s High Love Libido Gummies (code EMILY420 for 40% sitewide until 4/30/24) For their buy 1 get 1 50%

Buckle up: Today’s show is one you’ve all been waiting for…and spoiler alert, it’s all about me! I sat down with my good friend Falguni to flip the script and spill the tea on what sex with Emily is actually like (pun intended)! Tune in to hear me get up close and personal about my sexual journey, why I faked my orgasms until my 30s, and sex trends that I see making a comeback in the near future.  In this episode you’ll learn:   How I stopped having performative sex  How to push past the pleasure thieves for fulfilling sex  My go-to positions and products for the best orgasms Show Notes: Get your tickets HERE for Sex with Emily LIVE! SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwi

In today’s gut-busting episode I dive deep into the tango between your belly's bacteria and your sexual wellness. And who better to guide us through this intestinal intrigue than Tina Anderson, the gut guru and CEO of Just Thrive, the brand whose mission is to reboot your microbiome. Prepare to have your life changed as Tina spills the beans on how bacteria in your gut really calls the shots, influencing everything from your mood swings to your mojo.  Buckle up, lovers and health hackers, as we explore the steamy science that'll have you rethinking your next date night dinner.  In this episode you’ll learn: What low libido, keeping the spark alive, erectile challenges, and gut issues all have in common How hormones and the gut biome each affect each other in a bi-directional system Why the 3 pleasure thieves (stress, trauma, and shame) also impact our general health and wellness Show Notes: Just Thrive (use this link to automatically get 20% off sitewide at checkout!) Get your tickets HERE for Sex wit

It’s 2024, and there’s no denying that everybody has sexual needs. However, it can be really difficult to articulate them and share them with your partner. On today’s throwback Ask Emily show, I’m here to help you take that vital next step and get your needs fulfilled. From those who’ve never had an orgasm before to those who just want to communicate with their partners better, I’ve got you!  Just remember: for every sex problem, there is a path forward.  In this episode you’ll learn: How to communicate your sexual needs (even if your partner shuts down sex convos) Techniques to give your partner a crazy orgasm What to do if your partner desires things you might not be sure about like swinging Show Notes: Get your tickets HERE for Sex with Emily LIVE! Promescent.com/Emily (Use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout!) SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily:

Today I revisit my conversation with Dolly Josette, the PleasureMuse who turned the world of breathwork into the ultimate erotic adventure! Imagine unlocking a treasure chest of sensations and full-body orgasms you never knew you had with the work of meditation.. Dolly isn't just any guide on this journey; she's the Gandalf of sexual enlightenment, hailed by the high councils of Cosmopolitan and Hustler Magazines as a pioneering Sexological Bodyworker. But what truly sets her apart isn't the accolades; it's her magical ability to awaken the dormant erotic energy within women and couples, guiding them from numbness to dizzying heights of orgasmic bliss. So, if the idea of exploring the vast, uncharted territories of pleasure sounds good to you, Dolly Josette is ready to lead the way! In this episode you’ll learn:  How to hack your nervous system for better sex Why so many vulva owners are trained to numb from the waist down (and how to fix it!) How to become a great masturbator Show Notes: Get your ticke

Mental health and sexual desire – do you have to choose between one or the other? It's a conundrum that's more common than you think, and it's a topic that's sure to get you thinking! Antidepressants like Lexapro can be lifesavers for many, but they can also leave you feeling a little, well, deflated in the bedroom department. On the other hand, if your depression goes untreated, it can be tough to get in the mood. So, how do you navigate this predicament? Today, we're diving into the nitty-gritty of this struggle, and you'll hear from some of our listeners who've been there.  In this episode you’ll learn: How to understand the effects your mental health has on your sex drive Sexy strategies to manage the side effects of antidepressants Alternative treatments and lifestyle changes to maximize your pleasure Show Notes: Get your tickets HERE for Sex with Emily LIVE! The Experimental Generation of Interpersonal Closeness (36 Questions) SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex boo

It's commonly said that the brain is the most significant sexual organ in the human body. But is it possible to manipulate our brains to enhance happiness or even improve our sexual experiences? Dr. Daniel Amen, a psychiatrist and acclaimed author, has compiled the most extensive collection of brain scans globally. Through analyzing this data, he has uncovered intriguing insights: by adopting habits grounded in neuroscience, we can significantly enhance our mental well-being, elevate our mood, and indeed – enrich our sexual lives. Tune in now to discover how to take control of your mind and enjoy the benefits. In this episode you’ll learn:  The way stress hormones can interfere with our sexual hormones Techniques to shield yourself from mental "noise" The reasons why individuals who are happier generally enjoy longer lives, maintain healthier relationships, achieve greater success professionally, and experience more fulfilling sex lives Show Notes: Get your tickets HERE for Sex with Emily LIVE! Order D

Sexting: it’s basically the foreplay of the 21st century - a steamy, sultry way to turn up the heat without even being in the same room. But let's be real, sending a bunch of suggestive emojis out of the blue might leave your partner scratching their head. That's why you need to master the art of sexting, and I'm here to help you do just that. In this show, I'll give you the inside scoop on how to craft the perfect sext, from the right tone to the perfect use of emojis. With my pro tips, you'll be able to turn up the heat and leave your partner begging for more. So buckle up, because we're about to take your sexting game to a whole new level! In this episode you’ll learn:  How emotional intelligence influences your sexting skills How to manage your devices so messages don’t end up in the wrong place How to have good phone sex in a long distance relationship Show Notes: Get your tickets HERE for Sex with Emily LIVE! Sexting Guide Yes, No, Maybe List SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)

Looking to connect with your partner on a whole new level? Lucky for you, today’s episode with human connection specialist Mark Groves will give you the tools to do just that. Mark uses his emotional translation skills to give accessible relationship and wellness advice to others and shares his relatable ways to be your most authentic self. From discussing a Thanksgiving dinner that changed his life to examining past toxic behavior, Mark and I dive deep into ways to become wiser in love. Get ready to get vulnerable, today’s show gets DEEP! In this episode you’ll learn:  How to break free from codependent relationships Why reflecting on past experiences is the key to better relationships Why we should all be using the word “boner again Show Notes: Get your tickets HERE for Sex with Emily LIVE! Pre-order Mark’s new book: LIBERATED LOVE SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure LELO (use code SEX

WARNING, WARNING: Your climax has exited the premises. Ever wondered why achieving orgasm can feel effortless with one partner but challenging with another? Or why squirting might occur without reaching climax? On today's throwback episode of Hotline Calls, we're delving into the topic of orgasm and its hidden secrets. Tune in for an orgasmic time.  Got a burning question? Feel free to reach out and leave a voicemail anytime at 559-TALK-SEX (559-825-5739). In this episode you’ll learn:  The difference between squirting and orgasming How to orgasm for the first time, if you never have How to create masturbation routines that support the orgasms you deserve  Show Notes: Buy tickets to my San Diego, CA Show on April 10, 2024 HERE!  Buy tickets to my Phoenix, AZ Show on April 18, 2024 HERE! SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure OhMiBod Sphinx OhMiBod Foxy Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Le

Weddings: They're like a beautiful blend of tradition and flowers, but let's be real – Is married sex worth all the hype? Let's face it, folks. Married sex often gets stuck in this rut of tired old cliches. But guess what? It doesn't have to be that way!  We're so over settling for dull or non-existent intimacy as we journey through life with our partners. So, buckle up because on today's show, I'm all about shaking things up to make sex with your spouse hot again. From crafting your own set of sex vows before you take that stroll down the aisle to pleasure planning with your long-time partner, we're rewriting the playbook on honeymoon passion. Oh, and we're diving into the cultural landscape of love, sex, and relationships because times are definitely changing! In this episode you’ll learn:  How to navigate bisexuality in a straight marriage What it means if you find yourself jealous at your friend’s wedding How to bring back the spark…even when the spark was a little dim in the first place Show Notes: