Swap Fu Podcast

What have we been up to?Sober summer; from solstice to labor day. Second year and going well.How do we swinger sober? Fake it 'til you make it!4th of July at the Bonham Exchange: http://bonhamexchange.comTopic:Discussion of the Vanity Fair video: http://video.vanityfair.com/watch/vanity-code-how-to-behave-at-a-swingers-partyA discussion of the Swap Fu Swinger Event PlanHow to escalate physically without being creepyMs Swap Fu runs into a former coworker at one of our partiesJB and Cal from Swinging Around on ice breakers, in response to listener question: http://swingin-around.blogspot.com/2013/05/episode-15-breaking-ice-for-playtime.htmlOdds and Ends:Road trip with one stop... going to Club Colette in New Orleans, Friday, August 9. Want to join us? http://coletteclubs.com/neworleans/Enjoying equipment talk with other podcasters in particular the Hidden Swing: http://hiddenswing.comBlack Ring website is up! http://blackringrighthand.comAlso mentioned:We weren't there but we call

Happy Father's Day to you and Happy 50th Episode to us!(If you like listening to Mr Swap Fu, this episode is for you.)Check out the Swinger Subreddit for good swinger discussions:http://www.reddit.com/r/Swingers/Good discussions on orgy management, threesomes vs foursomes and younger swingers woes.Topics:Knowing when to throw in the towel. Cancelling a date when you're feeling down for the sake of your company.Went to the coed Girl Uncorked party! Big fun. Seeing old friends and making new ones.http://www.girlsuncorked.comParty too big? Hosting vs socializing and the role of alcohol in both. We discuss the dirty business of party list management.Frigate Bird Threesome in the Galapagos IslandsCourtesy of Los SwingersShout Outs:Los Swingers -- Thanks for the great photo!Viva the Black Ring!The Hidden Swing Podcast out of Oklahoma -- Thanks for the compliment about Ms Fu's voice!Texas Social Club community on SDC run by Mr. K and the Swinger FairySwinger Apps! Chance Mingle for iPhone and SLS for AndroidPlease c

What's the Fu been up to?Desire trip -- borrowed partners and the soggy grapes of wrathCareer changes and plane old problemsAn orgiastic experience. More more more.Tonight's TopicWhat does your partner do that annoys you?Maybe a size queen should take a turn for the team.Side bar about Pillow PrincessesWhy won't my wife have rough sex with me?Always being late is annoying your partner.Drop the Kabuki and get her to the playroom quicker!Make sure your partner is taken care of before you get busy with the other woman.Shout outs to our fellow podcasters:  Find them on iTunes!Los SwingersAverage SwingersLifestyle OutloudSwinging AroundLess Than VanillaAnd also to our friends Mike Litoris and Ms LitorisWelcome back to the guy with the hat!Read the awesome Reddit Q&A with the marketing manager from Trapeze:http://www.reddit.com/r/IAmA/comments/1a5dqh/iama_swingers_club_employee_ama/Please join us at Desire in 2014!Episode song "The Keepers" by Santigold. The album is Master of My Make-Believe. Wow, what an

A quick update...Are you in the lifestyle and don't even know it?odds and ends: side benefits of being in the LSThe staycation party idea. You and four of your closest friends hanging at your house.  Hire someone to come in and make breakfast?Going to Desire with Swingercast, March 23 - 30.  More details at Swingercast.comEpisode music: Florida pop stalwarts The Black Kids bring it with "I'm Not Gonna Teach Your Boyfriend How to Dance with You" off 2008's Partie Traumatic.  Add them to your playlist!  (The Cemetery Lips EPs is pretty rad too.) The Swap Fu podcast contains explicit, adult content, intended for listeners 18 years of age or older. The Swap Fu Podcast is intended for entertainment purposes only. We are not health or sexuality professionals and anything we say should not be construed as professional advice. Please contact us: swapfu@gmail.com Follow us on Twitter @swapfu Call us at 609-3SWAPFU Just remember Your Marriage May Vary!

A quick catch up after oh so many months!We spent the summer sober.  What was that like?Party Recap: The OktoberFUstWe went to Desire Pearl!  Not with a group... interesting times.What to bring to a house party or just etiquette in general?  Look here:http://what-is-swinging.com/swinging-etiquette.htmThis episode's music is "Loveliest Creature" by Savoir Adore on the album Our Nature.  Check them out!!  The whole album is great. The Swap Fu podcast contains explicit, adult content, intended for listeners 18 years of age or older. The Swap Fu Podcast is intended for entertainment purposes only. We are not health or sexuality professionals and anything we say should not be construed as professional advice. Please contact us: swapfu@gmail.com Follow us on Twitter @swapfu Call us at 609-3SWAPFU Just remember Your Marriage May Vary!

Beat the heat! Stay indoors and swing!2-1/2 months since our last podcast... staying busy and lots of fun.Our dating attempts have been mixed at best.  Parents!  Give your kids a break and get out of the house.How experienced are we?  Mr Swap Fu says we're still new.  Are we old and creepy?  You be the judge!1, 2, 3, 4 party fouls!The episode song is "Make Light" by Passion Pit on the album Manners.  The whole album is excellent and would make for great poolside listening this summer.  Give it a spin and sip on a cocktail.Click here to download this podcast. The Swap Fu podcast contains explicit, adult content, intended for listeners 18 years of age or older. The Swap Fu Podcast is intended for entertainment purposes only. We are not health or sexuality professionals and anything we say should not be construed as professional advice. Please contact us: swapfu@gmail.com Follow us on Twitter @swapfu Call us at 609-3SWAPFU Just remember Your Marriage May Vary!

A 10 minutes topic turns into a freefrom, hour-long conversation about our recent trip to Desire Resort and Spa in the Mayan Riviera with the Swingercast group.Observations and tipsThere weren't many tan lines at Desire, so we decided to bring you this song by the band Tanlines from Brooklyn.  The song is called "All of Me" off the album Mixed Emotions. The Swap Fu podcast contains explicit, adult content, intended for listeners 18 years of age or older. The Swap Fu Podcast is intended for entertainment purposes only. We are not health or sexuality professionals and anything we say should not be construed as professional advice. Please contact us: swapfu@gmail.com Follow us on Twitter @swapfu Call us at 609-3SWAPFU Just remember Your Marriage May Vary!

Recapping Podcast CommentsCuckolds are people tooThe good and the bad of the effects of swinging on self-imageWhy we don't have guests on our podcastSwing can only be improved but never masteredTopic: What's next for the Fu?Continue self-improvement: mind as well as bodyGoing to Desire! It's a just a trip to the beach, really.How we're going to dirty up a perfectly good summerStepping up the dating game and how we've been meeting new peopleA story about trying to live with more honestyWhat has the Fu been up to?The Mardi Gras party the rocked!Event host sticker mix up on KasidieMeeting swinger friends at a vanilla clubGoing to monthly podcastsEpisode song is "Lately" by The Helio Sequence.  Find more about this Portland, Oregon band at: http://myspace.com/theheliosequence The Swap Fu podcast contains explicit, adult content, intended for listeners 18 years of age or older. The Swap Fu Podcast is intended for entertainment purposes only. We are not health or sexuality professionals and anything we s

OpeningToronto city officials asked to license swinger's clubs? http://cnews.canoe.ca/CNEWS/Canada/2012/01/16/19251646.html?cid=rssnewscanadaA flurry of Swinger Grindr-like apps for mobile phones. Expect more anti-competitive craziness, a la SDC and Lifestyle Longue.  Talk about the Adult Friend Finder bullshit date.After so much talk about of monogam-ish relationships... where are the swingers, Mr Savage? Neglecting to consult one of the many swinger sages seems a little strange.TopicThe top three changes in our perception or things we have learned in the last two years of swinging. ClosingRemember: You can post anonymous comments to our blog: http://swapfu.blogspot.com.  Respond to us there if you want people to see it.  Emails and dating sites messages are OK for private stuff, but post comments to our blog is an easy way to share with other listeners.Getting the cops called on us.Expanded explanation of guest list management.  Read email.Upcoming Mardi Gras party: Feb 18Not t

The Spanker RevealedOpeningSwingers getting a bad wrap from shows like “Disappeared”Swingers at a family event.  What happened? Pro tip: Just invite smart friends ;)TopicsGet Togethers -- Woop Woop!There ain’t no such thing as a small get togetherMust develop a party checklist -- the checklist manifesto by Atul GawandeWe played the LMFAO Pandora station at our get together... Best. Idea. Ever.Good success show less-threatening porn for parties: Sapphic Erotica and Andrew BlakeGuest list management: Don't invite a couple to a party just because you like one of them. Odds are their other half won't be liked by anyone else either. Discussing the ongoing single guy dilemma.Burning Up at Re-entry AKA the Sunday to Monday crash-- The dream-wake state of that first Monday morning meeting. Your head is still partying naked with a bunch of swingers and but your body is sitting on a conference call with Milwaukee.-- You have to keep quiet about what you did while your coworkers regale you with stories about bowlin

What's the Fu been up to?Co-hosting a party.  Shared responsibilities. Opportunity to meet new people.Swinger friends rule because they get excited and bring drinks, snacks and toys!  They also care better care of your stuff and have fun!Staying sober until 11:30 helped Mr Fu.As hosts, be ready to meet people.  "Welcome to our home!"Shout Outs:Thank you for "flood" of responses to the gusher topicThree doctors weighing inWe've got a lot of practice ahead of usYounger swingersThey play, andWe've witnessed it! Thank you A and APlans:Continue smaller get togethersGushing practice!The New Years Eve dilemmaOur music for this episode is, once again, Metric.  This time the song is "Help, I'm Alive" off the album Fantasies. The Swap Fu podcast contains explicit, adult content, intended for listeners 18 years of age or older. The Swap Fu Podcast is intended for entertainment purposes only. We are not health or sexuality professionals and anything we say should not be construed as professional advi

Hang in there for fun! -- Photo courtesy of Cliff and JaimeWhat did the Fu do?Full Moon PartyPhoto shoot: The beauty and the... where did he go?Thanksgiving vs Friends Giving vs Black FridayEnjoying having friends overGuy with the hat updateWe had an anniversary.  Thank you for the well wishesTopicMs Swap Fu wants to learn more about female ejaculationSquirting? Prevalence squirting101.comShout OutSafety first! -- Photo courtesy of Cliff and JaimeSex swing camouflage pictures! Thank you Cliff and Jaime for the awesome photos.The Fu loves "The League" watch it on NetflixBlog comment regarding younger swingers and whether or not they ever get down to business.  They did at 4 AM after the pub crawlThank you! Thank you! Thank you!Support Planned Parenthood this holiday season!I can't believe it's taken us this long to feature a song by Future Islands! We've been listening to this band pretty much non-stop for the last few months. This episode's song is "Walking Through that Door" on the album I

Shout outs to long haul truckers, Australian travelers and  http://caramelcraze.com/ (Great website!!)What's been bugging the Fu's?Learning to embrace age differencesDifferent Swinging StylesAnd being in the moment... (Thank you Doris!)Also... Halloween Party recap!We're going to the Moon Party at Pace Bend Park... come join us!!Episode Music "Never Saw the Point" by Cults.  Awesome music. :)Sorry for our audio problems... damn USB mics are giving me fits on my slow laptop. The Swap Fu podcast contains explicit, adult content, intended for listeners 18 years of age or older. The Swap Fu Podcast is intended for entertainment purposes only. We are not health or sexuality professionals and anything we say should not be construed as professional advice. Please contact us: swapfu@gmail.com Follow us on Twitter @swapfu Call us at 609-3SWAPFU Just remember Your Marriage May Vary!

Pre-production notes!!Tell us you're not a little impressed.Thank you for your blog comments and voicemails!Warming up the house slowlyMas Vegas: Some more details given in context of how we don't go into detailsMindfulness: Were we in the right headspace?Thank you Dan Savage for giving us some insight on the dating mind -- we're all newbies so -- cut yourself some slackMr Swap Fu is The Period WhispererGirls Uncorked reduxThis episode's music is "Electronic Fences" by Computer Magic, a solo project based out of Brooklyn -- More information at thecomputermagic.com The Swap Fu podcast contains explicit, adult content, intended for listeners 18 years of age or older. The Swap Fu Podcast is intended for entertainment purposes only. We are not health or sexuality professionals and anything we say should not be construed as professional advice. Please contact us: swapfu@gmail.com Follow us on Twitter @swapfu Call us at 609-3SWAPFU Just remember Your Marriage May Vary!

We're finally moved into the new place... mostly.  We're back!Ms Swap Fu gets Uncorked.  Join the Girls Uncorked chapter in your city.Las Vegas trip highlights and tips and tricks for swinger travel newbiesThe Sex-Related InjuryWe talk about staying active in the lifestyle during a life transitionFuGrrl wants to know how you gracefully exit a sexual situation that just got weird... email her FuGrrl@gmail.comThank you for the your patience, emails and iTunes reviews.  Hopefully we're back on schedule now.Enjoy this episode's hot, hot music "Come Closer" by Miles KaneFollow @SwapFu and @FuGrrl on Twitter The Swap Fu podcast contains explicit, adult content, intended for listeners 18 years of age or older. The Swap Fu Podcast is intended for entertainment purposes only. We are not health or sexuality professionals and anything we say should not be construed as professional advice. Please contact us: swapfu@gmail.com Follow us on Twitter @swapfu Call us at 609-3SWAPFU Just remember Your Marriage

What's the Fu been up to? Ms Swap Fu gets her kink on with a guy in LederhosenMs Swap Fu meets Johnny TaserBooty call -- Buffalo Wild Wings interruptedThe Trojan Truck -- Where's the Wienermobile when you need it?Hotel party -- Our party planned shared. Good setup TopicSelf-improvement and the lifestyle What can you work on? What do you do about what you can't work on? Repetition is your best tool The sweet gift of the emotionally mature relationship -- allowing yourself to feel big feelings without the world implodingAnnouncementsFollow Fugrrl on Twitter!Thanks for iTunes reviewsShout out to South Carolina Lizard SexThe music for this episode is in remembrance of the incomparable Amy Winehouse who died tragically since our last podcast. Ms Winehouse sang her way into my wife's heart to become her favorite singer. I too was fan. The song is "Back to Black" from the album of the same name. Rest in peace, sad little bird. The Swap Fu podcast contains explicit, adult content, intended for listeners 18 year

What did the Fu do?Meeting our hot friends at the amazing Swinger Mecca: Trapeze AtlantaTopicSwinger date dynamics. Get private!Never the hook up -- you see them over and over and you never hook upThe Jackknifed four-wayGuys that can't stop watching their girl and the power of the switchbackThis and ThatAfter-party participant selection. Yes, you still have to plan.Should we disclose our online presence?We're going to Vegas Sept 23. What are you doing?Thank you for the iTunes love!Short Bus by John Cameron Mitchell movie discussionEpisode music is "Topaz" by the Athens, GA band The B-52s. Not only does this song honor of our friends in Atlanta, but also it's Mr Swap Fu's favorite by this most excellent band... Tin Roof! Rusted. The Swap Fu podcast contains explicit, adult content, intended for listeners 18 years of age or older. The Swap Fu Podcast is intended for entertainment purposes only. We are not health or sexuality professionals and anything we say should not be construed as professional advice.

Howdy!Your friendly neighborhood swingers, the Fu's take you to the river as they rundown the highs and lows of the Krewe of Swingtown Guadalupe River TripBattling vanillas for river dominationIn praise of Boris and Doris and the Swingercast FriendsTopic:Mr Swap Fu talks about relearning to bringing flirting back to his vanilla life.  Where do you draw the line?Announcements:We're going to Vegas!  Come meet us!  Sept. 23 - 26What a Canadian public health worker might looklike after visiting a swinger club back room.In the news:Canadian public health research zeros in on swingersAsk Amy weighs in on swingingEnjoy!!In honor of our delirious weekend, we've chose "My Delirium" by Ladyhawke as the episode song.  The album is called Ladyhawke.  We've been listening to this album a lot... haven't fucked to it yet, but that's just a matter of time. The Swap Fu podcast contains explicit, adult content, intended for listeners 18 years of age or older. The Swap Fu Podcast is intended

FeedbackPeople ask us about our musical tastes.  We generally broaden our musical selections by listening to channels we like on Pandora.Our favorite stations are:LadytronAu Revoir SimoneThe Ting TingsThe KillersThe SoundsMr. Swap Fu mourns his 20's last to grunge.Condom update: Female condoms... Out! (Thanks Allie)What's the Fu been up to?Enjoying the what all our efforts have yielded.  You should too!Two amazing datesThe new walk of shame!Super fun night at Mystique!Odds and EndsIsrael police raid swingers party looking for potNew listener erotica page starting this week.  Thank you!!Krewe of Swingtown River Trip in a couple weeksThank you!  We love our listeners and thank you for the amazing iTunes reviews!To J.  Hang in there, baby!!As much as it pains us, this episode's music is "Cherry Pie" by Warrant.  Our salute to the Hair Bands.  Regarding this song...Mr Swap Fu: This song is ridiculous!Ms Swap Fu: Ridiculously awesome! The Swap Fu podcast contains explicit, adult

Shout outsPositive reviews on iTunes. Keep them coming, they help us share the podcast with other swingers and wanna be swingers.Always, thank you to our awesome listeners and twitter followersFu NewsNaked Condom’s $56 dozen.  Naked FoundationWii Dare you to buy this game. More infoTopicRelated to Friends First, Fuck First.  Is it a Part II?: Thank you to the listeners for supplying topic.  How to touch base in the middle of the date to pull the handbrake, or on the positive, let your partner know you want to escalate.Make a Plan and a Plan BMake a communication plan, set a timeAt clubSay hi to friendTalk to DJ, bartenderAt dateText your partner from bathroomLeg squeezeMake it clear that you do not necessarily play on the first dateLimit pre-date conversation: Front-loading date too muchWhere are we going?River Trip June 24 - 26WE LOVE OUR LISTENERS!!We are featuring the song "Breathe" by Telepopmusik as the episode song because we took a short breather away from the podcast to rethink a few t