The Chick Whisperer Podcast

There's plenty of talk about there on how to score first dates and what to do when you get there. But what about SECOND dates? Now that you know the two of you like each other enough to go out again, THEN WHAT? Is she going to expect to be your steady girlfriend? How can you tell if she's really into you or just giving you a second chance not to mess up? Shouldn't you have kissed her by now? My guest co-host is none other than Tripp from TrippAdvice.com, who's the perfect guy to help nail down answers to all these crazy questions and more...including how to get physical and even what to plan the second time around as opposed to the first. As a special bonus, you'll even get some 'third date hacks' that'll help you keep the ball rolling if you really like her. On top of all else, we hear from Josh in Philly regarding a particular 2nd date disaster he had to endure. Let's just say figuring out who should pay for the second date can get complicated, as can figuring out what went wrong when things go awry. Get da

Sure, there are TONS of books out there on the Internet about how to get your ex back...but what if the relationship is officially DONE for? How do you bounce back FASTER and STRONGER rather than wallowing around in self-pity pining away for her. My co-host Daniel Dennick is the man behind Over Her Overnight and his mission is to help YOU leave your past behind instead of leaving your behind in the past. Wait until you hear some of his 'recovery hacks'...and better yet, wait until you hear the crazy stories BOTH of us have to tell on this subject. Believe me, just about every guys has been left a wreck after a rough breakup, ourselves included. Daniel and I also answer a voicemail from Marius in New Jersey, who has had one too many bad experiences with women and is thinking he flat-out isn't attracted to ANY of them any more. As a reminder, if you like what you hear please leave us a review. Definitely also subscribe to the X & Y Communications newsletter at http://www.chickwhispering.com. === HELP US SEN

What guy hasn't stopped and asked himself at some point if ALL women are crazy? Well, who better to ponder such deep questions with than a woman? So I invited Heather Havenwood from Dating Triggers to be my co-host, and what do you know? She gladly accepted. (I think, 'What took you so long?' were her exact words.) Now, you may know that the whole topic of psycho chicks is a rather touchy one for me, so you can expect the epic rant you bargained for. What you might NOT be expecting is what Heather contributes to the conversation. In the end, you're guaranteed to be one step farther away from getting tangled up with the WRONG woman. All this and more, after we answer a solid voicemail from David in Oklahoma who asks, 'Where am I supposed to meet women?' Here's a hint: don't even think about 'man spandex'. Are you man enough to accept The Big 4 Man Challenge? http://www.big4man.com === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE TO GREAT MEN EVERYWHERE === We'll keep the solid, actionable content coming...all for free. If you lov

We love women. We love having sex with women. We've heard that women love to have sex with us also. But how is it that some guys seem to turn women on so effortlessly, while the vast majority of others are left completely mystified? In case you haven't heard already, the ability to make women hot for you is a learned skill...the art of creating 'sexual tension'. Tragically, most men completely misunderstand the concept, if they bother to even TRY to wrap their heads around it at all...hence the proliferation of bad texting and lame sexual innuendo that goes on. So what in the world ARE we talking about here? How DO you make it happen? And how are we supposed to reconcile being a 'sexual threat' with the recent proliferation of YouTube videos that would have us believe we're practically rapists if we even talk to a woman on the street? Most of all, how come all of those pickup artists who were telling us that 'marriage is for wimps' back in 2005 all have wives and kids now? New Yorker Chris 'Sixty' Anderson jo

The newest (and arguably biggest) trend in sex over the past few years has been to get female porn stars to teach guys how to pleasure women. As you may know, I've always been extremely skeptical that this whole phenomenon was backed by any real substance. Well, after years of simply avoiding the issue, I've finally invited Joshua Rose, the man behind Porn Star Sex Life, to sit in as co-host and hash this whole thing out once and for all. Is Josh simply hiring the sexiest adult film vixens he can find to teach his programs, or are these women really qualified? And what about porn itself...can guys actually learn anything valid from watching it, or is porn consumption leading to mostly BAD habits in the bedroom? And wait...how did Joshua get this gig to begin with? Get ready for a barrage of more shockingly honest answers than you're probably expecting. As if all of that didn't make for enough controversy, Joshua and I also handle a voicemail from Mike In Cincinnati, whose wife has given him a 'hall pass' to s

Prior to his current high-profile run for a US Congress seat in California, Antonio Sabato, Jr. was a former Calvin Klein underwear model who's perhaps best known for his role on TV's General Hospital. He's been in countless movies and TV shows since, and along the way has been with women like Pamela Anderson, Jennifer Love Hewitt, Virginia Madsen and Madonna. Now he's giving out all of his advice about women on his blog. Believe me, I know what you're wondering...and yes, I asked him ALL of those questions and more. So what can this guy POSSIBLY have to say that relates to you and me? Well, suffice it to say you're about to find out as you listen to this truly unique episode...which could be the strangest and most surprising one ever. Just to make things even more interesting, Antonio and I answer a great voicemail from Jason in Oakland, California who wonders how often he should call or text a woman between the first and second dates. If you're not yet getting the X & Y Communications newsletter, what a

Mark Manson is a former pickup artist, wildly popular blogger, world traveler and now the wildly-popular New York Times bestselling author of The Subtle Art Of Not Giving A F*uck. He checked in for this episode from Ho Chi Minh City, Vietnam to share adventure stories with me about world travel and the women you're likely to meet along the way. What's it like to immerse oneself in both the best AND the worst that India can possibly throw at you? What's it REALLY like to be in a Muslim country? And most of all, what are the most surprising ways that travel changes you as a human being? Count on hearing some crazy stories about everything from chess to cricket, even as we debate the psychology behind the mystique surrounding foreign women. We also throw everything we've got at a seriously deep e-mail from another Mark in Twin Falls, Idaho. He asks the existential question that haunts millions of men all over the world: 'How on Earth can I pull an endless stream of hotties while still indulging my boundless pass

It's no secret that women think differently than we as men do, therefore their actions are oftentimes difficult to interpret. It can drive us stark raving nuts...as well as keeping us from enjoying the company of the very women we desire the most. Well, this time I'm joined by Craig Miller, who has recently authored something called the Sexual Decoder System. He's about to reveal to you some shocking secrets about the type of hints and 'hidden messages' that women send us all the time when they're attracted to us, but which most men completely miss. The truth is pretty straightforward: if you're missing the signals, you're missing out on a LOT of women in your life. But the good news is once you know what to look for, your fortunes with women will increase exponentially...and fast. While we're at it, we address a voicemail from Chris in San Diego who's not exactly a 'party guy', but he finds himself particularly attracted to 'party GIRLS'. Does he stand a chance at getting in on the action he wants? And if so

It's been in the works for over two years now, but the stars have finally aligned and my co-host this time around is none other than Dr. Robert Glover of 'No More Mr. Nice Guy' fame. If you know anything about this guy's work, you've already figured out that he and I think a lot alike when it comes to how masculinity and femininity ignite each other. Well, in this episode we engage the epic topic of how to be a quintessentially high quality masculine man. What's more, we reveal how to be intentional about it in a way that demonstrates you know exactly what you're doing. I can double-dog guarantee you that once you've taken in this fluff-free hour of top-notch content you'll be igniting femaleness like some sort of masculine pyromaniac (which is a very good thing). Just to make sure this episode truly blows you away, we also answer a voice mail from Robert in Indiana on how to raise our sons to be real men. Have you taken advantage of all the inexpensive but action-packed Kindle e-books on Amazon yet? If not,

Let's face it, it's good to have a strong, powerful sex drive. The horny life is the good life, and unfortunately a lot of guys only fully realize that after it's too late. It's for that exact reason that I welcome sexpert Jason Julius from Orgasm Arts as my co-host on this episode. Jason's one of those completely cool, down-to-earth sex teachers who tells it like it is without a lot of "woo-woo" stuff to get in the way. Discover what his three pillars to a consistently high sex drive are, and how you can make sure yours are always, um...rock solid. Don't worry, I made sure to ask all the questions everyone else might have been too shy to. We also answer a particularly good voice mail question from Tim in Oakland, CA who wants to know what to do when you'd like to get frisky with a woman but don't have a place of your own. Have you heard the news? The brand new book Stop Chasing, Start Choosing has just been released on Amazon.com. It's comes with 10 audio programs for free: http://www.stopchasingstartchoosin

All too many times, we as guys start stockpiling a series of 'limiting beliefs' without really paying much attention. Over time, our self-perceived challenges start looking so insurmountable that we're more likely to give up than to try to tackle such a formidable list. But that's where my new friend Greg Palumbo comes in. According to him, the best way to get a handle on EVERY potential issue keeping you from greatness in virtually every area of life is actually to handle just ONE of them. Weirdly, he also claims that a very easy 'metabolic trick' is the answer. And check it out...he just may be on to something because dude's been walking his talk, majorly. You'll be able to tell immediately that this guy is the real deal, simply by the enthusiasm in his voice as he spills his secrets. We also answer a solid voicemail from Raj in DC, who asks how in the world to figure out what kind of woman is best to get into a long-term relationship with. Have you grabbed your copy of Women Made Easy on Amazon.com yet? It

By popular request from literally dozens of you over the past couple of years, I'm joined on this episode by my brother from a different McKay mother...that's none other than Brett McKay from the wildly popular Art Of Manliness blog. The topic we just HAD to hit was what it means to be a real man in today's modern world. Sure, you may not have to defend Sparta with an undermanned army, but you DO have to know what it means to be a man in the way women can't get enough of. And yes...you've also got to have some key knowledge down nowadays that ancient Greek badasses never had to concern themselves with. Look forward to some seriously profound new insights into what being a man is all about, as Brett has done at least as much thinking--and probably twice as much writing--as I have on all of this stuff. We also answer a voicemail from Jacob in Albuquerque, who's definitely barking up the wrong tree when it comes to finding the right place to meet like-minded women...geez, dude. If you haven't heard about Female

Why is it so hard for us as guys to get our lives on track and get on with the business of 'living the dream'? Is it that we're too lazy? Are we not talented enough? Or is it something else? Listen in as my co-host Zach Browman drops some shocking truth about why laziness is probably a MYTH (at least as you know it), and how you can finally start outperforming the true slackers in your graduating class. Wait until you get a load of what Zach has to say--rest assured you'll laugh yourself to sleep tonight thinking about how easy it really is to kick your life into gear and get women to naturally want you. We also answer a really good voicemail question from Rene in 'Nawlins' on how to handle women who are rude are disrespectful to you, but who you can't exactly just walk away from--like co-workers, relatives, etc. If you've never gotten around to checking out Zach Browman's killer anti-procrastination program Find Your Focus, don't put it off another second. You can find it at http://www.thechickwhisperer.com/

It was over a few beers in Las Vegas that my co-host Dean Cortez and I decided it was time to 'break the mold' and do a completely different episode of this show. Suffice it to say that's exactly what you're about to experience. Join Mr. M.A.C.K. Tactics himself and I for a totally off-the-wall and at times completely inappropriate rant on those crazy women you see on shows like Bridezillas and Real Housewives of NJ. While we're at it, we segue into a frank discussion of how likely it is you'll actually find the woman of your dreams in another country as opposed to her getting her green card and ruining you shortly thereafter. Dean currently lives in the Philippines, so you can bet he's got a take on that. Finally, we go back and forth in response to Nate in Sacramento's question about whether or not it's a good idea to date single moms. As a special free gift, you can download Dean's decidedly edgy but totally kickin' e-book called The S.W.A.T. guide just by visiting http://www.thechickwhisperer.com/mack. It

Just when you think you've heard it all when it comes to sex advice, I get an upstart 'sexpert' like Adam Armstrong to co-host the big show with me. And there's really no question about it...you're about to hear stuff talked about that has probably NEVER been discussed publicly. Never mind the bit where we recommend exactly what to do when either you or she farts during the heat of passion. The important part is we're going to give you real, practical ways to identify the truly sexual tiger-lilies out there in the female universe (and sorry Frank from Michigan, they're NOT at the strip clubs). Plus, you'll hear what foods to eat and which to avoid in order to maximize your sexual performance--even delivering a marked increase in your 'payload'. There's much, much more where that came from, of course. It all kicks off with a rant on how rough a week it's been for everyone else on Earth named 'Armstrong' except for Adam--whose girlfriend is apparently capable of ANYTHING in the bedroom. By all means, check out

What does it mean to truly be erotic, and why does it drive women so crazy? Join my illustrious co-host Allana Pratt and me as we talk about how to separate yourself from other guys who focus only on the 'sexual' without exploring the deeper side of male/female polarity. Allana reveals powerful secrets to being the man who turns women on at their very core, giving new meaning to the phrase 'getting physical'. While we're at it, I get Allana to explain why women can indulge in romance novels and 'literotica' even as they get angry and jealous at men for watching porn. (What's up with that, anyway?) In keeping with the theme of the show, we also answer a short but sweet voicemail from Randy in New York, who wants to know how to keep his long-term relationship from getting stale and boring. Wait until you hear the answer to that one...it's most likely not what you expect. Be sure to get your free report called '6 Secrets To Meeting An Amazing Woman Online' when you visit www.onlinedatingdomination.com, and check

Remember back in school when everyone wanted to be one of the 'cool kids'? Well, nothing has really changed, huh? Sure, it's great to be invited to happy hour after work with all the movers and shakers in your office, but what if you could really take your social life to a level that most guys can only dream of? Imagine hanging out on a regular basis with rock stars, multi-millionaires and even political leaders. Check this, not only has my co-host Greg Greenway of Social Circle Training pulled that off, he's about to show you how to adjust YOUR reality accordingly as well. Listen closely as he throws down some GOLDEN advice on how to win friends and influence people that would make Dale Carnegie himself jealous. Just for good measure, we also answer a voicemail from Jake who's dealing with the revelation that his current girlfriend is a bit more (ahem...) 'experienced' than he had previously thought. Visit www.onlinedatingdomination.com and grab your copy of my free report '6 Secrets To Meeting An Amazing Wo

I hope this doesn't shock you, but guess what? There really ISN'T a designated place and/or time to meet women. The raw truth is that women are all around you...all the time...all day long. The only real question is what are YOU going to do about it? Are you equipped to interact freely with ANY and EVERY woman you see as you go about your daily life? Join my co-host Lance Mason from Pickup 101 and me as we go WAY, WAY beyond what's commonly known as 'daygame' and get down to what a full-on LIFESTYLE of meeting and relating to women can really, truly look like. Amazingly, you (yes, YOU) could get to know more women TODAY if you only made the best of your regular trips to, say, the gym and the supermarket. Lance and I have got your back, with the often-requested practical tips you can use in BOTH places--even if we pretty much openly DISAGREE on some of them. Hey...we report, you decide. Plus, we answer a truly challenging question from Corey in Pittsburgh on what happens when gay friends start setting you up w

Who knows? You might be planning on traveling to or even full-on relocating permanently to a new country. On the other hand, you might simply be ready to add some diversity to your dating life. Either way, this long-overdue episode is for you. Join my illustrious co-host J.T. Tran from ABC's Of Attraction as we show you how to get all kinds of women in your life...literally. Count on a frank discussion of how to overcome cultural challenges when relocating to a NEW country with NEW women, as well as a no-holds-barred session where we throw even the most politically incorrect questions on the table and deal with them in broad daylight. No matter who you are or where you're coming from, we've got you covered. We also tackle a voicemail from John in Denver on how to handle 'The Non-Exclusivity Talk' with women. Finally, stay tuned for a brand-new feature segment that will be part of every show from now on. If you haven't experienced The Difference yet, now is the time. Head to www.thedifferenceinfo.com to grab y

Finally...here's the long-awaited and highly requested show that covers all the 'basics' for guys who are just starting out on the road to getting better with women. It doesn't matter whether you're young and gaining experience, coming off of a long-term relationship and thinking about dating again or simply flat-out late to the party...this is for YOU. Join my main man Bobby Rio from TSBmag.com for a rapid-fire discussion of everything you need to know to make sure you're on the fast track--which can also be the FAST track, no doubt. And by the way, just because Bobby and I talk about the fundamentals in this episode, that doesn't mean that even the most experienced ladies' man out there won't mine a golden nugget or two from the conversation. Also for the younger guys out there, we answer a voice mail from Austin in San Antonio who wants to know how to meet high quality women in College. Visit www.thedifferenceinfo.com and snap up a free copy of my special report 'Drive Her Wild With Sexual Attraction'. ===