Informações:
Sinopse
Welcome to By the Bi, a podcast for anyone interested in learning a bit more about bisexuality, the swinger community, open relationships, BDSM and everything else your vanilla friends refuse to talk with you about.Join your hosts, a bisexual expat couple in Sydney Australia, as each episode we chat about ourselves, our experiences, and our relationships. We look forward to addressing specific questions or issues that you might have as well; so pull up a chair, grab a cocktail and listen in. Oh and, by the by, we're glad you're listening.
Episódios
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161 - Listener Questions
12/06/2019 Duração: 59minHello hello! We had a bunch of listener comments and questions and thought it was time to do a Q&A podcast again.We discuss our recent podcast on Sex Positive Parenting, checking our insecurities at the door, and how sexy The Gentleman is; plus much more!Once again and by popular demand, The Gentleman is back to help us tackle some of these questions.If you have questions, comments, or rude remarks, please don’t hesitate to reach out to us!So take a breath and make sure you don’t make the sheets too moist.Proudly part of the Swingset.fm team!Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat hereFind us on social media!!!On Twitter @BytheBiPodcastOn Facebook BytheBiPodcastOn Instagram @BytheBiPodcastOr email us hereWanna get your own prize from Geeky Sex Toys? Head over here!Please help out, and donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here!Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on! Get b
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160 - Pendulum X
04/06/2019 Duração: 01h04minHAPPY PRIDE MONTH! Now let's talk about some bisexuality!!!Once again, in this episode, we invite The Gentleman back to talk bisexuality and swinging as we tell tales of our tenth (Yes you read that correctly!) Pendulum Party.We'll telling all of the deepest darkest secrets from Pendulum X and all of the naughty sexcapades that we had.So bite the pillow... this one might sting a bit.Proudly part of the Swingset.fm team!Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat hereFind us on social media!!!On Twitter @BytheBiPodcastOn Facebook BytheBiPodcastOn Instagram @BytheBiPodcastOr email us hereWanna get your own prize from Geeky Sex Toys? Head over here!Please help out, and donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here!Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on! Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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159 - The Great Gangbang
28/05/2019 Duração: 01h11minAt the beginning of May Angela wanted to celebrate her 40th birthday in style. So the team at Our Secret Spot organized for her to have a gang bang that finished with bukake.We invited The Gentleman back to recall the event... which was pretty spectacular. In this podcast we will describe the setup and the action, what it was like to be a participant and a spectator. We'll also give advice on how to behave if you are ever given the opportunity to participate in your own gangbang scenario.So grab the headboard... this one might get a bit rough.Proudly part of the Swingset.fm team!Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat hereFind us on social media!!!On Twitter @BytheBiPodcastOn Facebook BytheBiPodcastOn Instagram @BytheBiPodcastOr email us hereWanna get your own prize from Geeky Sex Toys? Head over here!Please help out, and donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here!Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you
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158 - Sex Positive Parenting
22/05/2019 Duração: 01h13minIn this podcast we talk with Dr. Deb (Dr. Deborah Bateson) and Christy (Dr. Christy Newman) about sex positive parenting. We explore how to raise the issue of sexuality with children, starting the conversation, and sexual education in general. We discuss ways to create an open and safe home environment. A central theme is communicating on an age appropriate and child appropriate level in each family. And finally, how and when do you talk to your children about porn?Links we talk about in the podcast are:The Amazing True Story Of How Babies Are Made by Fiona Katauskas - https://www.harpercollins.com.au/9780733333880/the-amazing-true-story-of-how-babies-are-made/ Talk Soon. Talk Often. - https://talksoontalkoften.wordpress.com/ Drawn to Sex: The Basics by Erica Moen & Matthew Nolan - https://onipress.com/products/drawn-to-sex-the-basics Oh Joy Sex Toy by Erica Moen & Matthew Nolan - https://onipress.com/collections/drawntosex/products/oh-joy-sex-toy-volume Body Talk - https://bodytal
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157 - Reproductive Justice
15/05/2019 Duração: 01h09minIn this podcast we talk with Dr. Deb (Dr. Deborah Bateson) and Christy (Dr. Christy Newman) about reproductive justice and awareness. We delve deeply into the diversity in women's health care, access to care, education, reproductive care and choices, male contraception, LARCs, and reproductive coercion. This is an extremely important episode as many of us take for granted our access to healthcare and more specifically birth control.Links we talk about in the podcast are:Queer Generations Study - https://queergenerations.org/Check Out Clinic (Acon) - https://www.theinnercircle.org.au/check-out-clinicFamily Planning NSW - https://www.fpnsw.org.au/Centre for Social Research in Health UNSW - https://csrh.arts.unsw.edu.au Proudly part of the Swingset.fm team!Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat hereFind us on social media!!!On Twitter @BytheBiPodcastOn Facebook BytheBiPodcastOn Instagram @BytheBiPodcastOr email us hereWanna get your
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156 - Angela Returns to the Sauna
07/05/2019 Duração: 57minIn this episode we discuss Angela's solo return to the Bay City Sauna in Melbourne. We discuss her experiences and ultimately we dive into what she is looking for in a play partner when she is on the road and ultimately we answer the question that so so many people want, nay need, to know... How exactly DOES one pick up and hook up with Angela when she is on the road.Proudly part of the Swingset.fm team!Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat hereFind us on social media!!!On Twitter @BytheBiPodcastOn Facebook BytheBiPodcastOn Instagram @BytheBiPodcastOr email us hereWanna get your own prize from Geeky Sex Toys? Head over here!Please help out, and donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here!Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on! Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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155 - Returning to Play & April Wrap Up
30/04/2019 Duração: 56minIn this episode we discuss some of the exploits (sexploits?) that we got up to in April.We also talk about a disconnect that we sometimes feel when we are outside of our tribes and safety zones and how it can be difficult to reintegrate yourself.Proudly part of the Swingset.fm team!Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat hereFind us on social media!!!On Twitter @BytheBiPodcastOn Facebook BytheBiPodcastOn Instagram @BytheBiPodcastOr email us hereWanna get your own prize from Geeky Sex Toys? Head over here!Please help out, and donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here!Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on! Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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154 - The Economics of Swinging... Part 2
23/04/2019 Duração: 01h02minA short while ago we did an episode on the economics of swinging and we were promptly sent a list of more econ terms and a challenge to apply them to the swinging lifestyle. We took up the challenge and I think we did a pretty good job! Don't believe us? Sit down and listen!We take apart a bunch more economic terms and principles and apply them to the swinging.So sit back and enjoy as we dissect Swinganomics!Proudly part of the Swingset.fm team!Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat hereFind us on social media!!!On Twitter @BytheBiPodcastOn Facebook BytheBiPodcastOn Instagram @BytheBiPodcastOr email us hereWanna get your own prize from Geeky Sex Toys? Head over here!Please help out, and donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here!Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on! Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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153 - Angela's First Sauna!
16/04/2019 Duração: 58minShe’s heard Bradford’s tales of the sexy times in the saunas for 6 years.She’s grilled The Gentleman to try and get a better understanding of what a first time sauna experience is actually like.Well, this past weekend, Angela got to experience a night in a sauna for the first time herself and the result can be heard here. Listen as we tell you about our sexy experiences at Bay City Sauna in Melbourne, Australia.We hope you enjoy our sexy tails! So sit back, relax, and grab a cocktail.Proudly part of the Swingset.fm team!Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat hereFind us on social media!!!On Twitter @BytheBiPodcastOn Facebook BytheBiPodcastOn Instagram @BytheBiPodcastOr email us hereWanna get your own prize from Geeky Sex Toys? Head over here!Please help out, and donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here!Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on! Get bonus content on Patreon Ho
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152 - Sexiness on the Road
03/04/2019 Duração: 48minThis week we recorded from a hotel room near LAX during a long layover. We talk about sexy adventures that we both have had whilst traveling, Bradford regails of visiting London and seeing our dear friends, The Bed Hoppers. Angela talks about going back to the first swingers club we ever went to, The House, in North Carolina. Then we talk about the two of us reuniting and meeting friends to go to Menages in Nashville, TN.We hope you enjoy our sexy tails! So sit back, relax, and grab a cocktail.Proudly part of the Swingset.fm team!Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat hereFind us on social media!!!On Twitter @BytheBiPodcastOn Facebook BytheBiPodcastOn Instagram @BytheBiPodcastOr email us hereWanna get your own prize from Geeky Sex Toys? Head over here!Please help out, and donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here!Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on! Get bonus content on
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151 - The Economics of Swinging
26/03/2019 Duração: 01h05minEconomics, a social science concerned chiefly with description and analysis of the production, distribution, and consumption of goods and services... We can apply these same ideas and principles to swinging. Don't believe us? Sit down and listen!We take apart a bunch of economic terms and principles and apply them to the swinging lifestyle!So sit back and enjoy as we dissect Swinganomics!Proudly part of the Swingset.fm team!Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat hereFind us on social media!!!On Twitter @BytheBiPodcastOn Facebook BytheBiPodcastOn Instagram @BytheBiPodcastOr email us hereWanna get your own prize from Geeky Sex Toys? Head over here!Please help out, and donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here!Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on! Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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150 - Neon Wand ... Rainbow or Rambo?
20/03/2019 Duração: 57minWhat is a Neon Wand? A Violet Wand? What is electricity play like? The Gentleman joins us again for a bit of goofing off and a play with the Neon Wand.We discuss the safety of using a Neon Wand (boring but totally necessary) and some basic attachments. Then we get into the exciting part and talk about how to use the wand, what it feels like, and you can just feel the electricity in the air!Also, send us your feedback and let us know if the Gentleman is saying Rainbow or Rambo?? We will put up a Twitter poll!Proudly part of the Swingset.fm team!Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat hereFind us on social media!!!On Twitter @BytheBiPodcastOn Facebook BytheBiPodcastOn Instagram @BytheBiPodcastOr email us hereWanna get your own prize from Geeky Sex Toys? Head over here!Please help out, and donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here!Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on! Get bon
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149 - Sexcapades VI
12/03/2019 Duração: 57minThis episode is dedicated to all of the recent sexy times that we have had. We break down and decompress over recent Tinder dates we've both had and Angela's solo experiences at Our Secret Spot. We then dive deep, ahem, into Pendulum IX and talk about a date we had with a sexy couple once Bradford was back in town.So sit back, relax, and stay sexy.Proudly part of the Swingset.fm team!Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat hereFind us on social media!!!On Twitter @BytheBiPodcastOn Facebook BytheBiPodcastOn Instagram @BytheBiPodcastOr email us hereWanna get your own prize from Geeky Sex Toys? Head over here!Please help out, and donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here!Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on.On iTunes you can do it anonymously:– Start iTunes– Click on the menu ‘Account -> View My Account’– Look for ‘Settings -> Nickname’– Click on ‘Edit Nickname’– Set th
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148 - Mardis Gras Madness
05/03/2019 Duração: 01h05minIn this episode we talk about our recent experience marching on the Bi+Visibility float in the Sydney Mardi Gras. We have a few snippets we recorded with some of the other participants as well. All and all such an amazing experience.We also also talk about our upcoming (okay it’s 250 days away but we’re excited!!!) trip to Desire with the Life on the SwingSet crew.We discuss each of the theme nights and talk about possible costumes for them.So sit back, relax, and stay sexy.Proudly part of the Swingset.fm team!Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat hereFind us on social media!!!On Twitter @BytheBiPodcastOn Facebook BytheBiPodcastOn Instagram @BytheBiPodcastOr email us hereWanna get your own prize from Geeky Sex Toys? Head over here!Please help out, and donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here!Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on.On iTunes you can do it anonymously:– Star
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147 - Replay: The 7 Types of Love
26/02/2019 Duração: 01h15minThis week with all of the travel and preparations for Sydney Mardi Gras, we decided to replay an old favorite of ours that we released on September 20th 2017. We also talk about some of the other exciting things that we have in store for the coming months. Keep an eye out for some great things in the future.Philia, Pragma, and Agape... Oh My! In this episode, we talk about 7 types of love as described by the Greeks. Listen as we try to work out what each one is, how we feel about it, and how it affects us. We discuss how these loves can help us better define our own love for each other and our play partners. If you want to read the article that we used as a source for the podcast you can find it here!Proudly part of the Swingset.fm team!Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat hereFind us on social media!!!On Twitter @BytheBiPodcastOn Facebook BytheBiPodcastOn Instagram @BytheBiPodcastOr email us hereWanna get y
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146 - Sexual Fantasies with Actual Statistical Values
19/02/2019 Duração: 01h03minWe all wonder if we are normal. In an article titled What Exactly is an Unusual Sexual Fantasy published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, lead author Christian Joyal interviewed more than 1500 individuals to discuss their fantasies and then categorized them into Typical, Unusual, or Rare.This week we take his data and break it down for your sexy ears. We discuss the percent of folks (male and female) who have a wide list of fantasies from "having sex with two women" to "urinating on my sexual partner". After discussing the numbers, we talk about our selves and how closely we fit into these categories.Are you normal???? (Spoiler alert... it doesn't matter. You're you, and that's enough.)Proudly part of the Swingset.fm team!Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat hereFind us on social media!!!On Twitter @BytheBiPodcastOn Facebook BytheBiPodcastOn Instagram @BytheBiPodcastOr email us hereWanna get your own prize from Geeky Sex Toys
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145 - Gender Discussions & Club V
13/02/2019 Duração: 56minCurious to know who comes to Club V? You've head us talk about it now listen as Mrs. Atom and special guest Tiffany take you behind the door of the special ladies only event at Our Secret Spot. After, they go on a journey exploring the Ginger Bread Person, or, more accurately, the Genderbread Person...an infographic that breaks down gender. They discuss the different aspects of the graphic and all the parts that make up our gender identity and expression. This leads to a conversation about Club V and some of the women who have attended in the past. It's a complex, personal, and ever changing world, but one worth exploring!Thank you and stay safe!!!!Proudly part of the Swingset.fm team!Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat hereFind us on social media!!!On Twitter @BytheBiPodcastOn Facebook BytheBiPodcastOn Instagram @BytheBiPodcastOr email us hereWanna get your own prize from Geeky Sex Toys? Head over here!Please help out, a
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144 - Safer Sex with Cooper S Beckett
05/02/2019 Duração: 55minWelcome back! In this episode, we invited back Cooper S. Beckett, friend of the podcast and all around awesome guy, to chat about sexual health and what it truly means to "play safe". Join us as we chat with Cooper about what his play style is and what our play styles look like. Sexual health is something that we take very seriously, and so, we think it is extremely important to discuss how we all approach play.Thank you and stay safe!!!!Proudly part of the Swingset.fm team!Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat hereFind us on social media!!!On Twitter @BytheBiPodcastOn Facebook BytheBiPodcastOn Instagram @BytheBiPodcastOr email us hereWanna get your own prize from Geeky Sex Toys? Head over here!Please help out, and donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here!Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on.On iTunes you can do it anonymously:– Start iTunes– Click on the menu ‘Account
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143 - STI Redux
29/01/2019 Duração: 01h03minWelcome back! In this episode we revisit a necessary but not always fun topic...STIs. We collected data from various organisations around the world to discuss the prevalence of STIs. We'll address which STIs are more common than others and along the way there is an impromptu spelling test for Mr. Atom...does he pass?A few STI testing and/or notification services that we mention in the podcast:bettertoknow.org.auletthemknow.org.auwww.stdcheck.comwww.thedramadownunder.infowww.endinghiv.org.auwww.checkhimout.cawww.dontspreadit.comThank you and stay safe!!!!Proudly part of the Swingset.fm team!Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat hereFind us on social media!!!On Twitter @BytheBiPodcastOn Facebook BytheBiPodcastOn Instagram @BytheBiPodcastOr email us hereWanna get your own prize from Geeky Sex Toys? Head over here!Please help out, and donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here!Leave some feedback for us on whatever
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142 - 50 Shades of Crap
22/01/2019 Duração: 01h10minWelcome back dear listener. Since we've started podcasting, we have had so so many people ask us what our thoughts are about the Fifty Shades of Grey movie. Recently, we FINALLY sat down with our notebooks to watch this movie. Oh wow... why did we agree to do this?If you HAVE seen the movie (firstly I'm so sorry) you will listen to us rant, rail, and mock it incessantly. If you haven't, but want to, seriously its been out for 4 years... spoiler alert.So go grab a drink, sit back, and enjoy our suffering.Proudly part of the Swingset.fm team!Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat hereFind us on social media!!!On Twitter @BytheBiPodcastOn Facebook BytheBiPodcastOn Instagram @BytheBiPodcastOr email us hereWanna get your own prize from Geeky Sex Toys? Head over here!Please help out, and donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here!Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on.On iTunes yo