By The Bi

In this episode, we talk with our good friends Naughty and Rocket of Naughty3some fame on Twitter. We were lucky enough to spend a few days traveling the west coast of Australia with them and convinced them we should record a podcast in between adventures.  Along with their history and background, we'll discuss swinging in more remote, less populated areas. We also talk about last years Passion in Paradise trip where we all met face to face for the first time and this year's impending trip to Desire in Mexico. (Needless to say, we are all pretty excited!)So go grab a drink! Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening!  Find us on social media!!!On Twitter @BytheBiPodcastOn Facebook BytheBiPodcastOn Instagram @BytheBiPodcastOr email us hereWant to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat hereWanna get your own prize from Geeky Sex Toys? Head over here!Please help out, and donate to Bi+ Visibil

Holy shit we've made it. 100 episodes!!! From the first 13 episodes where our sound was, admittedly terrible, to all of the education and naughtiness in between; we have been through a lot the last 2 years.Join us as we remember the highlights of this podcast. The things we have done, the pictures we took, the friends we've made. Speaking of friends we have a few of them on here. We talk to many of your favorites in this episode about how THEIR lives have changed since we've been producing podcasts.Thank you so much for sticking with us so far! We will do our best to ensure the next hundred episodes are better than the first!So go grab a drink! Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening!  Find us on social media!!!On Twitter @BytheBiPodcastOn Facebook BytheBiPodcastOn Instagram @BytheBiPodcastOr email us hereWant to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat hereWanna get your own prize f

Hello constant listener! As you know, we've told the "How We Started Swinging" story many a time but we've never let you into our "How We Met" story... UNTIL NOW!This week we talk about our own origin story and just like Bruce Banner and Tony Stark, it's kinda sordid. The Hulk and Ironman have nothing on our origin story! You'll hear about how we met, our first date, our first hookup, when we finally decided to become an item, and when we got engaged.This one is all about history and it's as sexy as it is silly.  So go grab a drink! Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening!  Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcastOr email us hereWant to help us out? Sure you do!!! Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on.On iTunes you can do it anonymously: – Start iTunes – Click on the menu ‘Account -> View My Account’ – Look for ‘Setting

Hello, constant listener and new listeners alike!  This week we review our weekend that had two nights spent at Our Secret Spot including a Sex Ed in the City class and OSS's 4th birthday party which had the place packed to the gills with sexiness.  There was also a crew from SBS filming for a show called Insight on Friday night and we give that crew a very honest, albeit harsh, review.  We also talk about Mr. Atom putting himself out there to ask a lady to play and, in our question of the week, we discuss any dirty thoughts we had this week. All in all this episode is naughty naughty naughty.  (I know like a normal week isn't!)  So go grab a drink!  Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening!   Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on. On iTunes you can do it anonymously: – Start iTunes – Click

This week we are ecstatic to present an interview we had with the amazing Lucie Bee - Sex Worker, Geek, Queer, Activist, Pornstar... The list of this young lady's accomplishments goes on and on.  She's on You Can't Ask That, Triple J, Sexpo Australia, PAX, and featured on the cover of Penthouse magazine.  Lucie sat down with us and we discussed everything from sex work and how we can help make folks safer, to filming porn and pornography, to anal sex... Yeah, we cover A LOT in this hour.  Her passion and enthusiasm for her work are only matched by how approachable and honest she is.  This was such a fun podcast to record. So go grab a drink!  Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening!   Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on. On iTunes you can do it anonymously: – Start iTunes – Click on the

Hello, all and welcome back.  This week we come at you from The Ovation of the Seas.  We start by talking about vacation sex and what makes it so damn amazing and what we can ALL do to make our home sex lives similar to our away sex lives. Next, we had an email in our inbox from a listener about our headspace episodes that we wanted to read a few experts from and comment on.  As ALWAYS thank you to those who write in to us! Lastly, we talk porn.  We recently had a twitter message asking us what kind of porn we recommend; so we give that one an answer.   So go grab a drink!  Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening!   Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on. On iTunes you can do it anonymously: – Start iTunes – Click on the menu ‘Account -> View My Account’ – Look for ‘Settings -> Nickna

NOTE: We are NOT trained therapists, doctors, or advice givers.  We are a couple of sexy freaks who thought it important to chat about something we ALL deal with: depression and how it comingles within the lifestyle. If you feel trapped and like you have nowhere to go and you need to speak with someone please please reach out to one of the many hotlines that can help you! In Australia: Lifeline (13 11 14) is a 24-hour nationwide service that provides access to crisis support, suicide prevention, and mental health support services.  They also offer an online chat service. In the US:  The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (1-800-273-TALK [8255]) is a United States-based suicide prevention network of 161 crisis centers that provides a 24/7, toll-free hotline available to anyone in suicidal crisis or emotional distress. Or find someone in your country here! Finally, there is one that we think is extremely important: The Trevor Project is a US-based organization that provides crisis intervention and suicide pre

NOTE: We are NOT trained therapists, doctors, or advice givers.  We are a couple of sexy freaks who thought it important to chat about something we ALL deal with: depression and how it comingles within the lifestyle. If you feel trapped and like you have nowhere to go and you need to speak with someone please please reach out to one of the many hotlines that can help you! In Australia: Lifeline (13 11 14) is a 24-hour nationwide service that provides access to crisis support, suicide prevention, and mental health support services.  They also offer an online chat service. In the US:  The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (1-800-273-TALK [8255]) is a United States-based suicide prevention network of 161 crisis centers that provides a 24/7, toll-free hotline available to anyone in suicidal crisis or emotional distress. Or find someone in your country here! Finally, there is one that we think is extremely important: The Trevor Project is a US-based organization that provides crisis intervention and suicide pre

Hello, constant listeners (and new listeners alike)! In this episode, we give you a rambling glimpse into our weekends.  We talk about all of our escapades (that we CAN talk about) from this past weekend and you learn why we need more sleep!!!  Listen as we discuss what is getting us excited for the future, our experience at Empire Strips Back, a Star Wars themed burlesque show, a fetish buy/swap/sell, an amazing date, and the official opening to the 40th anniversary of Sydney Mardi Gras, Fair Day! Then we had a question about the number of times we've had sex in a day...  I am going to post a Twitter poll (and a Facebook poll if I can figure it out) to get an idea of YOUR numbers, so please go check it out!   So go grab a drink!  Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening!   Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you liste

HAPPY VALENTINES DAY!!! In this episode, we talk about the mistakes we ALL can make in the bedroom!  How many of these are we guilty of?  More than we might like to admit!  We go through our list and highlight the mistakes and the things that we've done to overcome them.  It isn't always easy to change but it's definitely always worth the effort to build a stronger and happier relationship! So go grab a drink!  Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening!   Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on. On iTunes you can do it anonymously: – Start iTunes – Click on the menu ‘Account -> View My Account’ – Look for ‘Settings -> Nickname’ – Click on ‘Edit Nickname’ – Set the Nickname you would like – Click ‘Submit’ Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more informa

Mr. Atom is BACK baby, and boy does he have some stories to tell.   In this episode, The Atoms talk about what each of them did while Mr. Atom was traveling in and around Amsterdam. Mr. Atom tells tales of a convenient Grindr hookup, meeting one of our listeners who lives in The Netherlands, and perusing the Red Light District on their wedding anniversary. Mrs. Atom talks about her 3 successive nights at Our Secret Spot, culminating in her taking The Gentleman to their Glow Party. Finally, we discuss a topic that was tweeted to us a while back.  One of our followers wanted us to weigh in on the children watching porn and how we keep porn from negatively affecting their adult sex lives. So go grab a drink!  Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening!   Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on. On

This is another episode where Mr. Atom was traveling and Mrs. A had to call in some backup... So, Mrs. Atom called in the ever handsome Gentleman.   In this episode, The Gentleman discusses his first trip, with Mr. Atom, to a couple gay saunas in Sydney and he leaves no stone unturned in the tale! So go grab a drink!  Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening!   Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on. On iTunes you can do it anonymously: – Start iTunes – Click on the menu ‘Account -> View My Account’ – Look for ‘Settings -> Nickname’ – Click on ‘Edit Nickname’ – Set the Nickname you would like – Click ‘Submit’ Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Have you ever wanted to set fire to your partner's loins just with your words?  Do you watch porn and say, "I could never say that to my partner!  I'd sound silly!" Well in this episode we discuss the elusive dirty talk. We hit on the whys and the hows of dropping some dirty love bomb zingers.  From the phases of dirty talk to the vernacular to use, we cover it all!  Plus we have a podcast question that was just silly enough NOT to ignore... WE loved it!!! So go grab a drink!  Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening!   Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on. On iTunes you can do it anonymously: – Start iTunes – Click on the menu ‘Account -> View My Account’ – Look for ‘Settings -> Nickname’ – Click on ‘Edit Nickname’ – Set the Nickname you would like – Click ‘Submit’ Get bonus content

With Mr. Atom travelling this week, Mrs. Atom and a new voice, Chastity, sit down to discuss some of the perils of dating. As a single woman trying to get back into dating after a bit of a hiatus, Chastity highlights some of the biggest challenges faced by singles and couples. Settle in for a listen and a bit of commiseration! Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on. On iTunes you can do it anonymously: – Start iTunes – Click on the menu ‘Account -> View My Account’ – Look for ‘Settings -> Nickname’ – Click on ‘Edit Nickname’ – Set the Nickname you would like – Click ‘Submit’ Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We have a very special installment lined up for this week.  We got 6 of our closet friends together to play a game of "Never Have I Ever" and we recorded the whole thing!   We coerced L0L0 Lady and The Ginger Tramp, Lawrence and Jess from Our Secret Spot, and podcasting virgins, Wazowski and BJ to sit down with us, microphones on and drinks filled, to play a game that many of us hadn't played since our university days.  The instructions were simple.  They were all to come to our place with five questions prepared... and right out of the gate someone came with zero (calling you out Lawrence).  Ultimately we ended up with one of our longest (and most fun) podcasts we had done. So go grab a drink and play along with us!  Or take over/under bets on how long before we lose complete control of the podcast.  Either way, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening!   Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!  We sincerely hope that you have a safe and wonderful new year!  In this episode, we review the week between Christmas Eve and New Year's Eve.  This ended up being an amazing week of 4 trips to Our Secret Spot, 4 days spent with "The Gentleman", 2 different gay saunas, and 1 40th birthday celebration that will go down in the record books.  So much great sex was to be had!!! Listen as we describe my Splish, Splash, Splosh Birthday party/food fight and The New Years Eve celebration at Our Secret Spot. Sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening!   Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcastOn Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on. On iTunes you can do it anonymously: – Start iTunes – Click on the menu ‘Account -> View My Account’ – Look for ‘Settings -> Nickname’ – Click on ‘Edit Nickname’ – Set the Nickname you would like

Welcome back, constant listener.  In this episode, we talk about our year and the personal highlights that we enjoyed.  2017 has been an amazing year for By the Bi and that is because of YOU constant listener.  Listen as we go through the year and touch on our favorite memories, experiences, and things we are most grateful for.   We also talk about what the future holds and what we are looking forward to in 2018. Finally, we answer a question that was asked of us by one of our listeners regarding our recent Pegging episodes. Thank you so so much for sticking with us.  We are only here because of you.  We hope your 2017 was fantastic and wish you a very Naughty New Year!!! Sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening!   Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcastOn Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on. On iTunes you can do it anonymously: – Start

So if you listened last week you know that by popular demand, we've decided to do a complete 101 on Pegging.  Well here is the second part of that series. Sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening!   Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcastOn Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on. On iTunes you can do it anonymously: – Start iTunes – Click on the menu ‘Account -> View My Account’ – Look for ‘Settings -> Nickname’ – Click on ‘Edit Nickname’ – Set the Nickname you would like – Click ‘Submit’   Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

By popular demand, we've decided to do a complete 101 on Pegging. We talk about the origination of the word, the history of the practice, and lots of preparation talk.  This is a practice and play that we are very passionate about.  We hope it comes through. So sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening!   Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcastOn Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on. On iTunes you can do it anonymously: – Start iTunes – Click on the menu ‘Account -> View My Account’ – Look for ‘Settings -> Nickname’ – Click on ‘Edit Nickname’ – Set the Nickname you would like – Click ‘Submit’   Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

So if you're like many of us when we get into the swinging world its likely been quite a while since you've had to give (and receive) flirts.  In this episode, we give a quick primer on your body language so that you present yourself in the best possible light.  Look you only get one chance to make a first impression so you have to make certain that when you carpe diem you're giving yourself as much of a sexy advantage as you can. We'll discuss body language, triggers, and lines... oh the lines...  This is NOT about becoming a pickup artist.  This is about polishing you!   So if your best flirt is, "I like bread." This episode is for you. So sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening!   Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcastOn Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on. On iTunes you can do it anonymously: – Start iTunes – Click on the menu ‘Ac