Ally Loprete

Being you. Nobody can do it better. Oh sure, you might think you'd be better in business if you were someone else. With someone else's education, someone else's money, or someone else's connections. But that is not necessarily true. You are right where you are today because you are ...you. Learning to embrace our best attributes (and forgiving some of our worst) allows us to be fully present in our business experiences, offers us more authentic relationships and stops the dreaded "If I was someone else..." head trip that can sabotage our success. There is no one better to help us with this lesson than the amazing Jess Weiner. A friend and colleague, Jess is dynamic at giving us the gift of loving ourselves.

Our little ones are BIG SPENDERS! Incredible as it seems, American children spend over 4 billion dollars of their own money each year. Yet how many of them know how to make a savings deposit, budget their money or plan for long-term goals? With so much cash to spend, kids aged 8-12 have grown into one of the most sought-after consumer markets in the country. Children are inundated with ads, pressured by over-indulged peers, and are even being wooed by credit card companies. Turn those headlines of WOE into headlines of WEALTH Economic downturns. Mortgage meltdowns. Plummeting stock markets. In every newspaper and TV sound bite, we are reminded of the dire financial challenges the world is facing… the world our children will soon be inheriting. Today perhaps as never before, it is critical that our sons and daughters develop sound money management habits, and the skills they need to build a secure future. It has been said that those who do not learn from the past are destined to repeat it. Well, here’s a ne

Laughter and play keep the Bogey man away. In my house both music and humor are a PRIORITY. Our family has certain rules that we abide by and they've worked well for us on most days. 1. If there is music playing, SING. My family knows that there is no way to get out of this one. Unless you are too sick to join in, it's expected of everyone in the room. Music heals and nourishes. Singing or playing an instrument is one of the few activities that involves using the whole brain. It is intrinsic to all cultures and has surprising benefits not only for learning language, improving memory and focusing attention, but also for physical coordination, brain development and pain management. 2. Have a sense of humor about yourself. We make fun of each other out of love, and when this happens, we CHOOSE to enjoy the moment, rather than take offense. I tend to mix my metaphors... ((often))... and my family knows that when mommy messes up, it's a great opportunity to howl with laughter. Studies show that when laughter is

A Surprise Musical Guest and Live Appearance I saw him perform live and I was so taken with his charisma, talent, dedication and commitment to his performance that I made a decision --- right then and there. I was going to ask if I could interview him. Nothing was going to stop me from getting back stage. I told the guard "I am press. I have a show on iHeart Radio." I was immediately introduced to the manager of the band who looked at me with probing eyes. Before I could change my mind, I began talking AS IF I was worthy of the current moment. Inside my head, I heard... "Ally, Are you NUTS??" Before I could talk myself out of it, I heard myself say that I loved the show and wanted to interview the lead singer. Within moments I found myself standing in his trailer looking at him face to face. GULP. I asked and he said yes. Since it is a surprise, I will NOT reveal who will be performing live in the studio with me until the show today. (Sorry, but you are going to have to TUNE IN to hear who my surprise mus

Self-Employment can be downright SCARY. If you find yourself feeling anxious about the small business you set in motion, nervous about where the next paycheck is coming from, or skeptical about investing any more of yourself (let alone more time and money) into a project that won't bring you a return... you are just like all the successful entrepreneurs who have come before you. EVERYONE DOUBTS. When faced with fear, there are some people who will just throw in the towel. Others will find a way to break past the fear and the limiting beliefs to earn a profit... from the very thing that they were doubting. Establish TRUST... with yourself Being a business owner is FUN... until --- it isn't. When you lose your mojo... every single business decision that you make can be overwhelming and burdensome. LACK OF CONFIDENCE causes hesitation -- which can lead to more challenges and send you spiraling downward. FAST. Get Grounded in Clarity Remember this formula? Vision + Action = Results The Universe is not biase

You might be an ideal employee, or a rock star business owner. You may be creative, innovative, organized and skilled, but there is no way around it. If you are going to venture into business for yourself, you are going to have to talk to other people. If you are shy, lack confidence in your communication skills, or seem to have forgotten how to speak "grown-up" since becoming a mom, then this is the show for you! Lets brush up on those conversation skills and get comfortable talking again. This week I am bringing on a dynamic guest, Robyn Hatcher, the founder of SpeakEtc., a communication and presentation-skills training and coaching company that helps clients develop presence through communication. We'll also talk about how to polish the non-verbal elements of communication – body language, gestures, vocal quality and unlike many other presentation coaches Robyn works equally on the verbal skills– word choice, content and organization so that clients become more powerful and engaging communicators. Her uniq

Everyone is calling themselves a business coach these days. How can you know for sure if you need a coach, and what can you expect from hiring one? How can you even be sure if you are working with the right one? These and more questions will be answered on this week's show. Issues today- School teacher wants to quit her job but has no idea what she could do from home and is afraid to lose her 40,000/ year income. AND Self-employed mom has too many ideas and wants to know how to keep all her businesses organized without losing her mind. Also, are multiple streams of income good?

Business just got personal. A good old fashioned Mom and Pop business is a neat idea in theory but how does it really work out? You want to start a home-based business, and you'd like to work with a partner. How about your life partner? You've managed everything else together - your house, your kids, your vacations... why not share the same career? When you're confronted constantly by someone who knows you so well, you're going to have an extraordinary opportunity to work on your flaws and develop as a person. When it does work, it can be glorious. So, how can you make it work? Plan no-business weekends. Go on actual dates. Make rules. Sounds like the same rules we talk about for any parent who is self- employed, doesn't it? This week I'll be bringing on a friend who has made it work. Adrienne Kallweit, owner of SeekingSitters has been working with her husband for 7 years and will be sharing her story with us!

The real definition of welfare: The health, happiness, and fortune of a person or group of persons. It's no surprise that this country is very much divided about the effectiveness of this government program that is designed to promote the basic physical and material well-being of people who are in need. We ALL have opinions... and yet... unless we've personally been on welfare, it's not a fair opinion to have. Who you may be calling "A Lazy Welfare Mother"... Most women don’t CHOOSE to be on food stamps. They don't CHOOSE to be poor, have several children fathered by different men, or be publicly scrutinized by society. Most people want a job. They want to go out and be productive so that they can earn a living, support a family, and have hope for a more prosperous future. They want what YOU have. So... then... (perhaps) The real solution lies WITH US. I believe that people who are in need of government assistance just need to be lifted up. Somewhere in their journey, they were made to believe that they

"GOOD BUSINESS IS THE BEST ART" ~Andy Warhol Art is an integral part of business — from operations to customer service. Thought leaders and small business cultivators who embrace the arts and their creative tendencies are typically the ones emerging as trend-setters and trailblazers. Business Leaders are CREATIVE CULTIVATORS Like artists and actors, start-up founders are the movers and shakers of the entrepreneurial world and the forerunners of new business ventures. With sophisticated analytical tools available to ALL OF US as small business owners... our processes are more efficient. Therefore, we need something... ORIGINAL and DYNAMIC ...to set us apart. Our intuition and creativity are the factors that differentiate us from our competitors. Your unique and distinctive qualities should not be exploited-- only EXPLORED. Be a Better Business Leader... ...study the Arts! Artists have an insatiable appetite for making new connections, inventing, reinventing, and finding new meaning in the mundane. That’s

Everyone is an Expert at Something! According to world renowned speaker, author, and media expert Peter Shankman, getting your face in the media is --without fail-- the most beneficial way to promote yourself, your business, and anything else that you may want to share. The benefits of a public appearance on TV and Radio are LIMITLESS. Want to improve your credibility? Check. Enhance your biography? Check. A good reason to post a dapper profile picture of being interviewed by a national newstation? Double check. TV and Radio producers are CONSTANTLY looking for new and engaging guests who can bring a unique perspective to their viewers. Why not jump in and become one of the key players of this game? It's not as hard as you think... as long as you follow the rules. As a producer of a widely popular weekly broadcast to more than 2.5 million listeners, I have to agree with Peter. EVERYONE IS AN EXPERT. However, if you want to increase your chances of getting selected by the booking producers... you need to

THIS IS AMERICAN ENTREPRENEURIALISM AT IT'S BEST! The new economy is different than anything else you have seen come before this moment in time. The playing field has become more level between large corporations and small mom & pop's... AND... the rewards are being claimed by all those who were courageous enough to take action. We are Entering into a New Realm of HISTORICAL SIGNIFICANCE There is no reason to talk yourself out of being the big money maker that you deserve to be. You already have VALUE built right into you as a PARENT! There are so many awesome products out there being created by mom and dad visionaries that my head is spinning out of control with excitement for all that remains possible. This is your time. Jump in and be a part of all that is epic! Tomorrow's opportunities are being created by people TODAY that you've most likely never heard of. No doubt, YOU may be one of them! All of our future leaders are currently living out the journey of real life experiences as they push forward

DID YOU KNOW → The mommy demographic completely dominates social media with more than 26 million tech-savvy moms? And why not? Our portal to the cyber world gives us an unlimited platform for SAVVYNESS. We use Facebook and Instagram to share family pics and adorable kid videos, we share recipes, craft projects, and household organization ideas via Pinterest, and we stay current (and hip!) in pop culture with Twitter and YouTube. Don't underestimate the power of MOM Social media gives us an endless space to effect CHANGE ---and our domination of these platforms has caused bigger businesses to embrace our social clout. Trust and reputation are all-important in today’s connected world of moms and current research suggests that we are still the leaders in consumer impact. DON'T MESS with THE MOM MAFIA!! Social Media Empowers Moms By nature, Moms are problem solvers. Not only are we poised and ready for the slightest challenge to come our way, we THRIVE on finding solutions. Despite having multiple chi

So what happens is this. We get these big ideas of how we are going to build a fantastic new business to help improve upon the family finances. Our excitement and passion fuels us to jump right in. We feel empowered and invincible. We say, "Bring on those challenges! I can handle it. I am smart. I am willing. I can DO this!" … and in that moment all of those things are absolutely true for us. We are UNSTOPPABLE! Then doubt begins to creep in .... It happens to the best of us. Now, you must fulfill your purpose by committing to what you have put into motion... but the negative self-talk is growing louder and more deafening. What was I thinking? I don't know how to sell. I don't know how to market. I don't know how to run a business. I don't know how to manage my time. I don't have enough money to invest in outsourcing. I don't know WHY I thought I could do this. Maybe I'll just go try and get my old job back (miserable as I was!) Suddenly you have become increasingly aware of the likelihood that your big

A BUSINESS MENTOR THAT FITS... YOU Whether you are just starting out or looking to grow your business to the next level, having a business mentor is a terrific way to benefit from the perspective of someone who knows how to get ahead. As someone with more experience in entrepreneurship, a seasoned business pro can advise you on how to hone your abilities as well as navigate new challenges. A mentor can provide pointers on business strategy, bolster your networking efforts, or act as confidantes when your work-life balance gets out of whack. Personally I have a whole treasure chest filled with business support that adequately feeds me when I am stuck. If you were to take a look inside my bag of tricks you'd see the following: Two business mentors, a three person business mastermind, several business coaches, some go-to books and refresher videos, and a whole lot of supportive colleagues. Each of these resources provide me with compatible solutions. So ...what's the difference between a MENTOR and a COACH?

For many of us, success is merely just A CHOICE to execute a tactical plan that will create your desired results. What is so complicated about that? I'll tell you what is complicated: We are. We have too many worries, fears, complaints, stresses and B.A.G.G.A.G.E! These problems cloud our visions and distract us from our focus in a vicious cycle that confuses our intelligence. This week I'll be drawing your attention to your subconscious mindset, and whether it is working for you or against you. How open are you to altering your belief system? If you want to learn to expect more from yourself, a shift in mindset is almost always the magic ingredient. Together we will create your unique victory story!

The best way to predict the future it to create it ourselves...but it couldn't hurt to have a hint or two about which path we should take...   If you are like me, hard work comes fast- but slow results make you batty. Often, I have found myself shaking my head to the universe begging for a sign that my persistence and perseverance will result in some sort of pay off. Ever feel that way? Am I on the right path? Should I try going down that path instead? What am I missing?   In passed shows we have talked about how we can cut out 80% of our competition just by outlasting everyone else. A shocking 90% of first time home-based businesses fail in the first year because of the inclination to throw in the towel a little too early.   It wasn't too long ago I ran into my friend, Heidi Rose Robbins- a gifted astrologer and empowering group leader for women. She must have sensed my restlessness because she intuitively offered me a "hint" into my future- the very prophecy that I had been aching for: "You are on the right

A fantastic show with 2 fantastic women: Wokie Nwabueze, who will soon be a fellow host with me here on my previous network with her new show Stop Fighting! Make Peace at Home, AND Kelly McCormick, author of the new book, OutSell Yourself: Go from Hello to Sold with Ethical Business & Sales Techniques. This generation of small business owners has a new selling style. Its called "recession selling" and it refers to the way consumers have responded to the unsteadiness in the economy. What kind of seller are you? Does it match the way you think as a consumer? Do you upsell yourself on a product or service with lots of options or do you pass on the extras simply because times appear to be tough, and instead purchase a new product only out of sheer need?

Moms are great with scheduling in time for everyone else. How about a little "YOU" time? Worried it might take away from the time you've scheduled to save the world? You are not alone. As moms we are often driven to pursue definitions of what a good mother looks like to the point that we completely lose ourselves in the process. I am inviting Patty Lennon back to the show this week because she is a lot like you. She is a mom who thrives on making an impact on the world, connecting with other women, and giving herself the life she's always wanted. Patty will be joining us this Friday to talk to us about creating a virtual home for Moms like you who are ready to move up on the priority list - by designing a life that honors you as an individual. READ MORE ABOUT PATTY LENNON HERE--> If you are ready to fall as deeply in love with your life as you are with your children, this is the show for you! In addition, Patty will be sharing with us some great knowledge about Micro-Lending through Kiva.org and how to give b

If you know a child bully, look closer at where they maybe learning their behavior. The apple never falls far from the tree, which is why moms and kids alike are tormented. It's bad enough that kids bully other kids. But look out for another rascal on the playground. Do you know her? THE BULLY MOM aka The Monster in The Minivan. Either you've seen her terrorize others, or she's come after you personally. She's always got a juicy rumor to share about another mom, or worse: a child. She's the one who made you feel bad because you couldn't breast-feed.... or labeled you the "boob Nazi" because you dared to nurse in public. You may have a regular group of moms in your play-date, but she's always "forgetting" to invite certain women. Or is it more than 1 mom? Perhaps an entire group of culprits are making you sweat each time you see them. Bullies tend to flock together, excluding the new mom on the playground, or flat out ignoring the mom who just moved into the area hoping to make some new friends and simply "fit