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Just curious... have you ever had to work from home? Maybe you have a flexible schedule that allows you to work at home. Or maybe it's a snow day or your home sick from work. Is that a threat? Is it a challenge for you to stay porn free? In part 1 of 2 episodes, we discuss how to work at home without relapsing.

With the podcast's emphasis on personal responsibility, it's easy to think the goal of recovery work is self-reliance. That in order to be strong we need to become emotionally self-reliant. But this undermines our recovery work and delays emotional healing. In this episode, I discuss the true goal of recovery. Contribute to Pornfree Radio in 2018! http://recoveredman.com/contribute I'm committed to publishing new Pornfree Radio episodes every Wednesday through the end of 2018.  And over 40 listeners, just like you, have committed to Pornfree Radio this year. Join us. Show Notes Links and resources at http://recoveredman.com/145 Coaching With Matt Dobschuetz http://recoveredman.com/coaching Facebook https://www.facebook.com/recoveredman Twitter http://twitter.com/recoveredman Google+ https://plus.google.com/+MattDobschuetz FEEDBACK http://recoveredman.com/contact-matt/ Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review beca

Your recovery is NOT your relationship and your relationship is NOT your recovery. On this special Valentine's Day episode, I explain the common confusion guys have with recovery work and their primary relationships. This episode is aimed at anyone in a relationship or who wants to be. Contribute to Pornfree Radio in 2018! http://recoveredman.com/contribute I'm committed to publishing new Pornfree Radio episodes every Wednesday through the end of 2018.  And over 36 listeners, just like you, have committed to Pornfree Radio this year. Join us. Show Notes Links and resources at http://recoveredman.com/144 Coaching With Matt Dobschuetz http://recoveredman.com/coaching Facebook https://www.facebook.com/recoveredman Twitter http://twitter.com/recoveredman Google+ https://plus.google.com/+MattDobschuetz FEEDBACK http://recoveredman.com/contact-matt/ Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the wo

It's Wednesday! On today's episode, I share Dave's 5 mistaken beliefs about porn. Dave was featured in PFR 138 when he reached the 2-year porn free milestone. Earlier this week, he shared 5 mistaken beliefs he had with porn. I asked for his permission to share them with you now. 1.) The next change in my life will make it easier to quit porn. 2.) Porn compliments my sex life. 3.) Porn is a reward. It's "me time." 4.) Porn is a break from work. It's "a mind shot." 5.) Subscribing to porn sites is more efficient. Contribute to Pornfree Radio in 2018! http://recoveredman.com/contribute I'm committed to publishing new Pornfree Radio episodes every Wednesday through the end of 2018.  And over 35 listeners, just like you, have committed to Pornfree Radio this year. Join us. Show Notes Links and resources at http://recoveredman.com/143 Coaching With Matt Dobschuetz http://recoveredman.com/coaching Facebook https://www.facebook.com/recoveredman Twitter http://twitter.com/recoveredman Google+ https://plus.google.com/+

On today's episode, we follow the partner's journey. Lori and Jay Pyatt share their story of navigating porn addiction, betrayal, and recovery as a couple. Lori mentors women who are healing from effects of their husband's porn addiction and trauma. Jay works with men in recovery from porn addiction. Both Lori and Jay are BraveHearts Certified Mentors™ and offer couple mentoring as well. Contribute to Pornfree Radio Each Month http://recoveredman.com/contribute Show Notes Links and resources at http://recoveredman.com/142 Coaching With Matt Dobschuetz http://recoveredman.com/coaching Facebook https://www.facebook.com/recoveredman Twitter http://twitter.com/recoveredman Google+ https://plus.google.com/+MattDobschuetz FEEDBACK http://recoveredman.com/contact-matt/ Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 142 – Your Porn. Her Pain. How Partners Heal w/ Lori and Jay Pyatt

When does quitting porn get easier? Really? I get asked this all the time by listeners. This past week, marked 7 years porn free for me. In this episode, I share 12 milestones that happened on my journey after which things got easier. You'll learn: - My new commitment for 2018 - Why recovery doesn't get easier - The ease of a task is a sign of mastery - Why mastery doesn't come from a calendar - The 12 milestones in my journey that led to mastery Contribute to Pornfree Radio Each Month http://recoveredman.com/contribute Thanks for all your contributions. You donated over $3000 to Pornfree Radio in 2017! Thanks helping get this message out each week. SEE YOU NEXT WEDNESDAY!!!!!! Show Notes Links and resources at http://recoveredman.com/141 Coaching With Matt Dobschuetz http://recoveredman.com/coaching Facebook https://www.facebook.com/recoveredman Twitter http://twitter.com/recoveredman Google+ https://plus.google.com/+MattDobschuetz FEEDBACK http://recoveredman.com/contact-matt/ Thanks for all your ratings an

Which came first? My intense sexual curiosity or porn exposure? The answer might surprise you. In this episode, I explore my early days of porn exposure and a new realization I had this week. Show Notes Links and resources at http://recoveredman.com/140 Coaching With Matt Dobschuetz http://recoveredman.com/coaching Contibute to Pornfree Radio http://recoveredman.com/contribute Facebook https://www.facebook.com/recoveredman Twitter http://twitter.com/recoveredman Google+ https://plus.google.com/+MattDobschuetz FEEDBACK http://recoveredman.com/contact-matt/ Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 140 – My Amazing Porn Discovery! appeared first on Recovered Man.

Recorded live on January 1, 2018. Grab your coffee (or hot beverage of choice) as we welcome in 2018 porn free! In this episode: - 5 Resolutions You Can Keep This Year - A brave listener is interviewed about his January sprint plan - Q&A Show Notes Links and resources at http://recoveredman.com/139 REV Group Coaching With Matt Dobschuetz http://recoveredman.com/register Contibute to Pornfree Radio http://recoveredman.com/contribute Facebook https://www.facebook.com/recoveredman Twitter http://twitter.com/recoveredman Google+ https://plus.google.com/+MattDobschuetz FEEDBACK http://recoveredman.com/contact-matt/ Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 139 – Pornfree Radio Live! New Years Day appeared first on Recovered Man.

In this final episode for 2017, Pornfree Radio listeners share their milestones, thank-yous, favorite artists, and more. Show Notes Links and resources at http://recoveredman.com/138 REV Group Coaching With Matt Dobschuetz http://recoveredman.com/register Contibute to Pornfree Radio http://recoveredman.com/contribute Facebook https://www.facebook.com/recoveredman Twitter http://twitter.com/recoveredman Google+ https://plus.google.com/+MattDobschuetz FEEDBACK http://recoveredman.com/contact-matt/ Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 138 – Thank You For 2 Years Porn Free appeared first on Recovered Man.

Do you struggle making time for self care? Do you suck at being creative? In today's episode, we break down 15 self care habits that take 5 minutes of less. Now it's prescriptive- I try to match your problem or need to a corresponding habit.  And my hope is this will inspire your own creativity to see what's possible in recovery. Show Notes Links and resources at http://recoveredman.com/137 Porn Free This Year - NEW! http://recoveredman.com/thisyear Get my free video training here. Build your recovery plan and go porn free in 2018. Coaching With Matt Dobschuetz http://recoveredman.com/coaching Contibute to Pornfree Radio http://recoveredman.com/contribute Facebook https://www.facebook.com/recoveredman Twitter http://twitter.com/recoveredman Google+ https://plus.google.com/+MattDobschuetz FEEDBACK http://recoveredman.com/contact-matt/ Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. Th

On this episode of Pornfree Radio we discuss a topic we've never discussed before: Purity. An unlikely subject for a podcast devoted to skipping Christian cliches about pornography and lust. And yet I was compelled to share because of amazing interview I heard with Christopher West on the Integrity Restored podcast, episode 56. You may re-think your definition of "Purity" when you hear this episode. Porn Free This Year - NEW! http://recoveredman.com/thisyear Get my free video training here. Build your recovery plan and go porn free in 2018. Show Notes Links and resources at http://recoveredman.com/136 Coaching With Matt Dobschuetz http://recoveredman.com/coaching Contibute to Pornfree Radio http://recoveredman.com/contribute Facebook https://www.facebook.com/recoveredman Twitter http://twitter.com/recoveredman Google+ https://plus.google.com/+MattDobschuetz FEEDBACK http://recoveredman.com/contact-matt/ Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTun

Michael Leahy, author of Porn Nation, joins Pornfree Radio to discuss his journey out of porn and sex addiction. Michael is the CEO and founder of BraveHearts a faith-based mentoring organization for men recovering from porn and sex addiction. Michael also shares about his upcoming Breaking Free Virtual Summit. Presenting 40+ speakers over 10 days. December 10-19, 2017. Buy the Summit All-Access Pass or attend for free (Sessions are only available for 48 hours.) http://recoveredman.com/summitpass Show Notes Links and resources at http://recoveredman.com/135 Coaching With Matt Dobschuetz http://recoveredman.com/coaching Contibute to Pornfree Radio http://recoveredman.com/contribute Facebook https://www.facebook.com/recoveredman Twitter http://twitter.com/recoveredman Google+ https://plus.google.com/+MattDobschuetz FEEDBACK http://recoveredman.com/contact-matt/ Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that

Part 3 of 3 in our series on Motivation examines the unpacks the ONE thing you need to take action. Motivation as we have discussed is triggered by making choices but how do we focus our action. In this episode, you learn: - What the ONE thing is - How you can use a focusing question to determine your next action - A simple strategy to take action this week on your biggest problem with porn Show Notes Links and resources at http://recoveredman.com/134 Coaching With Matt Dobschuetz http://recoveredman.com/coaching Contibute to Pornfree Radio http://recoveredman.com/contribute Facebook https://www.facebook.com/recoveredman Twitter http://twitter.com/recoveredman Google+ https://plus.google.com/+MattDobschuetz FEEDBACK http://recoveredman.com/contact-matt/ Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 134 – Motivation Pt. 3: The ONE Thing appeared first on Recovered Man.

Part 2 of 3 in our series on Motivation examines the concept of an internal locus of control found in Smarter Faster Better by Charles Duhigg. We build on this idea and unpack how motivation is triggered by making choices that demonstrate we are in control. In this episode, you learn: - What is the locus of control - What is the difference between an internal and external locus of control - Why training is helpful with motivation - How motivation is triggered by choices that demonstrate we are in control - Why it's important to tie something meaningful to your habits Show Notes Links and resources at http://recoveredman.com/133 Coaching With Matt Dobschuetz http://recoveredman.com/coaching Contibute to Pornfree Radio http://recoveredman.com/contribute Facebook https://www.facebook.com/recoveredman Twitter http://twitter.com/recoveredman Google+ https://plus.google.com/+MattDobschuetz FEEDBACK http://recoveredman.com/contact-matt/ Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance y

Part 1 of 3 in our series on Motivation starts with The Myth Of Self Discipline found in Gary Keller's book The ONE Thing. In this episode, you learn: - Why you don't need more discipline than you already have - What "disciplined" people actually have - What you need to choose get more control in your life - Why willpower is like your mobile phone - The best way to build habits Show Notes Links and resources at http://recoveredman.com/132 Coaching With Matt Dobschuetz http://recoveredman.com/coaching Contibute to Pornfree Radio http://recoveredman.com/contribute Facebook https://www.facebook.com/recoveredman Twitter http://twitter.com/recoveredman Google+ https://plus.google.com/+MattDobschuetz FEEDBACK http://recoveredman.com/contact-matt/ Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 132 – Motivation Pt. 1: The Myth of Self Discipline appeared first on Recovered Man.

Have you ever had something good happen in your life? A promotion? A birthday party? A big win? Then you looked at porn and everything came crashing down. Maybe you got to a BIG recovery milestone like 30-days porn free. Only to look at porn again on day 31. Or you maybe relapsed, got current with your wife and accountability group. Reset. Felt stable. Then inexplicably relapsed the very next day. You may have an "Upper Limit Problem." In this episode, you learn: - What an Upper Limit Problem is - How it affects recovery - What are the mistaken beliefs it is built on - How to get past it You'll also learn 2 awesome tips from the guys in REV Group Coaching. Plus I weigh in on Harvey Weinstein and the #MeToo hashtag phenomenon.  Show Notes Links and resources at http://recoveredman.com/131 Contibute to Pornfree Radio http://recoveredman.com/contribute Coaching With Matt Dobschuetz http://recoveredman.com/coaching Facebook https://www.facebook.com/dobberco Twitter http://twitter.com/MattDobschuetz Google+ https:

In this episode, I answer a common question from new listeners: "What is Self Care?" In this episode you'll learn: - What self care is - Why it's important - How self care is connected to needs - What Maslow's theory is - How to apply Maslow's theory to our recovery - What Self-Actualization means and what characteristics self-actualized people have Show Notes Links and resources at http://recoveredman.com/130 Contibute to Pornfree Radio http://recoveredman.com/contribute Coaching With Matt Dobschuetz http://recoveredman.com/coaching Facebook https://www.facebook.com/dobberco Twitter http://twitter.com/MattDobschuetz Google+ https://plus.google.com/+MattDobschuetz FEEDBACK http://recoveredman.com/contact-matt/ Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 130 – Back 2 Basics: What Is Self Care? appeared first on Recovered Man.

Hugh Hefner was a callous, con man. He created the myth of “the playboy.” A rich man, who lived in his pajamas, worshipped by beautiful women. He sold his myth like Phillip Morris sold the Marlboro Man. It was sex without consequences. Where women give without taking and never grow old. And we bought into it one masturbation session at a time.  In this episode, I discuss his legacy and the "obviously wicked and destructive things" he left behind. Show Notes Links and resources at http://recoveredman.com/129 Contibute to Pornfree Radio http://recoveredman.com/contribute Coaching With Matt Dobschuetz http://recoveredman.com/coaching Facebook https://www.facebook.com/dobberco Twitter http://twitter.com/MattDobschuetz Google+ https://plus.google.com/+MattDobschuetz FEEDBACK http://recoveredman.com/contact-matt/ Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 129 – The 7 Lies of

In the second of 2 episodes, I share my journey discovering the The Porn Free Plan That Never Fails. - I share the final 3 steps you need to create your own plan - Common ways guys get stuck - And finally why this system doesn't fail Part 1 is found in episode 127. Show Notes Links and resources at http://recoveredman.com/128 Contibute to Pornfree Radio http://recoveredman.com/contribute Coaching With Matt Dobschuetz http://recoveredman.com/coaching Facebook https://www.facebook.com/dobberco Twitter http://twitter.com/MattDobschuetz Google+ https://plus.google.com/+MattDobschuetz FEEDBACK http://recoveredman.com/contact-matt/ Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 128 – The Porn Free Plan That Never Fails Pt. 2 appeared first on Recovered Man.

On a recent writer's retreat I challenged myself to: Capture the steps to being porn free (the actual steps) Design a system that doesn't fail Create a plan, that if followed, could work for anybody In the first of 2 episodes, I share my journey discovering the The Porn Free Plan That Never Fails. I share the first two steps and explain why it took 11 years for me to go from step 1 to step 2. It's 5 steps in all. Part 2 is found in episode 128 and it contains the last 3 steps. Enjoy. Show Notes Links and resources at http://recoveredman.com/127 Contibute to Pornfree Radio http://recoveredman.com/contribute Coaching With Matt Dobschuetz http://recoveredman.com/coaching Facebook https://www.facebook.com/dobberco Twitter http://twitter.com/MattDobschuetz Google+ https://plus.google.com/+MattDobschuetz FEEDBACK http://recoveredman.com/contact-matt/ Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the w