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Continuing our Back 2 Basics series, we review the tool of F.A.S.T.T. check-ins. This structured check-in process will anchor your recovery each week and improve your success. This check-in format comes from Dr. Milton Magness. Its original use was for sex addicts and their partners after disclosure. However F.A.S.T.T. Check-ins provide a great framework for any kind of ongoing accountability. The components of a F.A.S.T.T. Check-in include: - Feelings - Activities in Recovery - Slip Report (or Sobriety Check) - Threats - Tools 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt http://recoveredman.com/coaching Contribute to Pornfree Radio http://recoveredman.com/contribute Show Notes Links and show notes at http://recoveredman.com/106 Facebook https://www.facebook.com/dobberco Twitter http://twitter.com/MattDobschuetz Google+ https://plus.google.com/+MattDobschuetz FEEDBACK http://recoveredman.com/contact-matt/ Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a ra

How can we measure the health of our recovery daily? In this episode, I share a new tool for daily recovery tracking that was inspired by the National Hockey League (NHL). Download Daily Recovery Tracking Calendar here: http://recoveredman.com/105 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt http://recoveredman.com/coaching Contribute to Pornfree Radio http://recoveredman.com/contribute Show Notes Links and show notes at http://recoveredman.com/105 Facebook https://www.facebook.com/dobberco Twitter http://twitter.com/MattDobschuetz Google+ https://plus.google.com/+MattDobschuetz FEEDBACK http://recoveredman.com/contact-matt/ Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 105 – Back 2 Basics: Daily Tracking appeared first on Recovered Man.

In this uncut, unedited episode of Pornfree Radio, I share 5 things that help me deal with depression. 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt http://recoveredman.com/coaching Contribute to Pornfree Radio http://recoveredman.com/contribute Show Notes Links and show notes at http://recoveredman.com/104 Facebook https://www.facebook.com/dobberco Twitter http://twitter.com/MattDobschuetz Google+ https://plus.google.com/+MattDobschuetz FEEDBACK http://recoveredman.com/contact-matt/ Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 104 – How To Deal With Depression appeared first on Recovered Man.

Do you want to jumpstart your recovery this week? Take massive action. Matt is joined by Steve, a Pornfree Radio listener, who took 10 actions last week and shares each of them here. 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt http://recoveredman.com/coaching Contribute to Pornfree Radio http://recoveredman.com/contribute Show Notes Links and show notes at http://recoveredman.com/103 Facebook https://www.facebook.com/dobberco Twitter http://twitter.com/MattDobschuetz Google+ https://plus.google.com/+MattDobschuetz FEEDBACK http://recoveredman.com/contact-matt/ Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 103 – How To Take Massive Action appeared first on Recovered Man.

On my 6th anniversary of being porn free, I answer 2 recent questions; "How do you sustain long-term sobriety?" and "What does the struggle look like for you now?" 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt http://recoveredman.com/coaching Contribute to Pornfree Radio http://recoveredman.com/contribute Show Notes Links and show notes at http://recoveredman.com/102 Facebook https://www.facebook.com/dobberco Twitter http://twitter.com/MattDobschuetz Google+ https://plus.google.com/+MattDobschuetz FEEDBACK http://recoveredman.com/contact-matt/ Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 102 – How Do You Sustain Long-Term Sobriety? appeared first on Recovered Man.

In 1939, the most important recovery book of all time was written. It has sold more than 30 million copies! However you won't find it when searching for "porn addiction" on Amazon. And chances are you have never read it. But it's a powerful recovery document and should be part of every guy's toolbox. In this episode, you'll learn: - About the "Big Book" - Why and for who it was written - How the allergy of the body and obsession of the mind leads to powerlessness - What it means to us as we recover from porn addiction 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt http://recoveredman.com/coaching Contribute to Pornfree Radio http://recoveredman.com/contribute Show Notes Links and show notes at http://recoveredman.com/101 Facebook https://www.facebook.com/dobberco Twitter http://twitter.com/MattDobschuetz Google+ https://plus.google.com/+MattDobschuetz FEEDBACK http://recoveredman.com/contact-matt/ Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or re

Celebrating 100 episodes of Pornfree Radio by putting the focus on you the listener. On this episode... Ben, a listener from the Pacific Northwest, joins Pornfree Radio and shares his story. 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt http://recoveredman.com/coaching Contribute to Pornfree Radio http://recoveredman.com/contribute Show Notes Links and show notes at http://recoveredman.com/100 Facebook https://www.facebook.com/dobberco Twitter http://twitter.com/MattDobschuetz Google+ https://plus.google.com/+MattDobschuetz FEEDBACK http://recoveredman.com/contact-matt/ Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 100 – Nice to meet you, I’m addicted to porn appeared first on Recovered Man.

My inbox is full (again!) Time to answer your burning questions: - How do I start to feel again? - How do you address incognito with browsers? - Help! I'm a big sports fan and when my team loses, I relapse - Do you have any advice for me on how to pick up the phone? - Do you have any insight regarding the inevitable progression of the disease? - How did your wife get past the betrayal? - My accountability partner is not being honest... ... and more! REV Group Coaching http://recoveredman.com/rev 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt http://recoveredman.com/coaching Contribute to Pornfree Radio http://recoveredman.com/contribute Show Notes Links and show notes at http://recoveredman.com/99 Facebook https://www.facebook.com/dobberco Twitter http://twitter.com/MattDobschuetz Google+ https://plus.google.com/+MattDobschuetz FEEDBACK http://recoveredman.com/contact-matt/ Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps

In this episode, we open the Pornfree mail bag, read your letters and answer questions like: - Do you have any tips for finding a group? - How long is a reasonable time to think about opening myself up for possible dating? - How honest is too honest especially this early in our romantic relationship? - Guys keep dropping out of my recovery group, Help! - If he doesn't believe he has a porn addiction despite my objection and pain ... do I just have no choice but to divorce? - If you’re really about helping everyone... why are all your paid-for products so expensive? - My accountability partner fell of the wagon, what do I do? - My dad struggles with porn also, how can I help? - My wife won't have sex with me. Now what? REV Group Coaching http://recoveredman.com/rev 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt http://recoveredman.com/coaching Contribute to Pornfree Radio http://recoveredman.com/contribute Show Notes Links and show notes at http://recoveredman.com/98 Facebook https://www.facebook.com/dobberco Twitter http://twitte

Pornography is a habit that is practiced in isolation and in secret. Isn't it just common sense that to break that habit you need others? This is part 3 of our 3-part series for going porn free in 2017. You'll learn: - Why you need a tribe to recover - Why committing to a group is the single most powerful action you can take to go porn free - The 7 benefits of being in a strong recovery group REV Group Coaching http://recoveredman.com/rev 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt http://recoveredman.com/coaching Contribute to Pornfree Radio http://recoveredman.com/contribute Show Notes Links and show notes at http://recoveredman.com/97 Facebook https://www.facebook.com/dobberco Twitter http://twitter.com/MattDobschuetz Google+ https://plus.google.com/+MattDobschuetz FEEDBACK http://recoveredman.com/contact-matt/ Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 097 – Go Porn Free in 2017 Pt.

"Winners anticipate, losers react." - Tony Robbins. Listeners who have had success listening to Pornfree Radio have one thing in common. They have a plan. A custom recovery plan is essential to getting free from porn addiction. This is part 2 of our 3-part series for going porn free in 2017. You'll learn: - Why motivation is an exhaustible resource - Why anticipation beats reaction - The 8 components of a strong recovery plan REV Group Coaching http://recoveredman.com/rev 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt http://recoveredman.com/coaching Contribute to Pornfree Radio http://recoveredman.com/contribute Show Notes Links and show notes at http://recoveredman.com/96 Facebook https://www.facebook.com/dobberco Twitter http://twitter.com/MattDobschuetz Google+ https://plus.google.com/+MattDobschuetz FEEDBACK http://recoveredman.com/contact-matt/ Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The po

You need to know why you are eliminating porn from your life. The more clear you are, the better. It can't just be for your wife, your faith, your family, your job, etc. You have all those things now and you're still stuck. This is the first of 3 episodes on going porn free in 2017. You'll learn: - Why uncovering your true desire is essential to get free - The difference between external and internal motivation - A powerful exercise to reveal your why REV Group Coaching http://recoveredman.com/rev 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt http://recoveredman.com/coaching Contribute to Pornfree Radio http://recoveredman.com/contribute Show Notes Links and show notes at http://recoveredman.com/95 Facebook https://www.facebook.com/dobberco Twitter http://twitter.com/MattDobschuetz Google+ https://plus.google.com/+MattDobschuetz FEEDBACK http://recoveredman.com/contact-matt/ Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that help

In this episode, we talk about... Goal Setting. For years goal setting was something I resisted. But in recovery it's become a growing strength. Ben Fraser from the Brick House Web Series sits in. You'll learn: - Why setting goals matter and why it's essential to your recovery. - What it means to be a lazy perfectionist? - The 4 keys for follow through that doesn't suck (My Slacker's Guide To Accomplishing Goals.) Contibute to Pornfree Radio http://recoveredman.com/contribute 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt http://recoveredman.com/coaching Show Notes Links and show notes at http://recoveredman.com/94 Facebook https://www.facebook.com/dobberco Twitter http://twitter.com/MattDobschuetz Google+ https://plus.google.com/+MattDobschuetz FEEDBACK http://recoveredman.com/contact-matt/ Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 094 – My Intentions Are Good, But My Follow Through Sucks

How does a morning routine help keep you porn free? That and more are the focus of this episode. Ben Fraser from the Brick House web series sits in. Contibute to Pornfree Radio http://recoveredman.com/contribute 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt http://recoveredman.com/coaching Show Notes Links and show notes at http://recoveredman.com/93 Facebook https://www.facebook.com/dobberco Twitter http://twitter.com/MattDobschuetz Google+ https://plus.google.com/+MattDobschuetz FEEDBACK http://recoveredman.com/contact-matt/ Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 093 – Back 2 Basics: Morning Routine appeared first on Recovered Man.

A topic that keeps coming up is edging. Edging are the little behaviors that mimic our old ways of acting out. Hashtags, images searches, channel surfing, second looks, all fall into this category. They seem innocent compared to our old addiction. But they can spell trouble. Ben Fraser from the Brick House Web Series sits in and shares his thoughts. Contibute to Pornfree Radio http://recoveredman.com/contribute 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt http://recoveredman.com/coaching Show Notes Links and show notes at http://recoveredman.com/92 Facebook https://www.facebook.com/dobberco Twitter http://twitter.com/MattDobschuetz Google+ https://plus.google.com/+MattDobschuetz FEEDBACK http://recoveredman.com/contact-matt/ Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 092 – Back 2 Basics: Edging appeared first on Recovered Man.

Matt shares a tool he has been using recently in 1-on-1 coaching to help clients identify the primary feelings in their life. Contibute to Pornfree Radio http://recoveredman.com/contribute 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt http://recoveredman.com/coaching Show Notes Links and show notes at http://recoveredman.com/91 Facebook https://www.facebook.com/dobberco Twitter http://twitter.com/MattDobschuetz Google+ https://plus.google.com/+MattDobschuetz FEEDBACK http://recoveredman.com/contact-matt/ Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 091 – The Feeling Wheel appeared first on Recovered Man.

"Matt, I'm not perfect. But you know what I am good at? Not relapsing." One of my friends, with many years of sobriety, once told me this. The secret is what you do when you start getting shaky. Contibute to Pornfree Radio http://recoveredman.com/contribute 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt http://recoveredman.com/coaching Show Notes Links and show notes at http://recoveredman.com/90 Facebook https://www.facebook.com/dobberco Twitter http://twitter.com/MattDobschuetz Google+ https://plus.google.com/+MattDobschuetz FEEDBACK http://recoveredman.com/contact-matt/ Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 090 – I’m Not Perfect…But I’m Good At Not Relapsing appeared first on Recovered Man.

Alex Lerza from rTribe visits Pornfree Radio and shares why connection is the opposite of addiction. Alex by training is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) and Certified Sex Addiction Therapist. His work as a therapist has come out of his own recovery. His journey led him to create an app in 2015, with fellow therapist, Josh Kalsbeek, to help people recover for porn addiction. rTribe is a social recovery app for porn and sex addiction. It connects thousands of people each day who are working on recovery from porn. Download the app or visit rTribe.org for more information. Contibute to Pornfree Radio http://recoveredman.com/contribute 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt http://recoveredman.com/coaching Show Notes Links and show notes at http://recoveredman.com/89 Facebook https://www.facebook.com/dobberco Twitter http://twitter.com/MattDobschuetz Google+ https://plus.google.com/+MattDobschuetz FEEDBACK http://recoveredman.com/contact-matt/ Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t ha

When looking for help with porn addiction, books seem like a safe way to learn. Especially when ordered online. But what do the search results from Amazon.com tell us about our porn addiction? I saw some common themes in the books represented. I break down 3 types of the porn addiction books and ask the question: Do they help us recover or are they an excuse for not taking action? Contibute to Pornfree Radio http://recoveredman.com/contribute 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt http://recoveredman.com/coaching Show Notes Links and show notes at http://recoveredman.com/88 Facebook https://www.facebook.com/dobberco Twitter http://twitter.com/MattDobschuetz Google+ https://plus.google.com/+MattDobschuetz FEEDBACK http://recoveredman.com/contact-matt/ Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 088 – What I Found When I Searched for “Porn Addiction” on Amazon.com appeared first on Rec

Whether you're new to Pornfree Radio or have been listening from the beginning, there's a common journey we share. We all start divided with an external life we show people and a hidden life where our addiction lives. Our ultimate goal is to be whole. To have the inside and outside match. But how do we get there? Contibute to Pornfree Radio http://recoveredman.com/contribute 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt http://recoveredman.com/coaching Show Notes Links and show notes at http://recoveredman.com/87 Facebook https://www.facebook.com/dobberco Twitter http://twitter.com/MattDobschuetz Google+ https://plus.google.com/+MattDobschuetz FEEDBACK http://recoveredman.com/contact-matt/ Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 087 – A Man Divided Cannot Stand appeared first on Recovered Man.