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What's missing in recovery? YOU. Are you showing up? Are you supporting others? Do you know the value of your presence? In this episode, we discuss why everyone should be in a group. Apply to REV Group Coaching http://recoveredman.com.com/rev Contibute to Pornfree Radio http://recoveredman.com/contribute 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt http://recoveredman.com/coaching Show Notes Links and show notes at http://recoveredman.com/86 Facebook https://www.facebook.com/dobberco Twitter http://twitter.com/MattDobschuetz Google+ https://plus.google.com/+MattDobschuetz FEEDBACK http://recoveredman.com/contact-matt/ Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 086 Missing In Action appeared first on Recovered Man.

A year into my recovery, I attended the worst men's group ever. Nobody was having much success and I felt worse going home then when I got there. In this episode, I share what was missing and how you can revive a struggling group. Apply to REV Group Coaching http://recoveredman.com/rev Contibute to Pornfree Radio http://recoveredman.com/contribute 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt http://recoveredman.com/coaching Show Notes Links and show notes at http://recoveredman.com/85 Facebook https://www.facebook.com/dobberco Twitter http://twitter.com/MattDobschuetz Google+ https://plus.google.com/+MattDobschuetz FEEDBACK http://recoveredman.com/contact-matt/ Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 085 The Worst Men’s Group Ever appeared first on Recovered Man.

In episode 75, I shared 5 lies that keep us coming back to porn. This was one of our most downloaded podcasts of the summer. On a recent Reddit thread, I posted the original 5 lies and users contributed more lies in the comments. In this episode, I share the lies here and 5 powerful truths that help overcome them. Apply to REV Group Coaching http://recoveredman.com/rev Contibute to Pornfree Radio http://recoveredman.com/contribute 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt http://recoveredman.com/coaching Show Notes Links and show notes at http://recoveredman.com/84 Facebook https://www.facebook.com/dobberco Twitter http://twitter.com/MattDobschuetz Google+ https://plus.google.com/+MattDobschuetz FEEDBACK http://recoveredman.com/contact-matt/ Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 084 More Lies That Keep Us Coming Back To Porn appeared first on Recovered Man.

Providing great accountability is more than just encouraging someone when they relapse. In this episode, we talk about 3 tools you can use to make your accountability stronger. These tools can be difference between a guy staying stuck and getting to the next level in their recovery. Get Access to Relapse Video Series http://recoveredman.com/relapse Contibute to Pornfree Radio http://recoveredman.com/contribute 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt http://recoveredman.com/coaching Show Notes Links and show notes at http://recoveredman.com/83 Facebook https://www.facebook.com/dobberco Twitter http://twitter.com/MattDobschuetz Google+ https://plus.google.com/+MattDobschuetz FEEDBACK http://recoveredman.com/contact-matt/ Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 083 Ask More Questions appeared first on Recovered Man.

Is your accountability partner a CHAMP? In this episode, we answer your questions about accountability and accountability partners. You'll also learn the 5 characteristics of great accountability partners. Get Access to Relapse Video Series http://recoveredman.com/relapse Contibute to Pornfree Radio http://recoveredman.com/contribute 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt http://recoveredman.com/coaching Show Notes Links and show notes at http://recoveredman.com/82 Facebook https://www.facebook.com/dobberco Twitter http://twitter.com/MattDobschuetz Google+ https://plus.google.com/+MattDobschuetz FEEDBACK http://recoveredman.com/contact-matt/ Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 082 The 5 Characteristics of Great Accountability Partners appeared first on Recovered Man.

Fresh off of Podcast Movement 2016, Matt welcomes Angus Nelson from the "Up In Your Business" podcast. On this episode, Angus opens up about his history with porn and gets vulnerable. Get Access to Relapse Video Series http://recoveredman.com/relapse Contibute to Pornfree Radio http://recoveredman.com/contribute 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt http://recoveredman.com/coaching Show Notes Links and show notes at http://recoveredman.com/81 Facebook https://www.facebook.com/dobberco Twitter http://twitter.com/MattDobschuetz Google+ https://plus.google.com/+MattDobschuetz FEEDBACK http://recoveredman.com/contact-matt/ Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 081 Up In Your Business w/ Angus Nelson appeared first on Recovered Man.

Matt shares two recent stories from coaching clients and the 1 consistent habit you need to stay porn free. Get Access to Relapse Video Series http://recoveredman.com/relapse Contibute to Pornfree Radio http://recoveredman.com/contribute 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt http://recoveredman.com/coaching Show Notes Links and show notes at http://recoveredman.com/80 Facebook https://www.facebook.com/dobberco Twitter http://twitter.com/MattDobschuetz Google+ https://plus.google.com/+MattDobschuetz FEEDBACK http://recoveredman.com/contact-matt/ Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 080 The 1 Habit You Need To Stay Porn Free appeared first on Recovered Man.

There are three choices you have when dealing with porn. In this episode, Matt shares an embarrassing story and how it applies to your recovery. Get Access to Relapse Video Series http://recoveredman.com/relapse Contibute to Pornfree Radio http://recoveredman.com/contribute 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt http://recoveredman.com/coaching Show Notes Links and show notes at http://recoveredman.com/79 Facebook https://www.facebook.com/dobberco Twitter http://twitter.com/MattDobschuetz Google+ https://plus.google.com/+MattDobschuetz FEEDBACK http://recoveredman.com/contact-matt/ Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 079 The 3 Choices You Have When Dealing With Porn appeared first on Recovered Man.

In episode 4 of Pornfree Radio, we talked about the biggest mistake people make when quitting porn. This episode is one of our most popular and has been downloaded over 5000 times. In this follow up, I revisit the topic with some further thoughts with how guys get stuck. Get Access to Relapse Video Series http://recoveredman.com/relapse Contibute to Pornfree Radio http://recoveredman.com/contribute 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt http://recoveredman.com/coaching Show Notes Links and show notes at http://recoveredman.com/78 Facebook https://www.facebook.com/dobberco Twitter http://twitter.com/MattDobschuetz Google+ https://plus.google.com/+MattDobschuetz FEEDBACK http://recoveredman.com/contact-matt/ Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 078 The Biggest Mistake People Make When Quitting Porn Pt. 2 appeared first on Recovered Man.

In each Pornfree Radio podcast, a sale is made. Either you buy what I'm selling about being porn free or you sell me an excuse why you can't. In this episode, we talk about the seven deadly excuses that come up when trying to quit porn. DISCLAIMER: These excuses are not aimed at anyone specific. If they sound familiar it's because I hear them a lot. Get Access to Relapse Video Series http://recoveredman.com/relapse Contibute to Pornfree Radio http://recoveredman.com/contribute 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt http://recoveredman.com/coaching Show Notes Links and show notes at http://recoveredman.com/77 Facebook https://www.facebook.com/dobberco Twitter http://twitter.com/MattDobschuetz Google+ https://plus.google.com/+MattDobschuetz FEEDBACK http://recoveredman.com/contact-matt/ Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 077 Seven Deadly Excuses appeared first on Recovered Man

I've talked to over sixty guys 1-on-1 this past year about their struggle with porn. When I asked what it has cost them, there is a common answer that comes up over and over again. But is it the whole story? In this episode, we look at what they said and dig deeper. In this episode: - The #1 thing we say porn costs us - How we dishonor our value with porn - How porn overrides our lives - How porn snowballs into the next day - Why it robs us of our presence Contibute to Pornfree Radio http://recoveredman.com/contribute 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt http://recoveredman.com/coaching Show Notes Links and show notes at http://recoveredman.com/76 Facebook https://www.facebook.com/dobberco Twitter http://twitter.com/MattDobschuetz Google+ https://plus.google.com/+MattDobschuetz FEEDBACK http://recoveredman.com/contact-matt/ Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 076 The #1 Thi

There are 5 lies I hear over and over again from guys trying to quit porn. These are the mistaken beliefs that go through right before we act out. In this episode, I label the 5 lies and share 5 powerful truths to help overcome them. Contibute to Pornfree Radio http://recoveredman.com/contribute 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt http://recoveredman.com/coaching Show Notes Links and show notes at http://recoveredman.com/75 Facebook https://www.facebook.com/dobberco Twitter http://twitter.com/MattDobschuetz Google+ https://plus.google.com/+MattDobschuetz FEEDBACK http://recoveredman.com/contact-matt/ Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 075 The 5 Lies That Keep Us Coming Back To Porn appeared first on Recovered Man.

In episode 70, Hope Ray joined us from HopeRayTherapy.com to discuss the Partners' experience. Hope returns to answer questions from partners, wives, and girlfriends. In this episode, we answer: - How do I begin a conversation with my significant other about his porn use? - Do ultimatums work? - What if my husband is a brick wall? - What if he says he's sorry, but doesn't change? - What if my husband looks at teen porn? 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt http://recoveredman.com/coaching Show Notes Links and show notes at http://recoveredman.com/74 Facebook https://www.facebook.com/dobberco Twitter http://twitter.com/MattDobschuetz Google+ https://plus.google.com/+MattDobschuetz FEEDBACK http://recoveredman.com/contact-matt/ The post 074 Hope Ray Returns: Partners’ Q&A appeared first on Recovered Man.

Summer is here. And with it brings time off, vacations, new schedules, bikinis, and summer clothing. In this episode, Matt shares ten porn free hacks you can use this Summer to stay on the right track.  Don’t miss hack #8. It’s a new one that goes against popular advice. Sprint Coaching 3-Month Summer Special Fill […] The post 073 Ten Porn Free Hacks For Summer appeared first on Recovered Man.

Can I be a recovering porn addict and an artist at the same time? What about drawing nudes? Or what about art that is erotic? In the art world, the line between porn and art can be thin. In some cases, one person's "art" is another person's porn! How can one balance being an artist, viewing art, drawing from life and avoid being triggered? Hope Ray (from Episode 70) returns Monday, June 6th to answer your questions about recovery and relationships. Email matt@pornfreeradio.com to ask a question. 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt http://recoveredman.com/coaching Show Notes Links and show notes at http://recoveredman.com/72 Facebook https://www.facebook.com/dobberco Twitter http://twitter.com/MattDobschuetz Google+ https://plus.google.com/+MattDobschuetz FEEDBACK http://recoveredman.com/contact-matt/ The post 072 Can A Recovering Porn Addict Be An Artist? appeared first on Recovered Man.

The nagging question after any relapse is 'Why?" Why did I look at porn when I was committed not to? Why did I look at porn even though it's harmful to my relationship? Why did I look at porn and put my job at risk? There are two reasons that drive us to porn and they have little to do with brain science or our capacity for lust. Hope Ray (from Episode 70) returns Monday, June 6th to answer your questions about recovery and relationships. Email matt@pornfreeradio.com to ask a question. 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt http://recoveredman.com/coaching Show Notes Links and show notes at http://recoveredman.com/71 Facebook https://www.facebook.com/dobberco Twitter http://twitter.com/MattDobschuetz Google+ https://plus.google.com/+MattDobschuetz FEEDBACK http://recoveredman.com/contact-matt/ The post 071 Why Men Look at Porn appeared first on Recovered Man.

It's been 2 years of Pornfree Radio and this is a show unlike any other. On this episode we focus on partners. We discuss disclosures, coming clean, check-ins, and the partners' experience. Counselor Hope Ray sits joins Matt for an informative discussion that will help both motivated guys who want to quit looking at porn and the partners who love them. In this episode: What and when to tell your wife The disclosure process What staggered disclosure is and why it's damaging F.A.S.T.T. Check-ins Hope Ray returns Monday, June 6th to answer your questions about recovery and relationships. Email matt@pornfreeradio.com to ask a question. 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt http://recoveredman.com/coaching Show Notes Links and show notes at http://recoveredman.com/70 Facebook https://www.facebook.com/dobberco Twitter http://twitter.com/MattDobschuetz Google+ https://plus.google.com/+MattDobschuetz FEEDBACK http://recoveredman.com/contact-matt/ The post 070 Hope for Partners, Wives, and Girlfriends with Hope Ray appeared first

Opening the mailbag once again this week with a stack of questions from you the listener. In this episode: "Is sex in recovery okay?" "What about hard mode?" "What about sex when your older?" "What happens when you and your partner have a different sex drive?" "What if you're addicted to images that aren't traditional pornography?" 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt http://recoveredman.com/coaching Show Notes Links and show notes at http://recoveredman.com/69 Facebook https://www.facebook.com/dobberco Twitter http://twitter.com/MattDobschuetz Google+ https://plus.google.com/+MattDobschuetz FEEDBACK http://recoveredman.com/contact-matt/ The post 069 Sex In Recovery From Porn? appeared first on Recovered Man.

On this episode, Matt digs into the PFR mailbag and answers some questions listeners want to know. Questions covered: "Are you still doing the podcast?" "How long does it take to quit porn?" "What worse to relapse in porn or masturbation?" "Can you recover if you have not hit rock bottom?" "Where can you look for an accountability partner?" "We don't think our way to right action, we act our way to right thinking." - AA Recovery Quote 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt http://recoveredman.com/coaching Show Notes Links and show notes at http://recoveredman.com/68 Facebook https://www.facebook.com/dobberco Twitter http://twitter.com/MattDobschuetz Google+ https://plus.google.com/+MattDobschuetz FEEDBACK http://recoveredman.com/contact-matt/ The post 068 How Long Does It Take To Quit Porn? appeared first on Recovered Man.

Sometimes we discover that we just plain want to hang on porn. We want to be passive and put the responsibility of moving forward on someone else. But it's time to make a decision. In Episode 66, I asked the question, "Do you really want to fix this?" This episode struck a nerve with the audience. I received more email then I ever have before. Some guys were worried I was quitting podcasting. Several guys thought my sharp comments were directly at them. And many more shared the action they were taking as a result from this show. So I thought I would go deeper into what set me off. It's the passive will and a failure to take responsibility. In this episode, you'll learn: - The quote that almost got me in a fight - What we discover about our struggle - What the passive will is - About the decision we must make - What it means to decide "Sometimes we discover that we just plain want to hang on to the sinful behavior, and some of us even have to face the fact that we then hope to blame God for not "healing" us. W