Love Life With Matthew Hussey

In today’s episode of LOVE Life I take a fascinating call from a woman named Kailani who wonders if there’s a reason why the modern man has so much trouble committing to a relationship. I dig in deep to reveal some powerful truths about the way men think about commitment – including the real reason why a guy can meet his “dream woman” and still not be able to settle down.  I give one of my most important pieces of advice so that you’ll never waste your time again on a guy who’s not ready to get serious, and I tell you the exact questions to ask to find out if he is.

If a guy is interested in you, he’ll ask you out, right?  Not necessarily. Some men – especially if they’re shy – are waiting for a sign that you like him, too.  In today’s episode I’m going to teach you a playful way to give that shy guy a little push to ask you out. The best part?  There’s zero risk of rejection.

Would you like to get more done in a day?  How would it feel to accomplish all of your biggest goals before everyone else has had a chance to down their morning coffee?  I’ve got a simple secret to smashing through distractions, making the most of your energy, avoiding “decision fatigue,” and earning yourself some much-deserved downtime.  I tell you how in today’s LOVE Life…

It’s the modern dilemma all daters must face: “When should I change my Facebook status from ‘single’ to ‘in a relationship?’  And how do I bring it up to my guy without looking needy?”  I’ve got the answer for you in today’s LOVE Life, and I give you a clever way to say it that actually shows your loyalty and encourages him to change his status without ever having to ask him to do it.

Here’s a little secret about men: More often than not, we want to be in a committed relationship.  We just want to believe that it was our idea in the first place.  That’s why putting pressure on a guy or “selling” him on the idea of exclusivity will only push him away.  In today’s episode I’m going to hand you the exact words to say to a guy to let him know you’re interested in something more serious without sounding like an ultimatum. This allows you to show your standard and send the subtle message that if he doesn’t make up his mind he risks losing you forever.  Chances are, after this talk, HE’LL be the one asking YOU for the commitment. (He’ll only think it’s all his own idea!)

You’ve just started seeing a guy you’re really into.  You just can’t get enough of each other. You spend night and day together.  You cancel plans with friends so you don’t miss a chance to see him.  Before you know it, you’ve got a toothbrush and a drawer of clothes at his place, and you’re wondering whether to say “I love you” (even though it’s only been a whirlwind few weeks).  Then suddenly, out of the blue, he starts ignoring your texts and phone calls.  He ditches plans with you to go out with the guys.  You can feel the shift: he’s starting to pull away from you.  In today’s LOVE Life I’m going to explain exactly WHAT is going on inside his head, WHY this is happening, and HOW you can get through this tricky phase with your relationship intact.  I’ll even give you a script of what to say to reverse the situation, create more attraction, and make your relationship even stronger than it was before.

Is Facebook killing your confidence?  Making you feel like everyone else has a perfect relationship?  Chances are it is without you even realizing it.  In today’s episode of LOVE Life, I tell you why comparing your life to others’ seemingly perfect existence is a dangerous game…and how you can create an extraordinary life no matter how ordinary your circumstances.  Stay tuned to the end because I’m going to leave you with a brilliant quotation that will remind you why your happiness should never be measured against anyone else.

In today’s episode of LOVE Life I take a great modern-day dating question from a caller named Sarah: Do men spend hours looking through the social media profiles of women they like? You may be surprised by my answer, and why it’s not necessarily a bad thing. I also explain why it’s important to get offline and meet in person, so your real personality can shine through.

Ok, let’s do this.  Let’s answer this age-old, much-debated question once and for all right now.  But, brace yourself: you may be surprised by what I have to say.  The truth is, I don’t think we’re asking ourselves the right question in the first place.  In today’s LOVE Life, I’m going to tell you what that question should be.  I break down the secret, underlying dynamic between all men and women and explain what it REALLY means to be loyal to your partner.  If you think it means neither of you should be attracted to anyone else outside the relationship, think again…

You want to meet Mr. Right…but what if your own life (e.g. career, finances) isn’t in the perfect place right now?  Should you wait until you get yourself sorted out first before you put yourself “out there?” You may be surprised by my answer.  In fact, I have a challenge for you in today’s episode of LOVE Life that will prepare you to meet the kind of man you’ve always wanted (and have some serious fun in the meantime!).

Is Facebook killing your confidence? Making you feel like everyone else has a perfect relationship? Chances are it is without you even realizing it. In today’s episode of LOVE Life, I tell you why comparing your life to others’ seemingly perfect existence is a dangerous game…and how you can create an extraordinary life no matter how ordinary your circumstances. Stay tuned to the end because I’m going to leave you with a brilliant quotation that will remind you why your happiness should never be measured against anyone else.

You may think that bending over backwards to be easygoing, accommodating, and understanding with a man makes you more likeable.  But does it make him respect you?  Not a chance.  If you’re used to giving and giving and giving in relationships and not getting what you need in return, today’s LOVE Life is for you.  I’m going to teach you how to undo years of people-pleasing behavior so you can uphold your standards, which will lead to the respect and love you so deserve.

I have 2 huge problems with most New Year’s advice.  In today’s LOVE Life, I’ll tell you what they are and why they are sabotaging your attempts at getting the love you deserve.  I’m also going to tell you the secret to getting drastic results, and why failing at your resolutions doesn’t have to derail you from reaching your goals in a big way this year.  Stay tuned til the end for details on how to get my free guide – “6 Shortcuts to Love.” (ShortcutsToLove.com)

Did you know that by January 15th, 90% of people have already given up on their New Year’s resolutions?  Don’t fall into this trap!  In today’s LOVE Life I’m going to give you the no-overwhelm secret to sticking to your resolutions.  You’re actually going to take the pressure off of yourself, scale back your goals, and STILL get the biggest results you ever have this year.  And stay tuned until the end of the episode, because I’m going to tell you how you can get an amazing free gift: your 2016 action plan for love.  (ShortcutsToLove.com)

We all know Christmas isn’t really about the presents… but did you know that there is ONE gift you can give to every single person you care about (without opening your wallet) that will transform your relationship with them instantly?  In this special episode of LOVE Life I share the simple secret to doing this.  And be sure to stay tuned to the end, where I tell you how to grab your free gift from me that will help you make the most out of this holiday season (and could possibly send you straight into the arms of Mr. Right by New Year’s Eve)!

If you consider yourself a strong, independent woman… If you have trouble asking for help… If your default mode is, “I can do it myself” AND you’re wondering why guys don’t approach you, then I want you to listen closely to today’s episode of LOVE Life.  I’m going to reveal 4 simple things you can do that make you instantly more approachable, and explain the ONE thing you must bring to every relationship to make it work.  You’ll also learn the surprising quality that truly makes you strong with men.

If you’re sick of wasting your precious time on the wrong guys, today’s episode of LOVE Life is for you.  Too often, we get stuck in a “small talk” rut when we first meet someone new.  The problem with that, aside from the fact that it’s awkward and boring, is that it doesn’t tell us much about the person that we’re spending time talking to.  I’m going to give you a brilliant conversational technique that allows you to take the question, “How are you?” and turn it into an opportunity to discover whether he has the qualities you’re really looking for in a man.  All in 5 minutes.  This is a must-listen.

Welcome to the new “hookup culture,” where a woman can sleep with a man she’s just met with no strings attached and no emotional consequences.  Or can she?  I take on this controversial subject in today’s episode of LOVE Life and tell you what guys REALLY think of a woman who sleeps with a man on a first date. This has got me all fired up, and I can’t wait to hear your thoughts on the topic too…

The holidays are a time of romance, of closeness, of snuggling up together by the fire and opening the gifts you thoughtfully picked out for one another… BUT what if you’re not feeling the love for your guy anymore?  If you’ve been thinking of breaking up with him, should you wait until after the holidays or just get it over with as soon as possible?   In this episode of LOVE Life we sort through your options and come up with the most fair plan to do what’s best for your soon-to-be ex.

What is the sexiest quality in a woman, or in a man for that matter?  If you said “confidence,” that’s a good guess…but it’s not the right answer.  In today’s episode of LOVE Life I’m going to reveal what this rare – but easily attainable – quality is, and explain the 3 ways you can approach life (hint: you want to choose #3).  When you do this, you’ll be more interesting, engaging, fascinating and attractive to everyone you meet.