Sex With Dr. Jess

Are you curious about sex and cannabis? Do you understand between the difference between THC and CBD? And did you know that you can experience cannabis pleasure without getting “high”? Cannasexual, Ashley Manta, joins us and teaches us that we have a lot to learn. Follow Ashley on... Twitter Facebook Instagram Also check Ashley's online course, "The Ten Commandments of Hand Sex", available for purchase right now! This podcast is brought to you by Desire Resorts.  

Jess and Brandon continue the “partner interview” and share details about their greatest fears, fondest memories, where they hope to be in ten years and what they’re working on in terms of self-development. This podcast is brought to you by Desire Resorts.

Jess and Brandon interview one another in an attempt to better understand their own relationship. They talk about their initial attraction and what they want to work on in their relationship. This is part one of the “Lover’s Interview”. This podcast is brought to you by Desire Resorts. One of the best parts of my job involves facilitating workshops on relationships, communication, and sex — both online and in-person. I swear I do more learning than teaching and I love receiving feedback from participants — especially when they report that an activity or course positively affects their self-esteem and/or relationships. One of the most popular in-session activities for couples involves The Partner Interview, which almost always receives rave reviews. This exercise involves a very simple set of questions that you take turn answering with your lover. Here are just a few reasons why my clients and I love it: You can repeat it every few months and learn something new every time. It opens up new conversatio

Is polyamory on the rise? Are throuples the new norm? And what’s the difference between polyfidelity, non-hierarchical polyamory, and relationship anarchy? Jenny Yuen, author of Polyamorous,  joins Jess to share her personal experiences and professional insights on consensual non-monogamy. Follow Jenny on... Instagram Facebook Twitter Be sure to check out the 'Toronto Lit Up' book launch for Polyamorous happening on November 16th at Type Books. This podcast is brought to you by Desire Resorts.

Dee H. Black & Ladyee Vee join Jess in Atlanta to talk about their interactive Face-Sitting workshops. They share tips and techniques for this powerful sex act as well as insights into why it is gaining popularity. Follow DV Passion Love Experience, LCC here: Facebook  Twitter Instagram This podcast is brought to you by Desire Resorts.

Sex educator Domina Franco, a former semi-pro wrestler and phone sex operator, joins Jess and Brandon at The Sex Expo in Brooklyn. They discuss phone sex, Dominance, submission, dirty talk and how to make sex more exciting and authentic. Follow Domina on... Instagram Facebook This podcast is brought to you by Desire Resorts.

Are you curious about sex parties? What can you expect from a woman-focused sex party experience? Do you have to get naked and/or have sex? And what’s up with the name, Killing Kittens, anyway? Founder Emma Sayle, joins Jess and Brandon to share her story right before they attend their very first Killing Kittens party in New York. Follow Emma on... Instagram Twitter Follow Killing Kittens on... Instagram Facebook Twitter This podcast is brought to you by Desire Resorts.

What is kinky sex? What goes down at kink camp? And how can you kink up your sex life? Bex Caputo joins Jess and Brandon to share his experience, insight, and expertise. Bex has been a proud and undeniable kinkster ever since he insisted on being served his meals in a dog bowl at the age of 8, so he knows his stuff! Follow Bex on... Instagram Twitter Youtube You can also check out Bex's podcast (with Kate Sloan), The Dildorks. This podcast is brought to you by Desire Resorts.    

What is the bisexual double-standard? How does erasure affect bisexuals? And how does bisexuality work in the Swing Lifestyle? Angelique and John join Jess to discuss their experiences as a bisexual couple. Follow Angelique on... Facebook Twitter Instagram Follow John on... Facebook Twitter This podcast is brought to you by Desire Resorts.

Amina Peterson joins Jess to discuss the practice and philosophy of tantra. What is tantric breathing and meditation? How can a body scan improve your sex life an overall well-being? It’s not all about sex, but sex is certainly enhanced by the practice. Amina closes the episode with a brief body scan that moves Jess to a state of deep vulnerability. Follow Amina on... Instagram Youtube Facebook This podcast is brought to you by Desire Resorts.

Pansexual. Cisgender. Sapiosexual. Gender Queer. Gender Fluid. Agender. Aromantic. Demisexual. Gender Non-confirming. Transgender. Award-winning activist, Aida Manduley, joins Jess on the podcast to discuss terminology related to sex and gender. Which terms are appropriate and which are not? And how we can celebrate inclusion and learn from our own mistakes. Listen below to learn more! Follow Aida on... Twitter Instagram Check out these links that will help you become more familiar with various sexual pronouns... Practice With Pronouns Minus 18 This podcast is brought to you by Desire Resorts.    

Are on-again-off-again relationships healthy? How can we break bad relationship habits? How do you recover after cheating? And how do you know if your work crush is crossing the line? Therapists Eboni Harris & Eliza Boquin join Jess to share their insights on these topics and more. They’ve got some great advice so make sure you tune in! Follow Eboni on... Facebook Twitter Instagram Youtube Follow Eliza on... Facebook  Twitter Instagram  Youtube Follow Melanin Mental Health on... Facebook Instagram  Twitter This podcast is brought to you by Desire Resorts.

If you’re curious about the butt and its potential for pleasure, tune in for lessons in anatomy, pleasure, technique and more! For more anal sex tips, check this out! This podcast is brought to you by Desire Resorts. Podcast Transcript Anal Play What! what! In the butt! Your bum is one of the most responsive erogenous zones on your body, so exploring its pleasure potential is a no-brainer. Not only is the anus rich in super-sensitive nerve endings, but it is actually anatomically configured for mind-blowing orgasms for both men and women: the male G-Spot, also known as the prostate, and the female cul-de-sac, that sexy region on the lower vaginal wall, can be stimulated through the back door. Despite the climax-centered design of the bum, anal sex continues to retain its taboo status...at least in theory. In reality, however, anal sex is quite common. Research suggests that nearly half of men and women have engaged in anal intercourse and orgasm rates are actually higher for women who include anal play i

Uncle Mike (Captain Lyn - @lyn.mike) joins Jess and Brandon to share his insights on marriage after 51+ years. Have a listen! With age comes wisdom and even if his experience is different than your own, you’ll find pearls of wisdom worth taking to heart. This podcast is brought to you by Desire Resorts.

Jess & Brandon model a “how-to-talk-about-sex” conversation in response to a listener’s question — they share their unprepared responses on the spot. They also weigh in on spicing up date night, watching web-cam models, sex clubs, sleeping after sex & how long to wait before having sex with a new partner. Please find a rough summary of the podcast below. We are working on providing full transcripts for all podcasts. Welcome to the SexWithDrJess Podcast. I’m Jessica O’Reilly, your friendly neighbourhood sexologist and I’m here with my better half, Brandon Ware. Today, we’ll be answering listener questions about sex and relationships. Before we get started, I’d like to thank Desire Resorts for their support and remind you that we’ll be facilitating workshops at both properties in Mexico on October 24-25, 2018. More details can be found here. Question: I listened to your podcast on sex clubs and we’ve talked about going, but I’m just not there yet. I’m fine with watching porn, but the idea of real live peop

Single? Dating? Coupled? Whatever your relationship status, it’s time to take responsibility for your own happiness. Andrea Bain, host of the “Single Girl Problems” podcast joins Jess to share insights and advice for both couples and singles. This podcast is brought to you by Desire Resorts. Follow Andrea on... Twitter Instagram Here’s a summary of the dating and relationship advice Jess and Andrea discuss in this podcast: 1. Don’t treat a date like an interview. Do not get hung up on assessing their assets and deficits. Instead, just stay focused on how you're feeling in the moment. How you feel about yourself in the presence of another person is a very good measure of the relationship. Think about it — it applies to your boss, to clients, to work teams, to your parents, your lovers, your siblings. Stop measuring and start feeling. If that sounds too abstract, let me get a bit more specific. Each time you catch yourself assessing a date or analyzing your compatibility, wiggle your toes to distract your

Jess and Brandon share their insights on what constitutes online cheating and how to handle disagreements about chatting with exes and others online. In another podcast episode, Jess discuss why it's important to talk about infidelity with your partner. Listen here. This podcast is brought to you by Desire Resorts.

Jess and Brandon team up to answer listener questions about anal sex, discrepancies in desire, how to get your partner to talk about fantasies and more. They share personal insights and open up about some of their sexual experiences (even if Brandon doesn’t seem to remember all of them!). Jess and Brandon take to Instagram Stories to answer some additional questions, check it out below! This podcast is brought to you by Desire Resorts. (function(v,i,d,e,o){v[o]=v[o]||{}; v[o].add = v[o].add || function V(a){ (v[o].d=v[o].d||[]).push(a);}; if(!v[o].l) { v[o].l=1*new Date(); a=i.createElement(d), m=i.getElementsByTagName(d)[0]; a.async=1; a.src=e; m.parentNode.insertBefore(a,m);} })(window,document,"script","https://cdn-gce.vdocipher.com/playerAssets/1.5.0/vdo.js","vdo"); vdo.add({ otp: "20160313versUSE323BX8fEvv3XzNvfcbrx7xkATA93MIAbleOLQTMdIIfBAJ0ju", playbackInfo: "eyJ2aWRlb0lkIjoiZjVjOTNlN2FmYTdkNDBjNTlkYzQ0ZThkYjcwNjQwYmIifQ==", theme: "9ae8bbe8dd964ddc9bdb932cca1cb59a", container: documen

Dr. Liz Powell joins Jess and Brandon to discuss how “hot thoughts” sabotage relationships. They also discuss friendships, gender roles and share personal stories of relationship struggles. Follow Dr. Liz on... Twitter Instagram Facebook Check out Dr. Liz's book, Building Open Relationships, here. This podcast is brought to you by Desire Resorts.

Are you curious about your friends, co-workers and neighbors’ fantasies? Of course you are! Dr. Justin Lehmiller was curious too, so he asked over 4000 Americans to share their deepest, darkest and most exciting fantasies. He discusses this fascinating research from his latest book, Tell Me What You Want, with Jess in this week’s episode. Follow Justin on... Facebook Twitter Check out another podcast Jess recorded with Justin about cuckolding and cuckqueening here! This podcast is brought to you by Desire Resorts.