T&a Talk Sex

Wow, we totally had a show topic for this week- and then Jayson Thibault from Punch Drunk Sports happened! Which made for an epic episode.  His candid discussion about all things relationships, sex, family, and growing up with lesbian parents bring us to a higher level of honesty! How does a young boy growing up with all women affect him as a man? How does T growing up with her father affect her as a grown woman? A shares her personal story about her mom's ovarian cancer, and how she handled the experience.  And so much more real talk happens in this episode.  Enjoy!

After T&A attended amateur stripper night in support of their friends, they were seriously thinking about a career change!  Inspired by these regular 9-5 er's struttin' their stuff for the first time on the pole in PUBLIC, T&A sat down with a couple of these brave ladies to hear all about their experience.  They share how they got into taking pole dancing class, their biggest challenges, their partner and friend's reactions, and how it helped transform them into the sensual creatures they always wanted to be.  And yes, this does translate to the bedroom.  Ladies, if you struggle with being sensual or even understanding what that is, and guys, if you want to understand women more, tune in to this fascinating and lively episode.

EP 114! In homage to the fall and the change of season, we're talking all about endings and new beginnings, with comedien Lahna Turner.  'A' shares her relationship revelations from a session with a psychic that changed her romantic life, then Lahna gets candid and raw about currently going through a divorce and we get the full  story of how 'Limeade', her new comedic, visual album from the title parady of Beyonce's 'Lemonade' came into being.  Plus, a lively debate over how to handle the death of intimacy after children enter the picture with a real-life mom, and then we cap it off with 'New Dick', Lahna's HILARIOUS new song from Limeade.  

In this month's episode of Ask T&A, the girls tackle three listener's questions... well, two listeners and one very curious uber driver.  A wife writes in wanting to know how she can get her husband to be more romantic with her, the curious Uber driver is dying to know how to get his wife to be sexual with him again, and one listener in transition wants to try a period of celibacy- but can she do it without leaving her relationship?  All this, a load of laughs and a firey debate between T&A over differing views in this months advice episode.  Have a question or comment?  Write in for next month's episode at advice@TAtalksex.com

Obi and Booda, the esteemed dudes of Dude Panel Radio (also for your viewing pleasure on youtube), hijack this week's episode of T&A Talk Sex and turn the hosts, into the guests.  Hear the gang talk about growing up and getting bullied (and kicking ass), Booda's new revelations on the importance of taking the romance out of falling in love, and an in-depth and hilarious analysis of what each of the host's sex sounds actually mean. 

Still decompressing from their Burning Man 2016 adventures, T&A hop on air to talk all about it aaaannnd of course, T&A happened to land in the hands of two, savvy lovers who gave each of them sexual experiences that will forever change their sex lives.  Hear about T's first ever tantric massage and what quality in a lover she now refuses to go without! Plus, A has the best sex of her life and shares the secret that made her go from completely sexually uninterested, to the best sex of her life- instantly.  When the man burns... it is no joke.  

While T&A make their way back from Burning Man, listen in on secret archived episode #3 where the girls talk with burlesque performer Mona Bella to take a look at the difference betwwen sexuality and sensuatliy, and what impact they both have on our sexual experiences.  Are you sensual? Sexual? Can you be both? How? and Why? 

In this month's advice episode, listeners Ask T&A - what's going on that's making the sex I have uncomfortable? Can a relationship survive without sex? Plus a listener's thoughts on gentlemanliness, dating and finances

In this lively episode T&A talk with Dave Neal, comedien and host of the podcast, 'Sex Actually' and rest assured when you get three hosts of sex talk podcasts, there's a lot of sharing going on - like how Dave successfully managed to get out of the friend zone with his now girlfriend(!)  Plus T&A take advantage of having a guy in studio and pick Dave's brain on what might be behind some male behaviors that keep popping up that we women just don't get.  Check Dave out @DNealz and be sure to listen to Sex Actually wherever you do your podcast listening.

As more travel takes T&A out of the studio, we get to play you episode two of our secret archives from when we first started the show all those years ago (2014:)  Get to know T&A so much more as we interview each other and have an in-depth share of our personal stories and what led us to start the show- then called 'Pushing Boundaries with T&A'.  

Does the modern march towards equality keep men from being men and women from being women?  And how is that affecting our relationships?  In this riveting and lively conversation T&A talk with two, true gentlemen: John, A's lover- and Stuart, T&A's dear friend, to get their insightful and provactive take on what it means to be a gentleman and why they get turned off by a woman who won't let them treat a lady like a lady.  A fascinating conversation to be heard by any man who's a little lost on how to be a man in today's culture, and for any woman who might be losing touch with her femininity in an effort to be the strong woman of today.

Ayahuasca- that psychedelic drug shamans take to go on spiritutal 'journeys'.  Well, T&A had the chance to take it and what a journey they went on.  Listen in as the girls share their experience from beginning to end- the shamanic circle, the vomiting, confronting demons and the utter bliss.  And despite T being convinced she was dying while A was having non-stop orgasms... it was all worth it.  Listen in to find out why.

On this month's episode of Ask T&A, a listener writes in about his wife's hyper-sensitive clitoris and asks for some suggestions on what else he can do in the bedroom to please her.  Plus, is it OK if she only orgasms in one position?  And, if she has to masturbate herself to orgasm while I'm having sex with her, am I doing something wrong?  Then T&A clarify what STDs you can and cannot get from a sensual massage and the ladies read some listener's thoughtful  comments on last month's advice episode talking about consent.

Due to some technical glitch when moving to their new network, the very first 17 episodes of 'T&A' somehow didn't get aired.  So this week Episode Numero Uno is being made available especially for you from the secret archives of T&A.  Listen in as T&A introduce themselves and talk to 'The Immigrant', an anonymous friend of A's who just recently had her first (and only) experience as an escort- an opporutnity set up by her Dad... ?!?!  T&A were anonymous at the time, and the show was called 'Pushing Boundaries with T&A'.... they also were radio virgins- so be gentle :)   To hear an update from 'The Immigrant', listen to Episode #92: '6 Texting Habits That Will Save Your Relationship'  

In this latest episode T&A catch up on the somewhat wild week apart they’ve had when A vacationed in Montreal, took a sexy lover and had the best casual sex of her life so far, while also coming face to face with her lover’s alter, not so good, ‘sex personality’.  Plus, insight into what builds intimacy in daily life with your partner- and what tears it down.  And finally - T gets banned from her lover’s abode! Learn and laugh in this week’s episode with T&A.

T&A share the top things they love and hate that guys do, or don't do, in the bedroom.  After A has another maddening experience with a man and her breast, the girls thought it might be time to share some enlightening tidbits about some bedroom habits that don't work, but somehow still happen- like treating nipples like radio dials.  Prepare to be entertained and enlightened in this lively and informative roundtable chat with T&A's good friend 'Nicole'.  

Every month listeners write in with their questions to Ask T&A.  In this month's episode (T&A's 100th show!!) one woman discovers multiple orgasms and masturbation bliss with her new Rabit vibrator, but after a month of using it now has a hard time orgasming with her partner.  Does she need to breakup with her vibrator?  Will she be able to orgasm with her partner again??  Plus, consent.  Consent is all over the media and one guy wants to know if T&A have ever been pushed beyond their limits, and just how exactly a guy is supposed to know if she's playing coy or really saying no?  Get your questions in for next month's episode by emailing advice@TAtalkSex.com

Feminism is a hot topic today! With so much pressure to be a feminist - or be "pro-fem", wearing a "this is what a feminist looks like" t-shirt - T&A had to ask, what does it mean to be a feminist? After an alarming audition for a network TV show, 'A' questioned 'are we going in the right direction?' Listen in as 3 generations of women - Helen (79), Gina, from Gen-x, and Annie (17), all from the same family - discuss feminism.  ...and what does that mean for the men in our lives? These ladies speak honestly and openly about our own experiences, what concerns us most moving forward in our culture, and how we, as men and women, can all self-actualize for more contentment!  Helene graduated college in 1957.  She hosted consciousness raising groups in the 60's, and worked for many years with the League of Women Voters on the Equal Credit Opportunity Act and more! Gina is an award winning filmmaker including films screened at Sundance Film Festival, shortlisted for an Oscar nomination, and collaboration on do

Are you bored with sex? Not getting off like you used to? Maybe it's time to evolve! "How?", you ask?  Listen in as T&A discuss a new way of approaching sex that will keep you alive, invigorated, and in the game.  T gets honest about a profound shift in her sexual desire, and A helps process it with a breakdown of how we evolve as human beings in our sexuality to achieve mastery over our own desires - become the captain of our own ship.  How does our sex life evolve over the years? And why didn't anyone teach us this? We don't have to feel driven by our desires, but rather we can feel empowered by knowledge and experience as we choose the sexual experiences we want to have.. and with confidence.  

In this lively and informative chat with Tripp host of the hot podcast, 'How To Talk To Girls', T&A get solid advice from a guy who's learned the hard way about dating and talking to women.  A social scientist of his own accord, Tripp shares some of his fascinating insights that are also- practical.  From key differences in men and women's communication styles, attraction and the friend zone, this is a great conversation to listen to if you want to be more natural, and succesfful, with women without having to follow douchy, dis-ingenuous 'bro' how-to's.  Check Tripp out @Trippadvice