Middleton Methods: Marriage, Family, & Business Podcast

Of course, in our over a decade relationship, we’ve been disappointed in each other a couple of time. However, we’ve found ways to express our disappointment productively, to help us grow our relationship stronger. Let’s Talk About This: Does your disappointment stem from your expectations? Are your expectations of your partner too high? How do you express your disappointment with your partner? How do you react to your partner’s disappointment? How do you make up for disappointing your partner?   See Blog Posts on - Ride OR Die Couples: http://rideordiecouples.com/   Follow them on INSTAGRAM: @brandonandsam   Like them on FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/rideordiecouples/

We usually don’t have the time to celebrate Valentine’s Day on Valentine’s Day. But, we’ve been able to surprise each other with different Valentine’s Day ideas over the past 18years Let’s talk about this: Do you have to celebrate Valentine’s Day on Valentine’s Day? Do you do something nice on Valentine’s Day expecting something in return? Is there pressure on you to do something exceptional on Valentine’s Day? What are your best and worst Valentine’s Day idea or gift?   See Blog Posts on - Ride OR Die Life: http://rideordiecouples.com/   Follow them on INSTAGRAM: @brandonandsam   Like them on FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/rideordiecouples/

Here are some of the questions we had come in this week... Moving: How do you handle moving away from family? Sex: How does Sam get in the mood when she's not really in the mood? Business: Why did you quit your Seven figure company? How do you get your spouse on board with the change? Health: Sam, what have you been doing to stay motivated with your health? Parenting: Advise for new parents.   See Blog Posts on - Ride OR Die Couples: http://rideordiecouples.com/   Follow them on INSTAGRAM: @brandonandsam   Like them on FACEBOOK:  

We were fortunate enough to have a dinner date recently with 2 other amazing Ride Or Die Couples.  One of the biggest topics that came up is how we stay on a good morning routine. So why keep it to just table talk?!  Listen in as we share exactly what we do to stay on track, get more done, and crush our goals week in and week out.   See Blog Posts on -Ride OR Die Life:http://rideordiecouples.com/   Follow them on INSTAGRAM:@brandonandsam   Like them on FACEBOOK:  

Research shows that dating regularly is proven to strengthen your relationship. Over time, it can be easy to just let life “get in the way” and date nights become a pastime. It’s crucial for you to put quality time with your SO and we want to help you make the most of it!  Listen in as we talk about how you can get in the action!   Remember to like us on FACEBOOK:     Follow us on INSTAGRAM: @brandonandsam   Get Ride Or Die Gear and More Here:   And Catch Our Other Episodes Here:

In our house, cheating is a DEAL BREAKER!  But, from time to time the subject comes us and gets us talking.     Think about this: What do you stand for and stand against in your relationship? Have you discussed cheating with your SO?   What are the deal breakers in your relationship? Are there any needs your partner isn’t meeting right now?   See Blog Posts on - Ride OR Die Life: Follow them on INSTAGRAM: @brandonandsam Like them on FACEBOOK:  

Let’s call out the ladies today! Today, Brandon and Sam talk about three things every husband wishes he could tell his wife. B has married guy friends who come to him all the time, asking what he does that makes Sam treat him the way she does. Today, they dig all the way down to the root. You’ll hear some great “storytime” segments with both Brandon and Sam as they pull today’s topic into their own marriage and put it out into the universe. Learn why it’s important to stop complaining and start focusing on the good things you do for each other. Learn why men are complicated, and why they’re not as complicated as you think. In today’s episode, you’ll get a front row seat as the conversation between the Middletons gets emotional in the best way! Enjoy!   See Blog Posts on - Ride Or Die Life: Follow them on INSTAGRAM: @brandonandsam Like them on FACEBOOK:

Setting goals together is important to avoid wedges in your relationship. Wedges form in areas where each of you leads a separate life. Planning and goal-setting together makes celebrating wins even sweeter. Listen as Brandon and Sam discuss their busy holiday season, and why goal-setting is so important to their success. You’ll hear why clear communication and decisive action are important, how to avoids feeling left behind or “out of the loop,” and how Whiteboard Sessions can help each of you feel heard. Happy New Year! See Blog Posts on - Ride OR Die Couples: Follow them on INSTAGRAM: @brandonandsam Like them on FACEBOOK:

Money can be a touchy subject for couples...especially during the holiday season. Spending increases, and planning & shopping can be a nightmare. Let B and Sam help! In this episode, Brandon and Sam share their shopping and gifting strategies for this year, including some awesome tips on how and where to find deals. They also delve into the sometimes-sensitive subject of budgeting. Brandon discusses one of his favorite budget planning methods in this episode, and LISTEN CLOSE for an exclusive link to get access to a tool that can save you a ton of time and headaches when you’re planning a budget!   See Blog Posts on - Ride OR Die Life: Follow them on INSTAGRAM: @brandonandsam Like them on FACEBOOK:

It happens between couples AND between parents and children Recognize that no one has power over you. YOU choose your reactions and behavior. Often when your partner is pushing your buttons, it’s because they’re struggling and looking for an outlet. They have lost control and are trying to find their way. It takes time to become aware of, and eventually immune to, The Power Struggle. Breaking the mold of “traditional” (old-fashioned) relationship roles. “Breadwinner” syndrome. Learning the dance and respecting each other’s role in parenting, in the relationship, and in business. January is the biggest month for the divorce rate - get through the holiday season! Timing is everything! Learn to identify where your partner’s focus is and ride the wave until the timing is more appropriate. Understand when and how each other learns and recharges their power. Don’t give away your power! Avoid comparing yourself on social media or at dinner parties. Everyone shows off their bells and whistles, and most people hide th

100 Episode Milestone! Two years! Home, Heart, Health, and Hustle “What are your favorite quick smoothie recipes?” “How do you stay motivated to work out early in the morning?” “How long after Peyton was born did you go out on a date?” “How did you guys stay close during pregnancy?” Keeping up the intimacy. Go on a babymoon? Coming up with date night ideas. Day dates! Spend the day with your spouse, and then go with the kids after school. “Do you guys take weekends off?” The importance of setting boundaries and giving yourself time to recharge as an entrepreneur and a family. Putting your Significant Other first! “Can you talk about handling faith with the kids?” Going to church, Bible app, overcoming upbringing to recognize the importance of faith. “Any book recommendations?” Profit First by Mike Michalowicz Sacred Marriage by Gary Thomas Personal development is for you; seek out resources that help with couples. Competitive nature with growth. Sam: “He’ll outgrow this relationship.” Look for seminar comin

Do you give to your significant other, or are you sucking the life out of your relationship?  Don't open the door to bad habits.  A lot of people fall into the trap of being greedy and taking from their relationship without giving FIRST, and that ends up causing animosity and arguments between a couple.  It takes a lot of practice, but you can create consistent, good habits that are guaranteed to help lead to a more peaceful home environment.  Listen now for these 5 easy things to do for your significant other...even when you're mad at them...to help keep the peace and keep your relationship thriving.   See Blog Posts on - Ride OR Die Life: Follow them on INSTAGRAM: @brandonandsam Like them on FACEBOOK:

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We're all guilty of it, right?  You're in the heat of the moment, and you say something to your bae but they totally hear something different and overreact.  We had that very thing happen to us recently, and today we're breaking down the break down in our communication.  Hear what caused the rift, and what you can do to avoid this same thing in your relationship!     See Blog Posts on - Ride OR Die Life: Follow them on INSTAGRAM: @brandonandsam Like them on FACEBOOK:

Clutter clutter clutter!!!  As we clean the playroom time after time, we look around and have started thinking with the holidays coming up we'll be swimming in toys if we don't do something about it!  So listen in to hear about what cool twist we're putting on the holidays this year that will not only help with all the clutter, but create memories for the family that will last a lifetime.   See Blog Posts on - Ride OR Die Life: Follow them on INSTAGRAM: @brandonandsam Like them on FACEBOOK:

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There's a lot of controversy over guys and girls going on a guys' trip or girls' trip.  The reality is, when you aren't "taking a break" there's a healthy and fulfilling way to go away with the guys or girls without your spouse resenting you for it.  Listen in as we discuss how each of us recently took separate trips, what we did, and how we balanced the decision without fighting over it.   See Blog Posts on - The Middleton Methods: Follow them on INSTAGRAM: @brandonandsam Like them on FACEBOOK:

There's a wheel of financial information that no one prepares you for when you enter into your own business. And let's face it, estate planning, tax preparation, and financial investments can be super confusing and overwhelming when you just don't know what you don't know. When you're working on your business you probably have questions about how to leverage your income and how to best protect your legacy. Listen in as B talks with friend and guest Kingsley Charles, a wealth preservation and consulting expert, as he shares why having a strong financial consultant is crucial to your success. Learn More:   See Blog Posts on - The Middleton Methods: Follow them on INSTAGRAM: @brandonandsam Like them on FACEBOOK:

Sex can be a powerful tool. Come listen in to why B and Sam believe keeping your partner sexually satisfied is important. See Blog Posts on - The Middleton Methods: Follow them on INSTAGRAM: @brandonandsam Like them on FACEBOOK:

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