Hannah And Matt Know It All

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of December 23rd, 2018, and beyond, including: Ask Dr. NerdLove: "Am I Just Being Jealous?" Dear Miss Lonelyhearts: "'Confirmed bachelor' should enjoy his freedom" Miss Manners: "Two Breakfast Items? How Dare You" Social Q's: "What's Wrong With Books for Christmas?" Dear Prudence: "Help! My Mom Made an Epic Reply-All Blunder, and Oh What a Mess." SPONSOR: Podigy: The podcast editing service we partner proudly with! Listener Sad Sister: "How Can I Support My Suffering Sister?" WSJ: "How Can You Help Someone Who Is Depressed?" Shoutout to Ask Amy: "Ready to give? Here's annual charity roundup" Shoutout to Ask a Manager: "My Favorite Posts of 2018" Shoutout to Dear Sugars: "The Art of Giving Advice (and Saying Goodbye)" Shoutout to Sense & Sensitivity: "Mom's nipple rings embarrass daughters" Shoutout to Dear Ebun: "How Reaction GIFs Perpetuate Racial Stereotypes" Submit your favorite questions or questions you may ha

Join hosts Han and Matt and advice guest hosts Alison Green (Ask a Manager) and Jennifer Peepas (Captain Awkward) rage / reminisce about the worst advice column humans of 2018 as voted on by the listeners. SPONSOR: A Head Canon Productions Ruins Christmas (Soundcloud) A Head Canon Productions on YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Twitter | Patreon Worst Coworker: "The Boss" in Ask a Manager's "My Dad Is Dating My Boss, and They Want Me to Go to Couples Therapy with Them" Dishonorable Mention: "The Coworker" in Dear Prudence's "Help! A Senior Colleague Asked Me, the Intern, to Help Translate His animated Porn." Worst Family Member: "The Father" in Dear Prudence's "My Husband Won't Stop Exposing Himself to Our Teenage Daughter" Dishonorable Mention: "The Mother" in Dear Prudence's "Help! My Daughter Got Some Quack to Diagnose Her with ADHD, but I Think She's Just Lazy."  Worst Partner: "The Boyfriend" in r/relationships' "I[30] am having a mastectomy due to breast cancer and my boyfriend [29] of 4 years

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of December 9th, 2018, and beyond, including: SPONSOR: A Head Canon Productions Ruins Christmas (Soundcloud) A Head Canon Productions on YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Twitter | Patreon Ask a Manager: "An employee’s spouse emailed about his holiday bonus" Miss Manners: "No need to tip for a tweet" Social Q's: "If You Can’t Stop Name-Dropping, You’re Not Coming Skiing This Year" Dear Abby: "Man Retiring From The Military Deploys New Rules In Marriage" Swipe This!: "My ex is thriving on Instagram—and its making me miserable" Dear Prudence: (CW: Sexual Assualt) "Sleeping Pills and Consent"  SPONSOR: Podigy: The podcast editing service we partner proudly with! Listener Nicole: "When Is It Appropriate to Disclose Mental Health Diagnoses With Your Boss?" Update to Listener Uldrek the Resilient: "Should My Partner and I Open Our Relationship to Date Our Best Friends (Who Are Also Partners)?" Reference: #61: Han and Matt Tea

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of December 2nd, 2018, and beyond, including: Ask The Salty Waitress: "How do I tell a friend to keep their kids away from my party?" Dear Prudence: "Help! A Distant Friend Asked Me to Describe My Genitals Over Text" Tough Love: "Only You Can Prevent Single-People Problems" Asking for a Friend: "Your Ex Sucks but Capitalism Sucks More" Carolyn Hax: "An abusive ex is terminally ill. Should you help with his care?" Dear Mishu: "I want to cry but no tears will come. What do I do? Rose asks Mishu answers" Doctor Who Great British Baking Show Ralph Breaks the Internet Maggie Stiefvater's "The Raven Cycle" Jhene Aiko's "Trip" Reddit Round-Up r/relationship_advice: "What do I (25 F) do about my boyfriend (28M) misusing adult diapers, which causes me humiliation?" r/legaladvice: "Neighbors stole our rock." r/relationship_advice: "I (20m) am scared of telling me parents about my older gf (43)" r/relationship_advice: "Accidental

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of November 25th, 2018, and beyond, including: Dear Dana: "How Do I Convince My Girlfriend That I Want to Marry Her, Just Now Now?" Ask a Manager: "What do I say when I’m calling in sick for a mental health day?" Miss Conduct: "My sister has become a stranger" I Know Nothing Ask Me Anything: "How do I not get caught having an affair?" Savage Love: "His Wife of Thirty Years Now Identifies as Asexual and Won't Agree to an Open Relationship" SPONSOR: Podigy: The podcast editing service we partner proudly with! Listener Stormclaw the Fierce: "All of My Friends Are Flaky" Shoutout to Dear Urban Diplomat: "How do I skip my office Christmas party without looking like a total Grinch?" Shoutout to Hello Giggles: "A doctor answered every single one of our questions about IUDs so you can make an informed decision" Shoutout to Kitty Corner: "'Dear Prudence' provides an amusing snapshot of the human condition" Shoutout to AskMen: "How

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of November 18th, 2018, and beyond, including: Carolyn Hax: "By using fake online profiles to dig up dirt, mother shows her true face" Dear Abby: "Women's Opposing Viewpoints Could Doom Couple's Future" Miss Conduct: "How to say 'No presents please'" Savage Love: "New Next Door Neighbors Force Woman to Watch Them Fight, Fuck, Shit, Trim Pubes" Ask a Manager: "parents in my office are sticking non-parents with all the holiday coverage" Baggage Check: "My sister-in-law won't stop trying to rope me into her cosmetics-sales scheme" SPONSOR: Podigy: The podcast editing service we partner proudly with! Listener Light: Listener Machete Alice: "I'm Back! And Looking for Advice On the Upcoming Major Steps In My Life" Reference: Opinion Overflow #9: "My Boyfriend and I Are About to Move In Together And I'm Looking for Advice to Head Off Co-Habitation Troubles" Shoutout to Mother Jones: "A Question About All Those Angry Uncles" Sh

In a special Thanksgiving Holiday episode, Han and Matt discuss ways to survive the holiday and seasonally-relevant questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of November 11th, 2018, and beyond, including: Thank you and acknowledgement that we’re entering a Problematic Time of Year Holiday Advice Letter Categories I don’t celebrate; how do I shut down people who won’t leave it alone? Extremely extra relatives Food shame Office holiday parties Trump supporting relations Worst of 2018 Year In Review (Voting runs on Facebook Fan Group from Nov 23rd to Dec 14th) || http://bit.ly/2018WorstHumans Worst Coworker || http://bit.ly/2018coworker Worst Family Member || http://bit.ly/2018familymember Worst Partner || http://bit.ly/2018worstpartner Worst Friend or Roommate || http://bit.ly/2018friendroomie Worst OTHER || http://bit.ly/2018therest Dear Prudence: "The Men Never Help With Thanksgiving Cleanup" SPONSOR: Podigy: The podcast editing service we partner proudly with! Fatherly Advice:

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of November 4th, 2018, and beyond, including: SPONSOR: Sudio: Maker of high quality, stylish earbuds and headphones (use promo code "HANANDMATT" at checkout for 15% off your order!) Carolyn Hax: "Family doesn't support a single woman’s desire to adopt" Ask a Manager: "I overshared with my office about a Tinder date and it didn't work out" Dear Prudence: "Help! My Cousin Is Taking Advantage of My Mom to Get Free Child Care." [SLATE PLUS] Work Friend: "How to Ask Someone Out at Work" Sense & Sensitivity: "Parent worries son wearing nail polish is gay" Jonathan Van Ness on Instagram Travis McElroy on Twitter Miss Manners: "Next time, treat contagious clerk with compassion" SPONSOR: Podigy: The podcast editing service we partner proudly with! Listener Light: "How Do I Confront My Datefriend Who Started Ghosting Me and Secretly Seeing Someone Else?" Update from Awful Anaconda on Church Abuser Reference: #82: Han and Mat

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of October 28th, 2018, and beyond, including: Ask a Manager: "my coworker signed me up for a racist organization as a joke" Dear Prudence: "Help! My Daughter Got Some Quack to Diagnose Her With ADHD, but I Think She’s Just Lazy." Queer Abby: "My Friend Keeps Saying #NotAllMen Type Crap" Miss Lonelyhearts: "No need to stick around for annual ghost visit" College Humor: "I Hate Scary Movies" Dear Wendy: "He Says He Wants to Break Up in A Year. Should I Do it Sooner?" Carolyn Hax: "She says it hurt when I broke up with her. How crazy is that?" Dear Abby: "Tattoo Lover Gets Birthday Criticism From Grandparents" SPONSOR: Podigy: The podcast editing service we partner proudly with! Listener Mara the Raven Mistress: "How Do We Open Up Our Marriage for Casual Sex and Remain Totally Discreet About It?" The Daily Dot: "5 online hookup sites that actually work" Shoutout to Sarah Cooper's New Book "How to Be Successful Withou

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of October 21st, 2018, and beyond, including: Carolyn Hax: "Your husband may be cranking the hostility to 11" Ask a Manager: "my employee keeps adjusting himself while were talking" Ask Dr. NerdLove: "When Do I Disclose My Mental Illness?" Ask APW: "Is The Sexism Of The Wedding Industry Mirrored In My Relationship?" A Practical Wedding: "This Is How I've Learned To Deal With Emotional Labor" Queer Abby: "I Think I'm A Lesbian But I Don't Fit The Stereotypes" SPONSOR: Podigy: The podcast editing service we partner proudly with! Listener Anxious Ace Asking After Amorous Advice: "What's An Asexual Panromantic To Do?" Opinion Overflow Live! on Facebook #3 Coming soon to a Facebook Fan Page near you! Spooky Patron Names: Aephe, Gout Batty-Rage Heldraga the Undead Akinma, Burial Hell-a-Mentalist Cynthea Moth-Man-Flurry E, Eerie Sin-Sturgeon Dhergo, Sordid Strangler The "She Who Shall Not Be Named" One Taphr

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of October 14th, 2018, and beyond, including: Dear Abby: "Make Life Easy" (AKA The One In Which Abby Advocates White-Washing Your Future Offspring's Names) The Twitter thread that kicked off this conversation Vogue: "Actually, 'Dear Abby,' I Like My 'Foreign Name' Just Fine, Thanks" NY Times: "No 'Foreign' Names for Children, Dear Abby Advised. Furious Parents Replied." Huffington Post: "Dear Abby, Here's What It's Really Like To Have A 'Foreign' Name In America" Ask Amy: "Moms say teen girls are 'asking for it'" Ask a Manager: "how do I tell an interviewer about my hobbies when my hobbies are kind of boring?" Carolyn Hax: "Hanging the No Boys Allowed sign at a public playground" Dear Wendy: "I Got Drunk and Made Vulgar Remarks About a Coworker and Now I'm Afraid to Go Back to Work" Dear Mariella: "My boyfriend lost his virginity to a sex worker then lied about it" BONUS KNOWLEDGE: Numerous studies and analyses, though

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of October 7th, 2018, and beyond, including: SPONSOR: Sudio: Maker of high quality, stylish earbuds and headphones (use promo code "HANANDMATT" at checkout for 15% off your order!) Dear Prudence: "I Told My Partner About My Sexual Assault. He Told Me to 'Get Over It.'" Ask a Manager: "my office does Fat Friday — and I have an eating disorder" Social Q's: "Dating After #MeToo" Ask APW: "Am I Overcomplicating The Hell Out Of My Bridal Shower?" Miss Lonelyhearts: "Hubby has a sex buddy — and it's a man" SPONSOR: Podigy: The podcast editing service we partner proudly with! Listener Not Really Envious: "I don't get NRE and now it's a problem" Shoutout to Washington Post: "Self-proclaimed 'Old Coots' offer life advice at farmers market. Their slogan: 'It's Probably Bad Advice, But It's Free.'" Shoutout to Captain Awkward: "We decided to leave our abusive ex and move to another state, only she came with us and is living on our co

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of September 30th, 2018, and beyond, including: BONUS: Han's Tattoo on Their Tattoo Artist's Instagram (and Han's Instagram) Listener Skyler Elmridge, Ingenious Blacksmith: "Should We Put a Spot for Pronouns On Our Wedding Place Cards?" Listener Insert Name Here: "Am I a Bad Queer?" Listener Quarrius, Nimble Geomancer: "What More Can I Do to Help My Friend Who Keeps Facing Abusive Jobs Everywhere He Goes?" Listener Aephe, Stout Battlemage: "Should I Talk to My Dad Again?" Listener Yolanda, Cynosure of the Net: "Where Do I Find My Motivation Now That I'm No Longer Being Terrorized By a Cat?" SPONSOR: Podigy: The podcast editing service we partner proudly with! Listener Lady Lazor, Hufflepuff: "A Question of Bodies and Their Wonderful Variety!" Learning About Disabilities and Chronic Pain A Listener on teeth brushing and chronic pain on our Facebook Group Lithub: "My Disease Is not a Metaphor" Sonya Huber's "Pain Woman and

CW: Skip to the 6:15 mark of the podcast if you want to avoid conversation about sexual assault. Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of September 23rd, 2018, and beyond, including: Climate Advice: "Should I tell my Republican friend that her Florida mansion is doomed by sea-level rise?" Sense & Sensitivity: "Teenage daughter apathetic about going to polls" Slate: "Help! Is My Couchsurfing Sister Using Us to Make a Fortune on Airbnb?" The Ethicist: "Should I Go to a Gender-Reveal Party?" Ask a Manager: "my boss talks to me like I'm a baby" #82: Han and Matt Proceed With Caution Ask the Salty Waitress: "Should I expect the food-delivery person to schlep up my stairs?" SPONSOR: Podigy: The podcast editing service we partner proudly with! Differently Gymtimidated: "My Girlfriend Wants to Work Out Together; I Would Rather Keep Working Out Separately" BONUS: "Opinion Overflow Live! | 02" on our Facebook Group, took place this Saturday, 9/29, at 3 PM EST Co

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of September 16th, 2018, and beyond, including: Dear Prudence: "My Boyfriend Thinks I'm Not Trying Hard Enough to Orgasm From Vaginal Penetration Alone" Ask a Manager: "my coworker gives everyone the silent treatment for weeks" Ask Polly: "Should I Quit My Day Job to Write a Book?" Tough Love: "Help! I Hate My Girlfriend's Armpit Hair" r/relationships: "I[30] am having a mastectomy due to breast cancer but am choosing no reconstruction and my boyfriend [29] of 4 years is having a hard time with my decision." Erika Lust Ask Dr. NerdLove: "Help, I Have Too Many Men In My Life" SPONSOR: Podigy: The podcast editing service we partner proudly with! Listener Migraineur: "How Do I Convey to My Loved Ones that My Chronic Migraines Aren't Curable?" BONUS: "Opinion Overflow Live! | 02" on our Facebook Group, taking place this Saturday, 9/29, at 3 PM EST Submit your favorite questions or questions you may have for the podcast to

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of September 9th, 2018, and beyond, including: Ask a Manager: "my office has a mandatory feelings chart" Ask a Manager: "my boss wants us to all share our mental health needs – at every meeting" The Ethicist: "What Should I Do With Old Racist Memorabilia?" Dear Prudence: "My Boyfriend Tricked Me Into Becoming Friends With His Other Girlfriend" r/relationships: "My [41/F] husband [41M] does not brush his teeth, and I'm at my wits end." GQ: "Men, Please Brush Your Teeth" Jezebel: "Men Going to Lose All Their Damn Teeth, Probably!" Daily Mail: "Men aren't brushing their teeth every day and their wives are grossed out" Ask The Salty Waitress: "I need an exemption from this restaurant's cell-phone ban" SPONSOR: Podigy: The podcast editing service we partner proudly with! Listener Colenka the Saucy Rogue: "My Friend Keeps Bringing Her Boyfriend As a Plus One When He's Not Invited and How Do I Stop This?" Shoutout to Washin

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of September 2nd, 2018, and beyond, including: BONUS: Opinion Overflow LIVE! Ask a Manager: "HR wants our personal cell numbers in our out-of-office messages so we can always be contacted" Ask a Manager: my manager shows up while I’m having chemotherapy to talk about work Ask a Manager: my boss made me leave a work note at a grave, company won’t tell us when someone is fired, and more Dear Mariella: "My boyfriend called me a slut now I dread seeing him" Julia Clare: "Straight Women Need to Unionize" Tweet Asking For a Friend: "I Want to Explore Polyamory, My Partner Doesn't. What Should I Do?" Dear Abby: "Fiancee Wants Her Intended To Halt 'boys' Club' Culture" Baggage Check: "My girlfriend complains that I am 'no fun' after losing weight" Savage Love: "I'm Turned On When I Force My Boyfriend to Eat, but Am I Forcing Him to Eat Too Much?" SPONSOR: Podigy: The podcast editing service we partner proudly with! List

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of August 26th, 2018, and beyond, including: Ask a Manager: "our CEO challenged someone to eat dead bugs" Ask a Manager: "my boss wants us to all share our mental health needs – at every meeting" Ask a Queer Chick: "How Do I Stop Accidentally Misgendering My Co-Worker?" Ask APW: "My Sister Just Came Out As Trans And Wants To Be My Bridesmaid" Dear Abby: "Teen's Flannel Shirts Become Focus Of Fight With Stepmom" Savage Love: "Swinger doesn't want to inadvertently fuck any Trump supporters." Captain Awkward: "Mom, you've had two weddings, let me have one!" The Ethicist: "If Two People Claim a Lost Cat Who Should Get It?" Dear Prudence: "The "Schrödinger’s Stolen Cat" Edition" SPONSOR: Podigy: The podcast editing service we partner proudly with! The Raging Mist Vine: "How Can I Avoid Guys on Dating Apps Who Seem to Only Be Looking For Sex?" Anonymous Listener on Boomer Stereotyping Reference: #83: Han and Matt Commune

In part 2 of 2 this week's episodes, Han and Matt continue their conversation with Miri Mogilevsky! SPONSOR: Podigy: The podcast editing service we partner proudly with! Miri Mogilevsky Brute Reason: Polyamory 201: "Monogamous for the Right Person" Miri on Twitter (as Sondosia) Miri's Homepage Miri on Patreon Listener C: "I'm Moving in with All Male Roommates and Acquaintances Keep Bringing up Rape" Listener Zovoq, Lamia Ravager: "Is everyone too overwhelmed for e-mail now? (Alternate clickbait-y title: are millennials ruining communication?)" [Content Warning: Racism / 22:40 to 25:00] Listener Holly Hellhunter on Laura Ingalls Wilder Listener Krista on Last Podcast on the Left Advice Column Alert: "Ask Pajiba" on Pajiba "Your Well-Being Is More Important Than Your Mom's" Shoutout to Savage Love: "Creepy Couple Creeps Out Budding New Unicorn" Shoutout to Captain Awkward: "Don't go on vacation with Nazis." Shoutout to Dear Sugars: "Talking About Privilege With Catrice M. Jackson" Submit your favorite

Han and Matt are joined by fellow Know-It-All-therapist-and-blogger-and-cancer-survivor-and-fiction-writer-and-gardener-and-total-cutie Miri Mogilevsky for a 2-parter and discussed recent advice column questions as well as listener questions! SPONSOR: Podigy: The podcast editing service we partner proudly with! Miri Mogilevsky Brute Reason: Polyamory 201: "Monogamous for the Right Person" Miri on Twitter (as Sondosia) Miri's Homepage Miri on Patreon Non-Monogamy Help: "Ultimatums and Polyamory" Miss Conduct: "Advice: Is it OK to publicly mock my mansplaining colleagues?" [Content Warning: Rape / 34:03 to 45:20] Dear Abby: "Man Is Unconvinced That His Girlfriend Has No Sex Drive" #48: Hannah and Matt Scrutinize Sexual Imbalances "Come As You Are" by Emily Nagoski Ph.D. Baby Boomer Memes Ask a Manager: "My coworker likes to trash-talk Millennials" To be continued on the next episode, Opinion Overflow #40! Submit your favorite questions or questions you may have for the podcast to hanandmattknowitall@