Second Shot With Heath Oakes

Complaining can feel good, can't it? Getting all those negative thoughts out and spreading them to others. Almost like a drug? Science says that's more true than you think, and if you're not careful you can get addicted. So do you surround yourself with complainers or people that raise you up? How many of your friends are bringing nothing to the table? What could you achieve if you focused only on the people that are there to support you? Support us, and check out this new episode of Second Shot!

It always helps to be honest and up front, be that in your personal life or business. But if you were running a business, how open would you be? Would you go so far as to print your wages on the front door? What kind of employee do you think you'd get? What if you were also offering a 25-hour work week? The 40-hour week is ingrained in American culture, but some people say you just don't need it anymore. Take a half-hour lunch, and check out this new episode of Second Shot!

Gossip can be a lot of fun. Unload all the juicy news you heard (or think you heard) about a coworker or family members. It feels good, doesn't it? But what does it really get you? Can it lose you points with your boss? And what should you do when anyone who could gossip about you has long forgotten, but you still carry the guilt of something you did? One waitress is likely sleeping better tonight after making amends for something that no one knew about. Spread the word...it's a new episode of Second Shot!

Can you really train someone to not get divorced? The Army seems to think so. We'll talk about how it's wise to keep from falling for the first thing that comes your way. Also, it's wise to keep your head when the pressure is on. How do you make sure that you're able to consistently give your best when it's all on the line? Be a champion, and start by listening to Second Shot!

How do you catch people's attention? What's your hook? Do you even have one? We talk about the importance of being you, both in public and in private. In today's age, you never know when private will become public. Are you ready to have your pictures shared with the world? You certainly don't have to be afraid to share with your friends and family this new episode of Second Shot!

You've heard about him on Second Shot more than anything else...now Bob Burg - author, speaker, and wonderful person - drops in to talk about his path to writing, where his ideas come from, and why you should know the different between persuasion and manipulation. Learn more about Bob at https://burg.com/

Do you have regrets? Do you expect to be nearing the end of your life and think, "I wish I would have..."? Many people do, and you'll want to hear the one thing most people say they wish would have been different. Also, most of us feel like we're good people. We would give the shirt off our back to the people that we hold dear. But do you have what it takes to go the extra mile and possibly lay down your life for a stranger? It was on display this week half a world away, and it made us think a lot about what it means to be truly selfless. Is there something you could learn from this episode of Second Shot?

There are no stupid questions, but you should always know when and who to ask. And if you suspect your drugs are bad, the police are not the people to ask. Sometimes, silence can be the best answer. Whether you're quiet or responsive, be ready to be accountable for your actions. No one can force you to take responsibility for yourself. And even though we can't force you to listen, we would sure love it if you shared this episode of Second Shot!

If it hasn't already, the time will likely come when you're working for someone younger than you. More and more millennials are promoted to management roles. How do you deal with your boss if you're much older than them, and why shouldn't it matter? Also, there are things you can control and things you can't. One of those things you can't control is traffic. Next time you find yourself stuck in traffic, think about how great a hot chicken biscuit would sound. Special thanks to our guest Laila Muhammad from Morning Dose! https://cw33.com/author/laila-muhammad/

Everyone knows they should carefully consider what they say and how they say it. But how often do you think about what you're saying when you're saying nothing? What is your body language telling those around you? What do you do when you have a split second to react? In those moments, your true nature can be revealed. And what does this all have to do with youth baseball? Sit up straight, put on a smile, and enjoy this episode of Second Shot!

The linchpin...the meal ticket...the influencer. What are you doing to be a leader to those around you and drive them to bigger and better things? It's not just about getting people to bend to your will - it's about making them believe they can achieve great things. Also, what do you do when the honeymoon is over? Some people give up at "the dip," others push through. When are the down times temporary, and when is it time to move on? Let this episode of Second Shot help you through that dip!

What is your legacy? What would people say after you're gone? Have you taken the extra step to give thanks to the people that deserve it? One woman seems to have waited too long to mend those bridges when she had the chance. Also, what company has the guts to throw a long-running brand into the trash? What does it have to do with pancakes? And how can you get on the news? Do your loved ones a favor and send them this episode of Second Shot!

Things are always changing. Needs, wants, laws. If you're not ready to respond to those changes, you're going to be left behind. That's especially true when new competition is coming for you. Do you take a risk and innovate, or do you stagnate and also risk being yesterday's news. Also, how much is your word worth? Do you back up what you say? Do you lie? Do you "cry wolf"? And do your lies affect the lives of others? If you can only make one promise today, make a promise to listen to this new episode of Second Shot!

At some point in your life, you've been rejected. Your crush turned you down for a date. You didn't make the team. Someone else was hired. Do you spend too much time trying to force these things to happen? Should you instead focus your efforts on forging your own path? Look for something different? And when you do go your own way, do you plan to fail? Most of us think about how great the outcomes can be, but the real trick is being ready to fail (and fail hard, sometimes.) You can certainly count on something good happening if you give this episode of Second Shot a listen!

Spring cleaning...it doesn't just have to be for your closet. What are you hanging onto that you should let go? What should society toss to the curb? Which of the Second Shot crew is a packrat? We'll have those answers, but first, we all know that life can give you lemons. Should you "waller" in it, or have fun and make a little lemonade? While you're at it, share some of that with your neighbors! The power of positivity is on full display in this week's Second Shot!

If you look good, you feel good. Former NFL player Patrick "Action" Jackson joins us to talk about the simple act of dressing the part, and why you should find something else to do than complain on social media. There's also a heartwarming story that proves "it's not over 'til it's over." Patrick talks about his transition from the NFL into the business world. Dress up, dress down...doesn't matter to us how you enjoy this episode of Second Shot!

What drives you? What makes you put in your best work? Does it come from within, or would an extra $500,000 help? One football player could learn that it's not always possible to coast to success. And if you struggle with seeming authentic, this is the episode for you. What makes a good apology? What makes someone genuine? And how can you, a good person, always come across that way in public? We're nothing if not authentic here on Second Shot!

When the game is on the line...when there's a deadline to hit...when your team absolutely has to perform...there's usually someone you can count on. Are you that person? What can you do to make sure the team passes you the ball when it counts? Also, it can be easy to feel like a problem is overwhelming you and has no solution. What should you do? There's one simple step to take in that situation, but the first step is checking out this episode of Second Shot!

Kid shaming, dog shaming, neighbor shaming...is it worth it or just mean? One lawn company thinks it's the perfect type of advertising. Also, sometimes in order to get ahead, you need to get uncomfortable. One college football star is thinking way outside the box when it comes to the NFL draft, and he's making a LOT of people uncomfortable along the way. But YOU should get comfy, because there's no shame in enjoying this episode of Second Shot!

We're sure you've heard that playing favorites is unfair. You might be surprised to hear it can really work in your business. Loyalty may be dead, but there's something motivating about a little preferential treatment from time to time. Also, some people think money can fix everything. However, immorality is always ready to float to the top, waiting to get scooped out. Fix a drink and get comfortable - this Second Shot is an upper decker.