Pandora's Box With Kaleah

We live in a world filled with comparison and the result of our comparing ourselves to those we perceive as being somehow better than we are, we end up feeling we are somehow not enough. It was Dr. Ernest Holmes, the Founder of Science of Mind, who first said “Comparison is the Cause of All Unhappiness.”  In this episode of Pandoras Box Radio, Kaleah does a deep dive into our tendency to compare ourselves with others and looks at ways to turn this around so that we can create true happiness. For more information on Kaleah's work please visit: www.narcissismfree.com www.pathbacktoself.com  

Addictions are our way of staying in denial and avoiding the pain of the past or the present.  As we release our addictions to people, food and substances, as well as other addictions, we begin to heal our deepest core wounds.  We learn to forgive ourselves for the wrongs of the past and develop a type of self-love that helps us create an amazing NOW! In this episode of Pandora's Box Radio, Kaleah talks about her own journey through addiction, how fasting has helped to bring more emotional pain to the surface, and how the twelve step program is helping to heal residual codependency.  For more information visit: www.narcissismfree.com www.pathbacktoself.com  

The best way to live your best life is to make yourself a priority and take the Path Back to Self.  This is a path of self knowledge and understanding.  It involves deep inner exploration as well as making outer changes.  In this episode of Pandora's Box, Kaleah talks about how to embark upon the Path Back to SELF and address the things that might be standing in your way of living YOUR BEST LIFE! For more information please visit: www.narcissismfree.com www.pathbacktoself.com  

Narcissists are master manipulators and use many different types of techniques to control others.  In this episode of Pandoras Box Radio, Kaleah explores some of the techniques such as negging, DARVO and gaslighting so that you may be more aware and avoid falling into the narcissists trap.  For more information about Kaleah's work with narcissistic abuse and the Path Back to Self, please visit: www.narcissismfree.com www.pathbacktoself.com  

When recovering from Narcissistic Abuse, the pain and the heartache can last a long time.  As much as we would love to put the nightmare behind us, sometimes it holds on like a parasite that just won't let go of its hold. In this episode of Pandora's Box Radio, Kaleah does a deep dive into why we hold onto this lingering pain, or why this pain holds onto us.  She gives the top seven reasons that we continue to be plagued by pain, long after the relationship is over. For more information on Kaleah's work or to schedule a private session with Kaleah, please visit: www.narcissismfree.com

Borderline Personality Disorder, like Narcissistic Personality Disorder is confusing, deceptive and soul destroying in so many ways for those who love them.  But there is actually a psychological reason that one develops BPD that may be heIpful to understand.  What is borderline and why do they split? In this episode of Pandora's Box radio, Kaleah talks about the splitting of the borderline personality into the all good, all bad Mother and how this projection actually has nothing to do with the partner that is being projected upon.  If you are a partner of a borderline or healing from borderline abuse, this will help you to understand what you have gone through.  For more information about Kaleah's work and to schedule a private session, please visit: www.narcissismfree.com www.pathbacktoself.com  

Taking a really deep look at Codependency as described in the Twelve Step Program.  Doing a fearless and searching moral inventory (step four.)  Asking the question if narcissists can also be codependent?  How to make healthy choices and continue moving toward recovery. In this episode of Pandora's Box, Kaleah delves into step four and explores her own process of looking deeply at Codependent behaviors. For more information about Kaleah's work go to: www.narcissismfree.com www.pathbacktoself.com  

The most powerful way for people with Codependent Traits to heal and recover is to get really honest with themselves.  This allows us to face our dragons, and change those parts of ourselves that get in the way of our having healthy, happy relationships.  In this episode of Pandoras Box Radio, Kaleah gets honest about her own dysfunctional relationship patterns and talks about the power of recovery to change these patterns. For more information please visit: www.narcissismfree.com www.pathbacktoself.com  

The Day of Reckoning is the day when someone who needs recovery in their lives comes up against the circumstances that force them to look at themselves in a way they never did before.  It is the "Wake UP" call.  It is the day when one realizes he or she can't go back to the way it was.  They can only move forward to something more sustainable and healthy. In this episode of Pandoras Box Radio, Kaleah dives into this important time when denial comes crashing down and the truth of one's need for healing and recovery is exposed.  For more information please visit: www.narcissismfree.com www.pathbacktoself.com

The Twelve Step Recovery Programs have found to bring success to many people seeking to recover from their addictions to people, things or substances.  In this episode of Pandora's Box, Kaleah talks about her own recovery process from Codependency and how the Twelve Step recovery program is helping to take her to the next level. She delves into why the twelves steps might be helpful to anyone trying to recover from narcissistic abuse, and codependent patterns of helping, enabling, fixing, healing, and rehabilitating others.  Bring the focus back to yourself and your own healing journey by entering a twelve step recovery program. For more information about Kaleah's work with narcissistic abuse and recovery please visit: www.narcissismfree.com www.pathbacktoself.com  

When we go through great challenges in life, mentally, physically, emotionally and spiritually we need to activate the warrior within in order to find our way through.  But what does it mean to really be the warrior? In this episode of Pandora's Box Radio, Kaleah does a deep dive into the journey of the Spiritual Warrior to combat the darkness both within and without in order to harness one's greatest light and power! For more information on Kaleah's work with Narcissistic Abuse and Personal Empowerment, please visit: www.narcissismfree.com  

The Twin Flame Myth is a belief that you are one soul divided in half and put into two different bodies.  When you find that “other half,” it is like coming home.  It feels amazing!  But what happens when your “other half” doesn’t love you anymore, doesn’t treat you right, is narcissistic and/or is downright abusive?  Will your belief that this is your other half, keep you holding onto a relationship that is painful and destructive to you? In this episode of Pandoras Box Radio, Kaleah dispels the myth of the Twin Flame and also brings in the truth of your true twin flame, healing your separation and finding yourself worthy of the love you seek.  Watch the Twin Flame Series on Youtube https://www.youtube.com/user/kaleahsong/videos For counseling, coaching or hypnotherapy visit: www.narcissismfree.com www.pathbacktoself.com  

If you have a pattern of getting involved or staying involved in toxic relationships with addicts, narcissists or borderlines, you are very likely a codependent?  But what exactly is codependency and how does this cause us to migrate towards unhealthy relationships? In this episode of Pandoras Box Radio, Kaleah does a deep dive into Codependency,  how it shows up in our lives and relationships and the journey to heal so we can find healthy, satisfying relationships. For more information on Kaleah's work please visit: www.narcissismfree.com www.pathbacktoself.com  

One of the most important questions I get from the clients I work with isn't "How Do I Heal from Toxic Relationships," But "How Do I Break My Toxic or Destructive Relationship Patterns.  We may be able to get through the healing part, however intense it may be, but most people never want to repeat this, or have already repeated this dance many times in their life. In this episode of Pandora's Box Radio, Kaleah does a deep dive into the things that keep us repeating the toxic relationship patterns.  For more information, please visit: www.narcissismfree.com  

Gabby Petito was a beautiful young, vibrant woman who had a dream to travel across Country with her Fiance and start a blog.  As the dream was well underway it quickly became a nightmare that resulted in her death, presumably at the hands of her beloved.  Although Brian Laundrie, her fiance has not been charged with murder as of yet, most people suspect this is the case.  In this episode of Pandora's Box Radio, Kaleah talks about the Gabby Petito story but also the dangerous rage of a narcissist.  She issues insight and warnings about how quickly narcissistic rage could go wrong.  For more information please visit www.narcissismfree.com  

The Belly of the Whale is the place where we are swallowed whole by our inner demons and forced into submission to a higher power.  It is a place of reflection and self discovery, a hero's journey through death and rebirth. In this episode of Pandora's Box Radio, Kaleah talks about the concept of sitting in the Belly of the Whale as the womb of deep transformation that can only come when we completely surrender to the process, allow the illusions we have been living under to fall away, and face our true, divine nature.  To learn more about Kaleah's work, please go to www.narcissismfree.com.  

Cassandra is the mythological story of a beautiful princess who was sought after by many.  The God Apollo in his pursuit of her gave her the gift of prophecy; the ability to see the future.  When she refused his advances, his rage drove him to curse her with not being believed.  And so she foretold the future but nobody believed her.  In this episode of Pandoras Box Radio, Kaleah talks about the mythology of Cassandra and how it is playing out in our world today as so many are silenced, censored, shunned and not believed.  Kaleah brings in Narcissism and the Gaslighting, manipulation, lies and agendas that keep us from the truth.  And how we are currently being called to stand in our truth, whatever it may be. For more information please visit: www.narcissismfree.com  

As a healer and counselor for people who have gone through the painful experience of Narcissist Abuse, I have seen it all.  I tend to approach recovery from a spiritual angle and use shamanic practices such as soul retrieval and psychic cord cutting in my work, but the one thing that bothers me more than anything is spiritual bypass. Spiritual bypass is when someone uses spiritual language or ideals which result in invalidating someone’s reality.  It is when spiritual principals are used to avoid dealing with reality.  And spiritual bypass is used by both the abused and those who the abused come in contact with.  In this episode of Pandora's Box I do a deep dive into exactly what spiritual bypass looks like and why it is so damaging for people recovering from narcissistic abuse.  For more information please visit: www.narcissismfree.com  

Many people involved with a narcissist believe that the narcissist always wins.  But is this true?  In this episode of Pandoras Box Radio, Kaleah does a deep dive into the topic of winners/losers, soul loss, energy vampirism and more to help people suffering from narcissistic abuse, understand that it isn't about winning or losing, it is about how one plays the game. For more information please visit: www.narcissismfree.com  

Often the last thing we want to do is pray for those who have harmed us or done us wrong.  Instead we are more inclined to curse them and speak ill of them.  In this episode of Pandoras Box Radio, Kaleah talks about why praying for those who have harmed you can actually help YOU to heal.  She talks about spiritual law and how when we offer our prayers for healing to the other, we are more likely to be blessed.  for more information on Kaleah's work, counseling, coaching, hypnotherapy, books and audios, please visit: www.narcissismfree.com