Girls Gotta Eat

We absolutely loved having author and professor Marcia Inhorn join us to discuss the “mating gap” between men and women and the real reasons women are freezing their eggs. We talk about misconceptions regarding egg freezing, the stories of women who have chosen to do so, the undersupply of men for educated women who want children, dating up vs. dating down, the empowerment of egg freezing, and more. Before Marcia joins us, we’re chatting about Ashley’s awkward hotel experience, Rayna’s new car, girlfriends as life partners, and one year of Vibes Only! Enjoy! Visit Marcia Inhorn’s website and check out her book Motherhood on Ice.  Follow us @girlsgottaeatpodcast, Ashley @ashhess, and Rayna @rayna.greenberg. Visit our website for tour dates, merchandise, and more. Shop Vibes Only. Thank you to our partners this week: Hello Fresh: Get 16 free meals plus free shipping at hellofresh.com/gge16 and use code GGE16. Buffy: Get $20 off your order at buffy.co with promo code GGE. AG1: Get a free 1 year supply of immune-

Are you ready for FERAL GIRL SUMMER? We’re planning on three months of fun, and setting you up for success so you can start the summer without any negative energy or emotional baggage from a toxic ex, that loser who ghosted you, a friend who fucked you over, or whatever you may be holding on to. We’re also sharing our listeners’ summer goals, and giving you a manifestation assignment. On this episode, we also discuss Scandoval and share thoughts on cheating and how some people can do such hurtful things, plus breaking down Selling Sunset season 6. We’re also spilling all the tea on Ashley’s matchmaker date and Rayna making out with her ex on the road. Enjoy! Follow us @girlsgottaeatpodcast, Ashley @ashhess, and Rayna @rayna.greenberg. Visit our website for tour dates, merchandise, and more. Shop Vibes Only. Thank you to our partners this week: Native: Get 20% off your first order at nativedeo.com/gge or use promo code GGE at checkout. Nutrafol: Get $10 off at nutrafol.com when you use promo code GGE. Article:

*Trigger warning for sexual assault* We are joined by comedian Hanna Dickinson for an open, honest conversation about STIs, sexual assault, addiction to prescription drugs, and more. She shares her story of contracting herpes, how she discloses it when dating, and why it’s actually a positive when it comes to finding a partner. Hanna also shares her story of being sexually assaulted by a rideshare driver and how she has been coping with the trauma. We also discuss body positivity and the pressure/desire to lose weight, Adderall addiction, and (on a lighter note) Hanna’s exclusive interview with Ariana Madix. Before Hanna joins us, we’re chatting about being a great host vs. a person who doesn’t like to host, Ashley’s journey getting off the pill, and Rayna’s high-pressure driving test.  Follow Hanna on Instagram at @hansdickie and visit her website for show dates and more. Follow us @girlsgottaeatpodcast, Ashley @ashhess, and Rayna @rayna.greenberg. Visit our website for tour dates, merchandise, and more. Sho

We’re talking about the struggle of feeling used and/or taken advantage of by friends, partners, co-workers, and family. We discuss how to recognize it and put an end to it, drawing boundaries, redirecting someone, self-talk, and more. Before we get into the topic, we’re sharing the craziness that went down after a recent show, a (just discovered) major difference in how we sleep, and a wild tale of BV. Enjoy!  Follow us @girlsgottaeatpodcast, Ashley @ashhess, and Rayna @rayna.greenberg. Visit our website for tour dates, merchandise, and more. Shop Vibes Only. Thank you to our partners this week: Helix: Get 20% off all mattress orders + 2 free pillows at helixsleep.com/gge with code HELIXPARTNER. Stitch Fix: Get $20 off your first fix at stitchfix.com/gge. AG1: Get a free 1 year supply of immune-supporting Vitamin D + 5 free travel packs with your first purchase at athleticgreens.com/gge. Native: Get 20% off your first order at nativedeo.com/gge or use promo code GGE at checkout. See Privacy Policy at https:/

Let’s talk about money, honey! We have Ramit Sethi, best-selling author and star of the hit Netflix show How to Get Rich, back for another game-changing interview. He’s breaking down renting vs. buying a home (and debunking myths and misconceptions), the four numbers you need to know when it comes to your spending, how to know if you can afford something, and most importantly – figuring out what your rich life is and how to achieve it. Plus, we’re discussing why couples don’t talk to each other about money, and how to talk to your partner about it in various scenarios (you have debt, they have debt, you make more, splitting expenses, etc.). Before Ramit joins us, we’re talking about the theory of which body part you wash first says something about you, and thoughts about going off birth control. Enjoy! Follow Ramit on Instagram @ramit, check out his Netflix show How to Get Rich, and his book I Will Teach You to Be Rich. Visit his website for more. Follow us @girlsgottaeatpodcast, Ashley @ashhess, and Rayna @r

It’s our highly anticipated pelvic pain episode and we are so happy to be joined by Dr. Sonia Bahlani to discuss the topic. We talk about causes and conditions of pelvic pain, what’s physical vs. mental, and when to seek medical attention. And we deep dive into the sexual aspect of it (why penetrative sex hurts, difficulty orgasming, best positions, lube, exercises, etc.) and answer burning questions like “Are tight pussies really a thing?” and “Are kegels necessary?” Before Sonia joins us, we’re talking about shower habits/debates (again), sharing a ridiculous moment from a recent road trip, and answering the question “How many rebound hookups is too many?” Enjoy! For Sonia on Instagram @pelvicpaindoc and visit her website. Follow us @girlsgottaeatpodcast, Ashley @ashhess, and Rayna @rayna.greenberg. Visit our website for tour dates, merchandise, and more. Shop Vibes Only. Thank you to our partners this week: HelloFresh: Get 16 free meals + free shipping at hellofresh.com/gge16 and use code GGE16. Buffy: Get

If you’re sexually curious, this episode is for you. We have Ana Kirova, the CEO and co-creator of the dating app Feeld, join us to talk about exploring non-monogamy and your sexual preferences and desires. We chat about how the pandemic changed people’s mindsets about relationships, how to start exploring a more alternative sexual/dating lifestyle as a single person or with your partner, attitudes about monogamy in different cultures, how to talk to your partner about opening up your relationship, and managing jealousy. And we also discuss the different sexual preferences on the app (there are 20 you can identify with) and defining some, such as hetero-flexible. Before Ana joins us, we’re catching up on Rayna’s secret trip to the art gallery and why Ashley got so much attention in the airport, plus we break down the biggest issue with guys’ nudes, New Haven pizza, and the Love is Blind reunion. Enjoy! Follow Ana on Instagram @ana__kirova, visit feeld.co/gge, and download the app.  Follow us @girlsgottaeatpod

It’s just the two of us, and we’re talking about how to FEEL YOURSELF! We discuss ways to feel sexier for your partner, for your own damn self, when you’re in a rut/on your period/just feeling blah, and more. We cover the “5 senses check” and everything from grooming to lingerie to spray tans to self talk. Before we dive into the topic, we’re talking shit on Rayna’s celeb nemesis (IYKYK), what we would do if we knew our best friend was cheating on their partner, and supporting friends who are battling an illness.  Follow us @girlsgottaeatpodcast, Ashley @ashhess, and Rayna @rayna.greenberg. Visit our website for tour dates, merchandise, and more. Shop Vibes Only. Thank you to our partners this week: Native: Get 20% off your first order at nativedeo.com/gge or use promo code GGE at checkout. ZocDoc: Go to zocdoc.com/gge and download the Zocdoc app to sign up for free and book a top-rated doctor.  AG1: Get a free 1 year supply of immune-supporting Vitamin D + 5 free travel packs with your first purchase at athl

We are honored to have clinical psychologist Dr. Orna Guralnik of Showtime’s acclaimed show Couples Therapy join us to talk about conflict within a relationship. We discuss first of all the importance of having differences in a relationship, then get into how to better understand your partner during a fight, what is a fight vs. a discussion and who gets to say, and determining if the conflict is about the actual content or just the delivery. We also discuss what to do when you’re having the same conflict over and over (examples include: household responsibilities, infidelity, having children), the concept of “never go to bed angry,” managing your anger, and apologizing. Before Dr. Orna joins us, we’re catching up on Rayna’s hot neighbor and art gallery crush, Ashley’s nails and new car, and announcing new tour dates. Enjoy! Watch Couples Therapy with Dr. Orna on Showtime (season 4 premiering 4/28), and visit OrnaGuralnik.com. Follow us @girlsgottaeatpodcast, Ashley @ashhess, and Rayna @rayna.greenberg. Visit

One of our most popular guests – behavioral scientist, dating coach, and author Logan Ury – is back for another incredible conversation. We’re discussing the feeling of being “undateable” due to family trauma, past relationship baggage, an STI, being a virgin, etc. and how to own your story and share it with a potential partner. Logan breaks down why vulnerability is the primary thing that makes people feel close to you and how to open up more on dates, and we also discuss her experience living on a commune with her partner and all their friends, and the importance of OSOs (other significant others). Before Logan joins us, we’re catching up  on Rayna’s hot new neighbor and Ashley’s nail journey, and we’re sharing our feelings about officially moving from NYC to LA. Plus, we have recs. Enjoy! Follow Logan on Instagram @loganury. Visit her website for her book How To Not Die Alone and more. Follow us @girlsgottaeatpodcast, Ashley @ashhess, and Rayna @rayna.greenberg. Visit our website for tour dates, merchandis

She’s baaack! We’re so excited to welcome back our friend, GGE favorite, author, and founder of Breakup Bootcamp Amy Chan! We’re diving deep into the psychological reasons we stay in dead-end relationships and situationships, how to know when to end things, not falling for “the dangle” (don’t worry, we’ll explain), and tips for actually breaking it off. And then we discuss stalking your ex online – how it affects your brain and a pro tip for stopping the behavior (or never starting). Before Amy joins us, we’re spilling some tea from a recent show, hyping guys who golf, and chatting about having emotional reactions over a person even if you know they’re not for you. Enjoy! Follow Amy on Instagram @missamychan and check out more at RewnewBreakupBootcamp.com. Follow us @girlsgottaeatpodcast, Ashley @ashhess, and Rayna @rayna.greenberg. Visit our website for tour dates, merchandise, and more. Shop Vibes Only. Thank you to our partners this week: Pretty Litter: Get 20% off your first order at prettylitter.com/gge.

We’re talking about the importance of manners out on these dating streets – everything from how someone holds a fork to opening doors to phone behavior at the table to making sure you get home after a date. We have poll results from our audience on what matters/doesn’t matter to them, and we’re sharing dealbreakers, turn-ons, icks, personal stories, and more. Before we dive into the topics, we’re catching up on Rayna’s rendezvous with an ex, Ashley’s latest date, and fresh TV/movie recs. Enjoy! Follow us @girlsgottaeatpodcast, Ashley @ashhess, and Rayna @rayna.greenberg. Visit our website for tour dates, merchandise, and more. Shop Vibes Only. Thank you to our partners this week: Hello Fresh: Get 60% off + free shipping at hellofresh.com/gge60 and use code GGE60. Native: Get 20% off your first order at nativedeo.com/gge or use promo code GGE at checkout. Athletic Greens: Get a free 1 year supply of immune-supporting Vitamin D + 5 free travel packs with your first purchase at athleticgreens.com/gge.  See Priva

This week’s episode is about something near and dear to our hearts, careers, and dating lives: Voices. We are joined by actress/screenwriter/voiceover icon Lake Bell to speak on all things voices – why our voice sounds different in our head vs. listening back, regional accents and stigmas, what our voices say about us, why we’re attracted to certain voices, and changing your voice to be more appealing/get something you want/be taken more seriously. And we’re discussing the Sexy Baby voice – what it is, how it became a thing, who’s known for it, and our feelings on it. Before Lake joins us, we’re recapping our latest travels, sharing the most fun thing we’ve ever done at a wedding, and popping off about drag show bans. Enjoy! Follow Lake on Instagram @lakebell and check out her audiobook Inside Voice: My Obsession with How We Sound. Follow us @girlsgottaeatpodcast, Ashley @ashhess, and Rayna @rayna.greenberg. Visit our website for tour dates, merchandise, and more. Shop Vibes Only. Thank you to our partners th

We are joined by author/podcaster/former pro athlete Lewis Howes to discuss trauma when it comes to dating, therapy, sex, and more. We dive into why we attract people with trauma, being on a healing journey while you’re dating, the difference between coaching your partner and empowering them, the role of therapy in a relationship, holding off on sex when you first start dating someone, the problem with men not opening up, and the three things you need to know about someone before you enter into a relationship with them. Before Lewis join us, we’re discussing the #1 rule of car shopping as a woman, the evolution of girls trips over time, and (another) LA move update. Enjoy! Follow Lewis on Instagram @lewishowes, check out The School of Greatness podcast, and order his new book The Greatness Mindset. Follow us @girlsgottaeatpodcast, Ashley @ashhess, and Rayna @rayna.greenberg. Visit our website for tour dates, merchandise, and more. Shop Vibes Only. Thank you to our partners this week: HelloFresh: Get 60% off +

Keep running into guys with secret girlfriends? Have you fallen victim to the frustrating “dating filibuster”? We’re here to explain and break down the recent trends we’ve seen on these streets. Before we get into that, we’re chatting about being in different life stages than your friends (and why you shouldn’t worry), Ashley recaps her best month ever, Rayna shares a chaotic story about meeting a new crush, and a listener DM brings us to tears (again). Enjoy! Follow us @girlsgottaeatpodcast, Ashley @ashhess, and Rayna @rayna.greenberg. Visit our website for tour dates, merchandise, and more. Shop Vibes Only. Thank you to our partners this week: Pretty Litter: Get 20% off your first order at prettylitter.com/gge. Beis: Get 15% off your first purchase at beistravel.com/gge.  Nutrafol: Get $15 off at nutrafol.com when you use promo code GGE15. Article: Get $50 off your first purchase of $100 or more at article.com/gge. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art1

We're getting wild with our friends (and newly engaged couple) Lauren Riihimaki (aka @LaurDIY) and Jeremy Lewis of Wild ‘Til 9 podcast. We chat about the roller coaster of their dating origin story, Lauren's surprising opening line, trust and privacy, how to feel about your partner's sexual past/hoe phase, and tips for making a relationship work when you live, work, and play together. We also discuss why men tend to drift apart from their friends when they get into relationships when women don't. Before our guests join us, we're talking about knowing when to say yes to a trip and when to say no, and unpacking the "Are we dating the same guy?" Facebook groups. Enjoy! Follow Lauren on Instagram @LaurDIY and YouTube, Jeremy @jeremymichael22, and check out the Wild 'Til 9 podcast. Follow us @girlsgottaeatpodcast, Ashley @ashhess, and Rayna @rayna.greenberg. Visit our website for tour dates, merchandise, and more. Shop Vibes Only. Thank you to our partners this week: Hello Fresh: Go to hellofresh.com/gge65 and use

It’s our 5-year anniversary episode (!!!) and we’re covering a lot of ground – sharing what we’ve learned over the last half-decade, gushing over our audience, and answering the questions you have about past hookups, our LA move, best/worst/drunkest guests, and much more (YES we are finally spilling the tea on the male escort interview that never aired and why). Then we’re moving into the friendship conversation – the importance and power of the relationships we have with our girlfriends, why and how we should celebrate friends’ accomplishments other than marriages and babies, and friendship meet-cutes (with some tips for making friends). We’re also (randomly) discussing our bad behavior as kids, why we hate a traditional baby/wedding shower, Ashley’s hydration journey update, Rayna’s water quirk, and an astounding/amazing listener message about butt stuff and having kids. Hope you enjoy and THANK YOU for five wonderful years! Follow us @girlsgottaeatpodcast, Ashley @ashhess, and Rayna @rayna.greenberg. Visit

It’s our long-awaited episode all about anal (and other butt stuff) with Dr. Evan Goldstein, nationally renowned anal surgeon and founder/CEO of Bespoke Surgical. Dr. Evan explains the inner workings of our butts and the anal orgasm, and gives a step-by-step process for preparing your body/booty for anal sex. We’re also answering those burning questions about poop, positions, eating ass, and more, and he shares the craziest things he’s had to remove from someone’s butt. Before the doctor comes in, we’re recapping our first earthquake, introducing the newest addition to the GGE team, and discussing the concept of “planned happenstance” in dating. Bottoms up! Follow Dr. Evan Goldstein on Instagram @drevangoldstein, see more at his website, and check out The Future Method. Follow us @girlsgottaeatpodcast, Ashley @ashhess, and Rayna @rayna.greenberg. Visit our website for tour dates, merchandise, and more. Shop Vibes Only. Thank you to our partners this week: HelloFresh: Go to helloFresh.com/gge65 and use code GG

We are so honored to have Jay Shetty join us to talk about love – how to realistically look at love, the three ways you should prepare yourself to find it, and keeping it once you have it. We’re also discussing the misconceptions we’ve been conditioned to believe, the importance of self-love and non-romantic love, what the “list” we have for our perfect partner should and shouldn’t look like, how to structure your social calendar when you’re in a relationship, and more. Before Jay joins us, we’re catching up on Ashley’s knee injury, Rayna’s houseguest, and knives as self-defense (lol). Enjoy! Follow Jay on Instagram @JayShetty, visit his website to order his new book 8 Rules of Love, and check out his podcast On Purpose. Follow us @girlsgottaeatpodcast, Ashley @ashhess, and Rayna @rayna.greenberg. Visit our website for tour dates, merchandise, and more. Shop Vibes Only. Thank you to our partners this week: Tushy: Save 10% when you go to hellotushy.com/gge. Article: Get $50 off your 1st purchase of $100 or mor

It’s an episode dedicated to something we all (or most of us) have done and aren’t proud of – sabotaging a relationship. We discuss all the ways people sabotage relationships, the reasons we do it, and how to stop, plus we’re sharing our experiences and the saboteur behavior our listeners opened up to us about. Before we get into the topic, we’re breaking down the correlation between chicken wings and blowjobs and recapping another week in LA (spoiler alert: Rayna tripped again, Ashley had to walk out of a workout class). Enjoy! Follow us @girlsgottaeatpodcast, Ashley @ashhess, and Rayna @rayna.greenberg. Visit our website for tour dates, merchandise, and more. Shop Vibes Only. Thank you to our partners this week: Hello Fresh: Go to hellofresh.com/gge21 and use code GGE21 for 21 free meals plus free shipping. Pretty Litter: Get 20% off your first Pretty Litter order at prettylitter.com/gge. Athletic Greens: Go to athleticgreens.com/gge to get a free 1-year supply of immune-supporting Vitamin D + 5 free travel