Dear Men

Men and women, or male- and female-bodied people, experience attraction based on difference, or polarity. Here's how to use polarity to your advantage in sex, dating, relationships, and more.

Cuddling, physical affection, and touch: both men and women need it, and not just in the context of sex, dating or relationships. As human beings, we need touch to feel connected. Cuddle party and connection expert Adam Lippin and I discuss how you can get your touch needs met outside a relationship.

Men and women meet, date, have sex, and get married from online dating. Eve Peters created her own dating app to help make the dating process feel easier and smoother, and has some brilliant insights about the future of both online and dating "in real life."

Approximately 15-20% of couples are in sexless relationships (including marriages). Both men and women want satisfying sex and fulfilling dating and relationship lives -- so how do we get there? Ken Blackman, relationship expert, breaks down how to get the sex & orgasms back.

Whether dating or in a relationship, if a man and woman are having sex, both are affected if she can't get wet (natural lubrication). If you've ever been with someone struggling with vaginal dryness or other ladyparts issues, listen to this! We delve into the jade egg, vaginal steaming,

Both men and women want even better, more connected sex (who doesn't?) Whether you're dating or in a long-term relationship (or married), all couples can use help around communication in sex. This is a great episode for those who want an easy way to deepen their sex life.

What do most couples argue about? When "should" you go to couples counseling? Men and women can use support when it comes to dating and relationships, and couples therapists can help. Here, we go over encouraging research around attachment, and how it can provide more safety and nourishment in romantic relationships.

Going through a breakup is difficult. Jason Lange and I talk through how men with women who are ex-girlfriends or ex-wives can reenter the sex and dating even more resilient than before the breakup.

Men, women, sex, dating, and relationships: things can get complex. Dating advice is often to be clear and direct, but the reality of leading a woman on is complicated. 

What does it mean to lead someone on? Where's the line between dating and sex and rejection? When women and men connect, it can be beautiful. It can also lead to suffering. We'd love for men to approach this one thing differently when it comes to dating.

Sex, dating, relationships, and man/woman dynamics are complex. Polyamory can make it even more so--or simplify things. One man's journey into love beyond monogamy reveals unexpected dating dynamics. 

Three men share their journeys from stress and anxiety around dating, sex, and relationships to ease in both dating and in life. Their truth is refreshing on having deep, healthy, and fulfilling healthy relationships with women (and dating advice). 

Who should pay on the first date - men or women? What about after you're dating, or in a relationship? How does paying affect the sex? Money, dating, and relationships: let's talk about it.

On this, the week of Valentine's Day, whether you're a man or a woman, single, in a relationship, dating, or any of the rest of it -- here is a love poem just for you. Xoxo.

Three men get real about their sexual fantasies and how they fit in with real women, sex, dating, relationships, and more. We also go over the top ten most popular male fantasies.

What's *your* sexual fantasy? We talk about whether we fantasize about the men we're dating or in relationships with, and what our ideal sex is in our fantasies (including the taboo ones).

Most men aren't raised to be able to access both their heart and their power, and their dating lives suffer. This is one man's riveting journey of transformation around power, that led to healthier relationships not only with women, but relationships of all kinds. 

Finding your purpose: both men and women want it. Here's how one guy did it. We also touch on how does doing what you love (and getting paid for it) affects your sex, dating, and relationship life.

When it comes to sex, dating, and relationships, can you intentionally attract a healthy, giving, loving partner? The short answer is yes. The long answer is this episode, which outlines a 2-step process to magnetize the man or woman (or men/women ;)) you really want.

What do you do when sex hurts? What if it hurts for your partner, but not you? A woman describes her life as a newlywed and then a young married woman for whom sex was painful ... and how she and her husband negotiated that.