Done Being Single

We all have them—some are harsh, some are unreasonable, and some are more deal points than deal breakers. Won’t date a guy who’s separated? Won’t date a woman with small kids? Don’t want to be a nurse or a purse? Don’t want to date someone who isn’t a college grad, great looking, or rich enough? Good luck with that. As we discussed in last week’s episode, nobody’s perfect, but shouldn’t everyone have a few non-negotiables when they’re dating? There's great debate on whether deal breakers are self-protective, or self-sabotage--especially if used to put up obstacles or make excuses. Tune in this week when we debate deal breakers with Brian Howie, host and creator of the Great Love Debate world tour, and the Great Love Debate podcast, the top-rated dating & relationship podcast on iTunes since 2016.

If you’re single in this political climate, chances are politics are either wreaking havoc on your love life, or if you’re lucky, helping you get lucky. Are you dating across the aisle, or only along party lines? These days, the politics of dating are screwing everybody. We’ll be talking to singles on the political spectrum—from diehard Dems to staunch Conservatives—to hear their take on dating in the age of Trump.

Does the concept of "Right Person, Wrong Time" really exist? Or, is it that you just haven't met the right person yet, regardless of what time it is and where you are in life? Are the people we meet at the wrong time actually just the wrong people? Or, is there something wrong with us? We'll debate these age old questions with psychologist and late blooming bride, Dr. Karin Abrell Anderson, author of the book "Single is the New Black: Don't Wear White 'Til It's Right." We'll also be sharing dating tips, rants, raves, dating stories from hell, and conducting real-time dating intervention!

You can't just say "I'm done!" you have to be willing to make the changes to get what you want. That means taking a hard look at yourself, your choices, and your actions. If you're mad as hell and not going to take it anymore, good for you! You're on your way to being done. In their first episode, Treva and Robby will tell their story: how they met, why they were single for so long, what they learned, and how they knew they were done being single. Also in this episode, you'll meet Shannon Colleary, blogger, author, speaker, and life coach. Her new book, "She Dated The Asshats, But Married The Good Guy," will help you make better choices, and get the love you deserve. She's got great tips and tools for happier dating and healthier relationships. Treva and Robby will be answering your questions, taking your calls, and dispensing some serious ass kicking, so assume the position and prepare for impact!