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Sometimes we feel like we're struggling only because we don't know we're making progress. Listen to this episode to identify where you are in these seven stages. To learn more, visit tjloeffler.com. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In an effort to do a good thing, I believe much of our culture is talking about this topic all wrong. I hope this short clip helps you take a step back to get a bigger perspective. With full awareness that I have my own blind spots and limitations, all of us have a choice to see how God has empowered us in our situation. To learn more, visit tjloeffler.com. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Hear from Hannah and Kyle as they share two very different perspectives and outcomes in the same process of finding more fulfillment in their work (and everyday life). To learn more, visit tjloeffler.com. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This clip is taken from one of our latest pieces of video content in our new monthly membership content library called Legacy Academy. To learn more, visit tjloeffler.com. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Many people are just now starting to recognize the pain they've been living with but never acknowledged. And their offense shows it. Listen to this episode to learn a key shift that has helped me practically see the world through a lens that lends more compassion. Even to those who "deserve" punishment. To learn more, visit tjloeffler.com. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

As I've learned how to make decisions with God, I've also learned how to let go of others' expectations. This is something a lot of people misunderstand. Letting go of others' expectations is not a free pass to live in rebellion. It's an opportunity to live in obedience. The motivation is very different. Remember that the people of your past are not your limitations. So, allow them to be honored by the growth that you're going through...which should lead to a healthier, better you. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

People's offense is often made manifest or expressed through their accusations. It may have nothing to do with you but you might be accused because you've triggered something in them that they're going through healing in. Listen to this short episode to learn what you can do. Visit the site for more information about our monthly membership (tjloeffler.com). See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This clip comes from our latest mini-workshop called "Peace Made Practical". Now available for purchase on the site (tjloeffler.com). Take the guessing out of how to have more peace and as you're intentionally listening just ask God what decisions you're making that He might be highlighting for re-evaluation. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

 There are two truths to the "victim mentality". We're all born as victims. And not everyone will realize it. Listen to this short episode to learn what you can do about it. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

If you've found success but feel the "tug" of "inner conflict", this short episode can help you. Remember this season is all about intentional listening - so - at the end just give yourself some time to allow the quiet to sink in. Pause and reflect about how this might connect to your story. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Have you ever thought about what you're coming into agreement with in your daily conversations? Learn how to break the power of lies --- and why it's important. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Agreements are reflections of our beliefs. But we're not always aware how those beliefs are impacting us physically. For example, did you know that when we're driven by fear we're actually operating out of a survival instinct that narrows our focus and therefore prevents us from seeing opportunity? Something to chew on. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We're imperfect people. So how can you have authentic confidence if you know you'll inevitably fail? For me, the key to authentic confidence comes from finding strength in my weakness. And seeing how God is still faithful to help and strengthen me.   See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Have you ever wondered why you're stuck in unhealthy patterns? This short clip will explain a new perspective. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We often make the mistake of thinking that more confidence comes from more "doing". But authentic confidence starts at the foundation of who we choose to be --- in our character. God values our character because He knows it's the foundation. Are there specific ways of thinking or behaving God wants you to change? Think about it. Ask Him. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This new season is all about what you can "absorb", not what you can "consume". If you've ever been "afraid of the unknown", this episode has a powerful truth waiting for you. The unknown existed well before COVID. People want to blame the pandemic. But the pandemic just revealed the truth that existed well before it. Instead of living in fear of the unknown, what if you woke up each day valuing the gift of being present? Would it change any decisions? See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Don't change who you are...but maybe you need to change who you are. Learn the difference between who God designed you to be and your reality. And get the right mindset you need to feel empowered to make those changes immediately. In this episode you'll learn about what identity practically means, and you'll leave with a new perspective about "how to stay true"...in a world that wants to do nothing but change you. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Even if you're already naturally great at relationships, this episode as something for you. I'm drawing out lessons from some practical stories to help you cultivate better relationships in your life - daily. Stay until the end to learn about an often overlooked idea regarding roles and responsibilities, relational duality, and a few other important things to help you stay healthy as you grow. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Getting raw and real here. My goal is for you to get a new perspective on what the healing journey can look like. You'll learn about the culture of honor vs. manners, the dysfunction that can exist in relationships through upbringing, relational rupturing and how that ended.  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This episode will transform your relationships. Relationships are never meant to be based on false / misguided loyalty or obligation. If you've experienced any kind of toxic relationships (work, church, family, friends, and love life), this episode is for you. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.