6ix & Friends

**Trigger Warning: This episode is about Domestic Violence and Domestic Abuse Survivors**Domestic abuse isn't always what you think it is. There's many different types from physical to emotional to psychological and even sexual. The abuser could be anyone as could the survivor. For most of use we want to know how to help the survivor make it through their situation but it's not always as easy as just removing them from the situation. Sometimes there are kids involved and that makes leaving immensely harder. Generally the best thing you can do is offer a listening ear. Here's Cynthia's story of survival and how you can help. National DV Hotline: 1-800-799-7233 or thehotline.org Support the show (http://www.patreon.com/6ixstudios)

Do you think you're black enough? Actually, what does it even mean to be black enough? What things must you do to be considered black? There's a large spectrum of Black people and how the interact with the world. However, one of the worst things you can say to a Black person is that they're "Acting white." Acting white, takes away from allowing Black people to exist on a spectrum and places them in a confined box to fit the very specific "Black" definition. I got my LB Mr. Courtney Bass to tell me about how he is simultaneous not black enough, but also isn't white (duh). Support the show (http://www.patreon.com/6ixstudios)

Most people have pets. And, to keep your pets healthy and alive they need to visit a veterinarian. However, a lot of people don't know that much about their pets and what all happens when they're at the vet. My LB Dr. Del Anderson popped up today to give tips and and inside look at what it's like being a vet. Especially when him being the only black vet on the West coast of Florida. Being a vet is a tricky field for some because you have to balance so many specialties with so many different types of animals. Although, Del only does dogs and cats (sorry bird people you'll have to go somewhere else). Del is also really open about the surgeries he performs and even has a page for them, @dranderson.vet. The squeamish shouldn't search it.Support the show (http://www.patreon.com/6ixstudios)

Your motivation is similar to the gas in car, sometimes it's full and sometimes you're riding on fumes. How do you go about refilling your motivation? What can you do when your riding on fumes and can't find a gas station to stop at and refill the tank? That answer mostly lies in your inspirations. Your inspirations can carry you to that next motivation pit stop. Sometimes it's deeper than that. Let's talk about what factors into motivating you as a person and what can inspire you to do all the things you set out to do. Support the show (http://www.patreon.com/6ixstudios)

We (read Black people) all hail from the motherland of Africa. However, some of us just recently migrated to this land we call America. And even some are first born Americans of their households. Olumuyiwa Aladebumoye (top 5 favorite names to say) is one of those people. His family hails from Nigeria. I wanted to ask him what are some of the main differences between growing up in America with the cultural influences of Africa very present in your home. The differences in how the two cultures think have some similarities and very stark differences. You're in a for a treat.  Support the show (http://www.patreon.com/6ixstudios)

Nurses have a hard job, and we're not even counting what COVID19 is putting them through. They have to deal with unruly patients and people who think they know better than the doctor (I really hope you're not one of those people). I asked Muriel to shed some light on her Nursing journey and what led her to take up the profession. Regrettably I started having technical difficulties (that I didn't realize until too late) halfway through so this week you only get half a podcast, but I'll promise I'll make it up to you. Support the show (http://www.patreon.com/6ixstudios)

What happens when the one you married grows into their true self? Are you supposed to adapt? Are you supposed to stop them from changing? Love, growth, and marriage all coincide but are very fickle things together. Sometimes you must ask yourself are you in love with the person or the idea of them? All that to ask what leads beautiful marriage into a nightmarish divorce? Love does make you blind, and you can ignore those red flags that tell you to run away. Maybe it’ll get better, maybe it won’t always be this bad. I want to explore this divorce from a 24-year old’s perspective. You’re never too wrong to experience anything right? Although, the biggest lesson that was learned from all of this, if you want to keep your girl just C.H.E.A.T. Support the show (http://www.patreon.com/6ixstudios)

Looking for a job at any point in your career can be extremely nerve wracking and stressful. From the new hire right out of college to the person that's had 30 years of experience whenever you want to find a new job, it's always best to know what recruiters are looking for. Luckily for you I have a friend that's a recruiter and told me everything  they look for and even how to get your resume to the top of the resume pile. Most of it's insider knowledge and I'm sharing it with you for free. Just make sure you make good use of it. Support the show (http://www.patreon.com/6ixstudios)

Understanding yourself comes with understanding your family and how you grew up. Some people don't realize just how much of the childhood has effected them as adults and how some of the demons in their closet have contributed to the toxic behaviors the exhibit to this day. It's always a good idea to stop and reflect. Look at yourself and find out where these negative behaviors come from and how to combat them. Passion a dear friend of mine is finally liberated since she decided to sit back and think about herself and how her family has effected her (both positive and negative) and now she wants to share what she learned on this journey with you. I hope we can all start a journey of healing. Support the show (http://www.patreon.com/6ixstudios)

Mr. Bacon (@sapbodean and yes that is his real name) and I sat down to talk about our shared experiences as people growing up in the country. If you add up our graduating classes, you get a collective size of about 200 students (guess who had less in their class). But the most interesting thing about the entire conversation is how Bacon has used a lot of what he learned growing up in the country and applied it to corporate america. Those skills have actually helped in thrive in the environment, because both areas are built heavily off respect for one another. #country #barn #horses #texas #alabama #land #gradschool #corporateamericaSupport the show (http://www.patreon.com/6ixstudios)

Bushra has decided, through her act of rebellion, that she will be unapologetically Muslim and wear her hijab everyday. Sometimes it makes me wonder, does put a target on your back? What daily changes do you face when just trying to express yourself? Are people these days even welcoming of it? So, I decided to get her on the podcast and ask these burning questions. I learned a lot, especially how she washes her scarf by putting her entire body into the washing machine. You'll find out why when you listen. Support the show (http://www.patreon.com/6ixstudios)

There’s comes a time in your life, where you’re out and about with your friends. And, you see a group of women that you want to engage with. The age-old question always arises “Who’s going to talk to them first?” Sounds like a job for the wingmen. Any group of men collective make wingmen and you must make sure everybody knows their role and how to play it. You can’t the carrier running ‘round like he’s an initiator and you can’t have your distractor trying to carry. When everybody in the team knows their role and plays it, the whole team can secure the W. Guest: @woodywitda_ QOTE (Quote of the Episode): Yes, you carry lunchboxes #wingman #basketball #flirt #wingmen #watchmen #lunchbox #philly #lightskin #cjthe6ix #withthe6ix #6ixandfriends #podcast #millennials #black #blackboyjoy #blackgirlmagic #6ixstudiosSupport the show (http://www.patreon.com/6ixstudios)

Sleep apnea, insomnia, nigh terrors, sleep paralysis, and narcolepsy. These are common sleep disorders that many people have experienced. But if you haven’t experienced them, have you wondered what they’re like? I have my friend Brandon on the mic to talk with me as we both share our experiences with our host of sleep disorders. Fair warning, some of this is nightmare fuel i.e. sleep paralysis. If you’ve never had it, I hope it never happens to you. Also, if you do suffer from any type of sleeping disorder seek medical help as quickly as possible. Lastly, sometimes your sleep apnea can be in French so make sure you mention that to your doctor. #sleep #sleepdisorder #sleepapnea #insomnia #sleepparalysis #narcolepsy #daytimesleepyness #cantsleep #nightterror #nightmares#cjthe6ix #withthe6ix #6ixandfriends #podcast #millennials #black #blackboyjoy #blackgirlmagic #6ixstudiosSupport the show (http://www.patreon.com/6ixstudios)

Most people lose their virginity in their teen years. And it seems like losing your virginity (for guys specifically) is a right of passage. Something you must done young before you’re considered a man. My homie Brian looked that stereotype in the face and laughed. He is a 32-year-old virgin, who’s only real frame of reference for sex is porn. He’s here to today to talk about why he’s decided to be celibate for so long, some of the challenges that came with it and some of his experiences. #virgin #40yroldvirgin #porn #neverhadsex #relationships #waitingtilmarriage #waitinguntilmarriage#cjthe6ix #withthe6ix #6ixandfriends #podcast #millennials #black #blackboyjoy #blackgirlmagic #6ixstudiosSupport the show (http://www.patreon.com/6ixstudios)

Conspicuous consumption is the spending of money on and the acquiring of luxury goods and services to publicly display economic power. We’ve all done it at least once. You bought a thing just to show off to everyone that you have a thing. But what really is the purpose? Why does one need to flaunt their “wealth” and sometimes proving their lack thereof? Let’s investigate this phenomenon today. #consumer #wealth #rich #richbutnotwealthy #designerclothes #watches #yeezy #cjthe6ix #withthe6ix #6ixandfriends #podcast #millennials #black #blackboyjoy #blackgirlmagic #6ixstudiosSupport the show (http://www.patreon.com/6ixstudios)

Most experts will tell you to be financially independent, you must have at least seven sources of income. I wholeheartedly believe at least one of those sources should be your own business. Your job has a glass ceiling on income, and you get taxed out the wazoo. Investments can average around 7% APR, and because of that they’re most helpful once you have amassed some wealth. However, business on the other hand have near infinite room for growth and some can be started with as little as $0 (some need $20K to get started but you get the idea). @alabithegreat is here to tell you what you need to start your own business and why it’s so important. #financialfreedom #business #minoritymindset #taxes #businessowner #entrepreneurlife #entrepreneurs #millionairemindset #onlinebusiness #beyourownboss #cjthe6ix #withthe6ix #6ixandfriends #podcast #millennials #black #blackboyjoy #blackgirlmagic #6ixstudiosSupport the show (http://www.patreon.com/6ixstudios)

@etonia_love is an ex cheater. Me being the faithful Black man that I am (Black men don’t cheat), was wondering why someone would cheat. What brings you to the point you want to cheat in your relationship? Why wouldn’t you just end it with that person and enjoy your side piece with no strings attached? It seems like such an easy question to answer, Tonia brings some things into perspective for me. There’s also the story of the first girl (that I knew about) that cheated on me. It’s a pretty heavy story so just be ready for that. #cheating #relationships #babymamadrama #sidepiece #sidenigga #dontgetcaught #cjthe6ix #withthe6ix #6ixandfriends #podcast #millennials #black #blackboyjoy #blackgirlmagicSupport the show (http://www.patreon.com/6ixstudios)

I feel like we don’t talk about sex enough. For some reason it’s just a taboo topic. I want to break that taboo. Let’s have an open and honest conversation about sex. There’s some talk about fellatio, cunnilingus, and analingus (it was an accident). Please remove all small children from the area though. #sex #eatingass #ass #cunnilingus #fellatio #stdtesting #igottested #gettested #cjthe6ix #withthe6ix #6ixandfriends #podcast #millennials #black #blackboyjoy #blackgirlmagicSupport the show (http://www.patreon.com/6ixstudios)

Sometimes you have to ride solo dolo. Whether it’s because you don’t want to have people around or you just can’t find people to come along with you. Learning how to enjoy your solitude is a great way to grow. It’s honestly where most people can find themselves and truly figure out what it is that they enjoy in life. And who said solitude had to be boring? You can do everything you would normally do with a group of friends, just by yourself. Doesn’t that sound wonderful? I hope it does, I hope you find some courage from this podcast to explore riding solo dolo. #dateyourself #dateyourself2020 #solitude #dinneralone #alone #fwb #cjthe6ix #withthe6ix #6ixandfriends #podcast #millennials #black #blackboyjoy #blackgirlmagicSupport the show (http://www.patreon.com/6ixstudios)

It’s crazy how many stops and stares you get when your significant other isn’t the same race as you. Specifically, if you’re black and they’re white (or vice versa). I’ve wondered what’s like to have a white girlfriend and what that would entail in our daily life. However, since I don’t have a girlfriend, I figured I’d get a friend to tell me about her experiences dating a white man (they’re engaged now). It’s kind of surprising how many concerns you can have when your significant other doesn’t share the same skin color, there’s also some unique challenges, but it doesn’t make you love them any less. Did I forget to mention the parents? #interracialrelationship #relationship #girlfriend #boyfriend #fiancée #enganged #sheseasonedthefoodtoowell #cjthe6ix #withthe6ix #6ixandfriends #podcast #millennials #black #blackboyjoy #blackgirlmagicSupport the show (http://www.patreon.com/6ixstudios)