Cupid's Coach With Julie Ferman

When love works, why is that? How did it happen? What lessons and growth opportunities lie in the chaos of life's disappointments? Listen in on my interview with the woman who is the best wife, mom, and friend I have ever known!

What's worse, "settling" or fearing it so much that no one makes the cut? What's the Litmus Test for determining whether someone measures up or not, in your esteem?  

Join in on my interview with coaching client, Barbara, who at the age of 69, is breezing through the dating process. What is it about her that draws in really good, solid men? Discover why she consistently receives invitations for second dates and beyond. She'll inspire you to rethink yesterday's rules for how modern day women might navigate the rapid waters of dating!

Dr. Marcy Cole, Holistic Psychotherapist, is in the hot seat today, inspiring us through insights gained through her own personal journey through dating into surprising new love. Spinning mishaps and disappointments into pivotal opportunities for positive change. 

Who you are, how you portray yourself in your communications and in the way you present on a date -- are you appealing to / magnetizing the "right" people, or ... not? Engage with me in a discussion about the survival instincts that are driving forces in the decision making process for both men and women in dating.  

Why had Mark been striking out with his online dating efforts?  Listen in to his story and his simple, though remarkable transformation from Average Joe to Mr. Desirable in just one week, after just one coaching call. How to re-frame pain, loneliness, and frustration as a wake up call, an invitation to consider a larger question. Plus, how to turn a stagnant dating experience into an opportunity for a fresh perspective, growth and forward movement!

The stories we tell ourselves; do they serve us, or not? How much time does a widow or widower need before engaging in dating? Listen in on Peter's early dating adventures, how two women missed a golden opportunity, while Karen gets a fourth date with him. Plus, flirting tips for this Covid era!

How good are you at selling....yourself? Listen in on my lively, edu-taining interview with bestselling author, Chellie Campbell, on how to design an effective sales strategy for your dating life, incorporating The Law of Attraction and The Law of Action.

Dare you dive deeper on your early dates, to ask questions, to tackle topics that are scary and oh so important to know about? In this episode I share dozens of topics that you might consider broaching on your early dates, to spur growth, connection and open-hearted communication. It's your date, you get to design it!

Are you making the right choices, regarding who to meet, who to see again, who to keep dating? Let's find out together to see how you score on this Dating Quiz. Ten real, live dating issues that you get to consider, and your score will reveal if the choices you typically make are spot on or .... lousy. Are you maximizing your opportunities, or not?  

Have you been in a relationship with someone who was toxic, abusive, perhaps narcissistic? Join me in an uplifting and enlightening conversation with psychotherapist/bestselling author Heather Kent about the nature of toxic relationships. Heather shows us how to heal, release and recover, enabling new opportunities for love. 

Join in on my conversation with Matchmaker & Dating Coach Michelle Jacoby as we identify classic, common, tragic mistakes too often made in dating. And those who turned things around, finding their way into loving partnerships - how they did that and what we can learn from their courageous, innovative, outside the box choices!

Listen in on my interview with dating expert Hunt Ethridge on developing social charisma. How women can learn to use playful, feminine energy to lure and magnetize a man. Why a woman who provides hints/direction as to what will make her happy will always have greater success with men. When a powerful, strong woman out-earns her guy and her being comfortable with it makes it perfectly fine. How to use theatrics and emoting tips for Zoom dates and the value of doing something brand new for first dates. Setting the stage for chemistry with innovative, adventurous, novel, experiential dates, even if, especially if it's a Zoom date!

Listen in on the tales of dating done well and...dating done poorly. Where do you see yourself? Which traps have you fallen into? Which traps are you continually falling into? Are your expectations in line with today's potential realities? Or are you fooling yourself? What comes more naturally to you -- appreciation or flaw-finding? And what you can do to make this holiday season meaningful and lovely!

Listen in on Allie's transformative story. How one introverted girl is discovering the true nature of love, by shifting her focus, by changing up her habit, and by learning how to cause connection and love; rather than waiting or hoping for something inspirational or magical to happen. 

Why are you single, really? Your single pals, why are they single? Is it because of challenging circumstances out there? Or is it more than that? Might it really be more about YOU and the "devil inside" that you know is lurking below the surface? Listen in with me as we dig into these questions: What makes you hard to match? Hard to be with? And why are you WORTH IT? 

Who do you know? Listen in as I share examples of courageous personal networking strategies that transformed once-stagnant love lives. How to find and engage the angels and golden nuggets who are tucked away in your personal networks, on your phone's contacts list, in your social media communities. What would happen if you re-thought your own veto process, to relax those maybe not so important no-go zones? 

Headaches/stomach aches...which do you truly prefer? Which do you dislike more? Listen in as we take an honest look at the REAL reasons for why so many are choosing to stay uncoupled. And are you missing real connection because of the relationship you have with your PHONE? Are you out of practice in the fine art of being truly present? Let's take a look together!

Julie has Brian Howie in the Guest Chair today, Creator of the Great Love Debate. How has his love life evolved over 7 years and 400+ live shows about dating? Which are the best cities and the worst cities for dating? Brian addresses the evolution of our gender issues and the contribution that the pandemic has made to our dating culture. Plus, why is Brian hopeful, enthusiastic and encouraged about dating in 2021? 

Might you be wise to rethink the kids issue? Is the type of person you're hoping to date likely to go for you...at this time in your life? Join me as we address the sensitive fertility/age issue. Hear how Holly handled things when her boyfriend's ex re-entered the picture. And how to gracefully spin a political mismatch.