Coaching With Jamee

Many women ask me what it means to embrace our sexualities and why it’s important to experiencing a great sex life. In this episode I explain the stages of embracing your sexuality so that you can understand it better. My hope is to make it easy and fun for you to do. And if joining my online program sounds like a fun way for you to embrace your sexuality because you’re wanting help and support while you do it because you’re not experiencing the results you want by doing it on your own, then come join!! For $365 a year you get over 100 lessons and replay calls in Jamee’s online program. Plus you’ll enjoy 2 live calls a week with Jamee and as a bonus, a private community with like minded women working through the same struggles and celebrations as you are and private call options. https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/yourturnedondesire Sexual success for Husbands online course (lifetime access, do at your own pace, I update and add curriculum as needed): https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/

Every good story has a stinky start and a happily ever after. In this episode we talk about the steps that take you from your stinky start of arguing about sex and being frustrated and not happy in your sex life to your happily ever after of being at peace with sex and therefore enjoying and amazingly easy and fun sex life with your husband. For $365 a year you get over 100 lessons and replay calls in Jamee’s online program. Plus you’ll enjoy 2 live calls a week with Jamee and as a bonus, a private community with like minded women working through the same struggles and celebrations as you are and private call options. https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/yourturnedondesire Sexual success for Husbands online course (lifetime access, do at your own pace, I update and add curriculum as needed): https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/sexual-success-for-husbands Sometimes our sex hormones need a burst of help. And that is what I use Amares Ignite He

Lust gets a bad rap. Mostly because it’s such a strong force and people think that bad things happen from erotic and lustful feelings. But the truth is that lust is just a force and you get to decide if you want to use this force for good or for bad. The happiest marriages have two people who are cultivating both love and lust- because these feelings don’t just happen to people. Not cultivating lust can have a damaging effect on a marriage. In this episode we discuss love and lust and how the cultivation of lust is what creates sexual desire. If you’re a woman who is struggling with low desire, then this episode could be the catalyst that transforms your sex life.

A great sex life between a husband and wife happens when sex is how they celebrate an already great connection between the two of them. Some people want to use sex as a way to fix the disconnect that is going on between them and their partners. These people are missing the mark. Some people worry that if they don’t respond to their spouses expectations and requests in their sex life that they will disappoint their spouses and cause more disconnect. So instead of building the intimacy between the two of them, they oblige their spouses and go along with what ever their spouse is requesting sexually. These people are missing the mark as well. In this episode, we explore the 5 ways you can forget about using sex as a way to fix struggles and instead make sex a celebration of your intimacy together. If you would like to enroll in my comprehensive bundle as pre-work before you join my online program and you’re ready to begin your deep dive into intimacy and sex being a celebration use code: SELFLOVE to save $10

In this episode, we're going to explore the idea of having sexual authority and what it means and then sharing this part of ourselves with someone else (if you choose to share that with them). This episode is for women who are experiencing low sexual desire and are married to men who are experiencing high sexual desire. (Or least their desire seems to be higher than their wives desire and this is causing some frustration and friction in their marriage). We'll answer questions such as what sexual authority is, why it's important to have it, how to develop it over time and the challenges you may face in the process. If you would like to enroll in my comprehensive bundle of courses to begin your deep dive into sexual authority use code: SELFLOVE to save $100 with this link: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/comprehensive-bundle

Sex isn’t less or more important as everything else in our lives. But if we make sex seem more important to everything else then our spouses tend to make it less important. If we make it seem less important then our spouses tend to put extra emphasis on sex. What we are each really seeking is simply balance! No matter where you’re at in your sexual relationship, there are good reasons why many women are resisting making sex more important, and we talk about them in this episode. In this episode, we talk about the challenges that husband and wives have to making sex an equal piece of the pie. Learning to put sex in its rightful place will make sex a non issue in your marriage! Ignite for Her supplement: https://www.amare.com/188812/en-us/shopping-cart Save $100 on The Comprehensive Bundle with this code: SELFLOVE at this link https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/comprehensive-bundle

We have so many competing wants. Things we want in the moment. Things we want in the big picture. Sometimes we lie to ourselves and say we want something when that isn’t really what we want at all. In this episode I’m going to draw attention to the lies that women tell themselves that really turn off our libido. And I’m going to draw attention to what we really want as women so that we can be on to ourselves when we start lying. WARNING: Possible side effects are feeling more rested, wanting more sex, husbands who are partners and having more fun. Use code SELFLOVE to save $100 off the Comprehensive Bundle: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/comprehensive-bundle

On todays episode we get to hear from The Postpartum Coach Lizzie Langston. Lizzie is a friend of mine and a fellow advocate for women. In this episode we address this question from a listener: “I just had a baby and am cleared to have sex but I don’t know what to do because my libido is so low.” Connect with Lizzie on her website: https://www.lizzielangston.com/

There are 9 qualities that sexually successful people posses and are willing to work on. If you have these 9 qualities and are willing to work on them and exercise them like muscles, then you’re guaranteed a sex life that you’re proud of. If you don’t have these qualities and you’re not willing to practice them, then it’s a waste of time to pretend that your sex life will get better- that would be like laying in bed all day eating chocolate covered pretzels and telling yourself that you’re going to be the fittest you’ve ever been. You’re not going to get fit unless you eat healthy and exercise. You’re not going to bathe in the rewards of a great sex life unless you work on these qualities. Natural Herbal Arousal Supplement called IGNITE HER: https://www.amare.com/et/la5c2j/188812 Inquiries for private coaching? Email me at coachingwithjamee@gmail.com

In this episode we discuss female sex hormones and the impact they have on female sexual desire. Sex hormones are the foundation to a healthy desire. When we don’t understand the basics of sex hormones and our female biology, we will be unnecessarily frustrated. Misunderstanding female sex hormones will also make all the other work to increase desire really hard. I’m going to give you an inspiring amount of information, in this episode, that you can use to start supporting your sex hormones today. Get ready for: •Why we should stop blaming our spouses if sex is a challenge. •Why increasing sexual desire is a challenge for some people and why not every married couple wants to make sex easier in their marriage. •The 3 H’s women experience when their sex hormones are being produced at their peak. •What prohibits certain sex hormones from being produced at different times of our cycles •What are the different sex hormones and why they aren’t just important for a healthy sexual desire. Natural H

Improving your sex life and making it a non-issue is not a fairytale. It can happen for anyone who is willing to put in the work & take the steps. For $365 a year you get over 100 lessons and replay calls in Jamee’s online program. Plus you’ll enjoy 2 live calls a week with Jamee and as a bonus, a private community with like minded women working through the same struggles and celebrations as you are and private call options. https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/yourturnedondesire Sexual Success for Husbands online course (lifetime access, do at your own pace, I update and add curriculum as needed): https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/sexual-success-for-husbands Sometimes our sex hormones need a burst of help. And that is what I use Amares Ignite Her supplement for. I use it for a couple weeks to a month and feel the increase of arousal and desire and then take a break for a couple weeks and months until I need the boost again. Link for Ignite Her Supplement: https://www.amare.com

The more you’re open to understanding your woman’s natural feminine nature, the better your sex life will be. The more you understand, the more you’ll be able to provide a space for healing. Which is a really important step in evolving from phase one into phase two sex. For $365 a year you get over 100 lessons and replay calls in Jamee’s online program. Plus you’ll enjoy 2 live calls a week with Jamee and as a bonus, a private community with like minded women working through the same struggles and celebrations as you are and private call options. https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/yourturnedondesire Sexual Success for Husbands online course (lifetime access, do at your own pace, I update and add curriculum as needed): https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/sexual-success-for-husbands Sometimes our sex hormones need a burst of help. And that is what I use Amares Ignite Her supplement for. I use it for a couple weeks to a month and feel the increase of arousal and desire and then take a break

The low desire isn’t resisting sex. They aren’t too tired for sex. They aren’t too stressed for sex. What they are resisting is PHASE 1 sex and the dynamics that are happening between them and their high desire partner. They are ready for phase 2 sexual dynamics in their marriage. Everyone who is SO DONE with the confusing and frustrating dynamics around their sex lives with a low and high desire partner will appreciate the understanding that there is hope and another way! For $365 a year you get over 100 lessons and replay calls in Jamee’s online program. Plus you’ll enjoy 2 live calls a week with Jamee and as a bonus, a private community with like minded women working through the same struggles and celebrations as you are and private call options. https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/yourturnedondesire Sexual Success for Husbands online course (lifetime access, do at your own pace, I update and add curriculum as needed): https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/sex

There are a few things that keep a couple stuck in phase 1 sex. One of those is a developed sense of entitlement. In this episode, we talk about the signs of a developed sense of entitlement, how this is keeping the couple stuck from evolving their sex life and of course what they can do to get unstuck and relax into phase 2 of married sex. It’s the best. For $365 a year you get over 100 lessons and replay calls in Jamee’s online program. Plus you’ll enjoy 2 live calls a week with Jamee and as a bonus, a private community with like minded women working through the same struggles and celebrations as you are and private call options. https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/yourturnedondesire Sexual Success for Husbands online course (lifetime access, do at your own pace, I update and add curriculum as needed): https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/sexual-success-for-husbands Sometimes our sex hormones need a burst of help. And that is what I use Amares Ignite Her suppleme

There are few different phases of sex that a married couple can expect to move through. But no married couple moves through the phases without intentionally deciding to evolve through phase 1 first. The transition between phase 1 and phase 2 sex is the hardest transition. Most people are staying stuck in phase 1 because they don’t know how to evolve through it. I explain the process in this episode and what you can do to evolve. For $365 a year you get over 100 lessons and replay calls in Jamee’s online program. Plus you’ll enjoy 2 live calls a week with Jamee and as a bonus, a private community with like minded women working through the same struggles and celebrations as you are and private call options. https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/yourturnedondesire Sexual success for Husbands online course (lifetime access, do at your own pace, I update and add curriculum as needed): https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/sexual-success-for-husbands Sometimes our sex hormones need a burst of help

When women decide to heal and evolve the sexual parts of themselves, this can really trigger their husbands for various reasons. You know your hubby is triggered because he will be impatient: (“Why don’t you want to jump my bones everyday yet?”) or (“You’re taking too long to change…

A lot of men and women are afraid to say or do anything that might make their spouses uncomfortable. They are also afraid of taking 10 steps backwards when they are trying to move towards a great sex life- so a lot of us are unsure what To Do when we notice we want better for ourselves and our marriages in our sex lives. In this episode we discuss what to do so that we can evolve and mature in our sex lives together.

This is a repost of an old podcast episode. *Irene Vivanco is our guest today. She is sharing about her experience with being one of my private clients for 6 months and all the benefits that came from our time together. Irene has also become a friend and I hired her to work with me on creating my ecourses for my online school, Your Turned on Desire. What’s in this episode for you: •Turning on your desire for sex is so much more than having more sex. •Learning how to prioritize what you want as a woman, wife and/or mother is beneficial for everyone. •When your sex life is fulfilling, and not a source of contention or frustration anymore, it’s amazing what doors open for you in your personal life. •In a sexually successful marriage, everyone gets what they want in life and this manifests itself in the bedroom. •What both people in the marriage want is a satisfied woman! •When she knows what she wants and isn’t apologetic, guilty or confused about herself- then everyone thrives. Links: Your Turned on D

I get many messages from women about their husbands looking at porn or using porn and I thought it was time to to start a conversation about porn and give you some useful things to think about and do. There will be other episodes and conversations to have but I think this is a good start to a topic that is hurtful and confusing to many people. My goal here is to help and to be useful to you whether you look at porn or not.

Are children understandably good reasons to not have a magnificent sex life or are they the inspiration we need to prioritize good pleasurable refueling sex? I have to be very careful how I think about my children. I don’t want to send them messages that they are the reason for why I don’t have the life and marriage I want.