Coaching With Jamee

Why do we feel pressure to improve our sex lives? Because we want something. Our desires (what we really really want) come from inside of us. This internal pressure is nagging at us to take action towards what we want. Women who feel the pressure want an amazing sex life. Women who don’t feel the pressure aren’t listening to this podcast and aren’t bothered by the sex struggles in their marriages. Being bothered and annoyed and wanting the sex struggles to go away is a message from your internal desires. Are we going to listen to them or are we going to avoid them and push them away? Ignoring them doesn’t make them stop nagging at us. Enroll in New Year, New Sex Life here: www.coachingwithjamee.com click on “PROGRAM” for the details.

Are you open to just one shift changing everything for you? Are you open to just one thought or perspective being the one shift that created an amazingly fun and easy sex life for you? In this episode I share some of my shifts that have happened over time and some of my clients shifts that have happened. These shifts were the catalyst that changed everything for us. If you would like to invest a little bit more of your time, money and energy into dealing and healing your relationship with your sexuality and then ditching all the struggles that come with low desire, come join my online program. What you desire your sex life to be like is worth investing in. You’re worth investing in. I love you. Check out program details here: www.coachingwithjamee.com

Talking talking talking about why you don’t want more sex and how your husband needs more sex, doesn’t work. Because this isn’t addressing the actual problem of you, as the woman, not being turned on. You’re just not turned on. That’s simply put. The talk doesn’t turn you on either. If it did, you wouldn’t be having the talk. The not enough sex problem can only be solved when you learn the art of increasing your desire and how to be turned on. Waiting for your husband to turn you on isn’t going to work either because then you still don’t know how your sexual desire works. Sexual desire is an inside job and waiting for someone to figure out your own insides is low investment and will always create more low desire. Enroll in my new program here: www.coachingwithjamee.com enrollment ends Feb 1, 2023.

I didn’t realize that before I could enjoy my sex life with my husband there were some things that needed to be healed. We were trying all kinds of different things like herbs, position books, vacations, lingerie, weekly date nights etc…. And none of these were working because I wasn’t healing and learning about the art of desire. Sexual desire is an art form, an energy, a way of being…and without this awareness & knowledge- nothing else was going to work. Listen to this episode to ignite your curiosity about desire, healing & wanting. Enroll in my newest online program until February 1, 2023 here: www.coachingwithjamee.com

If we don’t deal with our sexuality, it will deal with us later. What does it look and feel like if we don’t deal with our sexuality? What does this mean? I talk about this in this podcast. I also share with you a snippet from a video in my new program called New Year, New Sex Life. I’m enrolling in this program all of January. Enrollment ends Feb, so if you are ready to make your sex life a source of joy in your marriage then I wouldn’t wait to enroll. The time time it will be available to enroll is next year at this time. Read about the details of this program and enroll here: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/new-year-new-sex-life

There are several things happening in a low sexual desire marriage. And unfortunately the person who gets labeled as the low desire partner is usually dismissing several things that are under the surface for them. One way we create low desire is by self betrayal in many areas of our lives. Check out the details and/or enroll in my newest course/program here: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/newsexlife Access program from my website: coachingwithjamee.com

Many times, women are labeled with low libido or sexual desire when really there are other underlying things going on with them and their relationship. Low desire is simply a symptom of these underlying things that could use some attention and maturing. Learn more about how good judgment gets labeled as low desire in this episode. Check out the details and/or enroll in my newest course/program here: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/newsexlife Access program from my website: coachingwithjamee.com

If you’re struggling in your sex life (whether you have a low or high desire) the chances are there are parts of your sexuality that you’ll want to make peace with. And when you make peace, you’ll enjoy a peaceful sex life. New online course will be available soon!!!

*This is a repost of an old podcast episode.*When a husband is struggling with feelings of lack of sex in his marriage and wishes that him and his wife enjoyed more sex, this is a sign that he has some work to do too. This episode is for husbands and wives who desire a better sexual connection, don’t want to have the “we aren’t having enough sex” talk ever again, are ready to stop the blame game and just simply want to enjoy more good sex!! Cory Ivins, our guest today, is a coach, a father, and a husband of 13 years. He struggled with the frustrations of desiring sex more often then his wife and all the obstacles that come with that. He is now on the other side and can help men who are also struggling and desire to delight in the wonderment that is their lives with their wives, be much happier and more fulfilled sexually, and over all better men. Contact Cory at CoryIvins@gmail.com and connect with him on IG @coryivins

What has more impact on a woman’s sexual desire than a biological or physical urge? Find out in this episode.

*This is a repost of an old podcast episode* My guest on this episode is my very own husband, Daron Andelin. He is courageous and shares the pain and suffering he experienced when we struggled with sex being an issue in our marriage. We talk about some of the changes he and I both made so that we could be better friends and supports to eachother and we share (appropriate) personal stories of what our sex life is like now. There’s a happy ending! Link to enroll in my online courses: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com if you enroll before August 22, 2022, you’ll be invited to join a private community for extra support from me.

Sexual desire isn’t something you have or you don’t. Sexual desire isn’t something that diminishes with time. Sexual desire is a measuring stick or barameter for where the intimacy is at between the couple. What I’m most concerned about are all the missed opportunities that people experience when desire is thought of as something that is just there or it isn’t. It’s also concerning when people think that if someone doesn’t have much desire then there is something wrong with them. When someone is struggling with low desire this is a giant neon arrow pointing at the lack of intimacy between the two people.

There are several causes of low sexual desire. In this episode, I share 3 causes of low desire that will blow your mind because they aren’t talked about often- if at all!