Dr. Judy Wtf

with guest Jasmine Elazari, MFTi, Doctoral Candidate. Talk with Dr. Judy live on her show! Tune in on Thursday at 8pm PST.

Borderline Personality Disorder BPD is characterized by emotional instability and fear of abandonment.

There is a distinction between Bipolar Disorder and BPD or Borderline Personality Disorder. The latter is pervasive and has a core fear of abandonment underneath the dynamics. The former is a mood disorder. They can co-exist. Nature and Nurture interact. Battered emotionally? Disconnect with friends, families, and relationships? Discover the Mind Map and link symptoms, defense mechanisms and behaviors to the cause. Immerse yourself in panels 1- 9 and Be the Cause! Dr. Judy Rosenberg author of Healing Human Disconnect. Order a copy of book, the new BE THE CAUSE: HEALING HUMAN DISCONNECT book available on Amazon: http://bit.ly/1OHJu3H Believe no time is late as far as long as you have started......... please SUBSCRIBE to our channel follow me us on: instagram twitter facebook For biz inquiries contact me at: info@drjudywtf.com

Attachment style and marital/relationship satisfaction are interconnected. Today we described the 4 attachment styles developed during the first few years of life: Secure, Ambivalent, Avoidant, and Disorganized. We also spoke about how the Peaceful Healing Dialogue can help reconnect the emotional disconnects that happen daily. Thank You Atosa Veiseh, MA, MFTI for being a great Team member and joining in on today's conversation! Every Thursday, live on air Dr. Judy - Thursday at 8pm PST.

Thanksgiving Feuding is a time where people tend to be activated in their negative core beliefs. Family triangulation, family alliances can be retriggered during a time of year where people come together to celebrate, yet somehow end up breaking down into Chaos, Defenses, and Breakdowns. Use the PHD (Peaceful Healing Dialogue) to convers--available at my website Drjudywtf.com to keep the peace. Immerse yourself in panels 1- 9 and Be the Cause of a better Thanksgiving reunion. Dr. Judy Rosenberg author of Healing Human Disconnect. Order a copy of book, the new BE THE CAUSE: HEALING HUMAN DISCONNECT book available on Amazon: http://bit.ly/1OHJu3H please SUBSCRIBE to our channel follow me us on: instagram twitter facebook For biz inquiries contact me at: info@drjudywtf.com

Although some parents are still alive, it doesn't mean that they are emotionally or physically available. We grieve what we didn't have because somewhere deep inside there is a yearning to have the mother and father that gives us a sense of security and emotional fulfillment. According to Erik Erikson's psychoanalytic theory, if we don't grow up with security, we don't develop trust in the world and become vulnerable to others who may let us down. From a WTF! or What The Freud! perspective we then are more prone to repeat patterns that replicate this lack of security in current relationships.   Today we Mind Mapped the Tune: "Over You" by Miranda Lambert.

We are going GLOBAL, DEEPER, and CROSS CULTURAL. Cultural wounds play a role in Human Disconnect. The Armenian culture typically smother their children. Oftentimes the son is the Golden Child of the family, and the daughter is the scapegoat who bears the traditional burdens. Armenian families typically stay together at all costs. Today we Mind Mapped the Tune I'm In Here by Sia.

Call-In Show: USA: 323-843-2826 International  - Skype: UBNRADIO2   Every Thursday at 8:00 PM PST (USA). You can also find our Podcasts  iTunes,  Stitcher,  TuneIN  &  iHeartRadio, Google Play   Never miss listening to a single Dr. Judy WTF! Click the GEAR ICON next to the RED SUBSCRIBE  button or the BELL ICON to get notifications to your mobile, email or both.   THANK YOU for all the call ins!  So much family manipulation to talk about--siblings disconnected because of parents who manipulate family dynamics is a common fallout material of Systems Gone Wrong. The Mind Map is a lens through we can see the dysfunction, so today we broke it all down into the CAUSE, the REACTIONS, and the ENCODING.   It is important to recognize that siblings experience their parents differently--the golden child verses the scapegoat may feel like they have two different sets of parents.  When parents need to be the center of attention, they will pit family members against each other. Flying monkeys, disconnection, and CHAOS

Call-In Show: USA: 323-843-2826 International  - Skype: UBNRADIO2 Every Thursday at 8:00 PM PST (USA). You can also find our Podcasts  iTunes,  Stitcher,  TuneIN  &  iHeartRadio, Google Play Never miss listening to a single Dr. Judy WTF! Click the GEAR ICON next to the RED SUBSCRIBE  button or the BELL ICON to get notifications to your mobile, email or both. THANK YOU for all the call ins!  So much family manipulation to talk about--siblings disconnected because of parents who manipulate family dynamics is a common fallout material of Systems Gone Wrong. The Mind Map is a lens through we can see the dysfunction, so today we broke it all down into the CAUSE, the REACTIONS, and the ENCODING. It is important to recognize that siblings experience their parents differently--the golden child verses the scapegoat may feel like they have two different sets of parents.  When parents need to be the center of attention, they will pit family members against each other. Flying monkeys, disconnection, and CHAOS is the

Splitting is a primitive defense mechanism designed to protect. A child will split their world into black and white because it's easier for them to manage. Two personality disorders who overvalue and devalue relationships are those of the Borderline Personality Disorder and Narcissistic Personality Disorder personality Cluster B's.   They do so for different reasons: BPD's have a weak inner core and fear abandonment, whereas NPD's fear being exposed for their false self (no strong inner core either, but harder shell) and will split when they are hurt.   The key to forming a strong inner core is to start with emotional nutrients--breastfeeding, attuning to the baby/child, and creating an integrative family structure.   We Shrunk That Tune  “Stop Dragging My Heart Around” by Stevie Nicks and Tom Petty (Who died this week)   Get Dr. Judy's Book, “Be The Cause: Healing Human Disconnect”! Available in Book or eBook: http://bit.ly/1Ny1asG and get a FREE consultation with Dr. Judy's staff or speak with her personall

Emotionally unavailable parents can Be The Cause of children becoming emotionally unavailable to themselves and to others. In order to form a healthy human psyche it takes mirroring, attunement and parents that are THERE for their children.   The more "psychological vitamins" we give our children, the stronger their inner core, the more resilient they are and the more they will be capable of forming healthy bonds.   Without this emotional availability, they can have the tendency to shut down and withdraw, get angry, and/or develop symptoms such as anxiety, depression, and what we refer to from a Mind Map perspective as the "hole in the soul."   Reminding everyone to use the PH.D. or Peaceful Healing Dialogue to resolve conflict and get back into reconnecting (Panel 7).   We Shrunk That Tune… “Its My Life”  by No Doubt   Get Dr. Judy's Book, “Be The Cause: Healing Human Disconnect”! Available in Book or eBook: http://bit.ly/1Ny1asG and get a FREE consultation with Dr. Judy's staff or speak with her personally.

Be the Cause! PLEASE LIKE, SHARE, AND COMMENT -- Healing Global Disconnect!   UBN Radio show info: http://bit.ly/2vrdrhO Watch us Live on YouTube Http://bit.ly/2vKGMCc     Call-In Show: USA: 323-843-2826 International  - Skype: UBNRADIO2   Every Thursday at 8:00 PM PST (USA). You can also find our Podcasts  iTunes,  Stitcher,  TuneIN  &  iHeartRadio, Google Play   Never miss listening to a single Dr. Judy WTF! Click the GEAR ICON next to the RED SUBSCRIBE  button or the BELL ICON to get notifications to your mobile, email or both.   Healing Human Disconnect--cell phones provide temporary hole in the soul fillers and although they are a temporary adrenaline rush, they ultimately disconnect us from the people right in front of us.    Thank you every one for sharing your family disconnect, co-worker disconnect stories, and providing all our listeners the opportunity to see that these disconnects start with mother-infant, father-infant disconnect and spread to family, community and global disconnect. Sometime