Y.I.E.L.D. Today With Dallin Candland

JJ Brun is a retired spy who built a business sharing some of the key lessons he learned on communication. We talked about some of the communication models that have helped him in relationships, interrogations, and spy missions.JJ's Website: https://theretiredspy.com/JJ's Ten Questions: https://theretiredspy.com/10questions/Time Stamps:2:00 - You Need a Model of Reference5:30 - When Communication Breaks Down8:28 - "Would it Be Okay?"10:34 - Finding a Common Link, a Common Like, and a Common Love12:12 - Pace and Priority Perspectives to Read Communication Styles18:15 - "I'm Just Curious...." (Mindset for a First Date)21:30 - In Teaching You Assimilate Information Quicker22:30 - Everyone Has a Human Capital Waiting to be DiscoveredQuote"When we listen, we have to listen in silence.""When we listen in silence, we can enlist a proper response to the other person.""In every interaction we are either going to help complete or compete with the other person.

There are many things we can do now to make sure we leave behind the legacy we would like to. One of those ways is by writing letters to our kids and others who have made a meaninful impact on us. Jordan curates a collection of letters from people all over the world on their thoughts on building a truly wealthy life. We talked about that and also about Jordan's work in his day to day as a window washer. Jordan's Newsletter: https://www.thewealthletters.com/279 -  Listening to Souls and Building a Legacy ft. Danny Miranda: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/listening-to-souls-and-building-a-legacy-ft/id1478505549?i=1000597344100 Time Stamps:3:22 - Aligning your words and actions4:44 - The Hat of Life's Previous Experiences5:23 - Eastern Thinking VS. Western Thinking8:30 - Helping People See More Clearly10:30 - Easing Stress Levels of People Through Your Work14:40 - The Power of Writing Letters 20:00 - Purpose of The Wealth Letters26:38 - Jordan's Experience Coaching Basketball 30:21 - B

Frank Buck went from being a middle school band director to becoming an organization and productivity expert and speaker. He's a master of his craft and it brings me great joy to share this with you! Frank is a good example of making things simpler for yourself so you can have less unnecessary stress in your life. Frank's book: https://amzn.to/48y98DdFrank's website: https://frankbuck.org/Remember The Milk: https://www.rememberthemilk.comYouTube Version of This Interview: "God is Trying to Talk to Me" (My First Poetry Book) - https://amzn.to/3H69gNZ Time Stamps:3:00 - Writing things down immediately3:56  -Juggling a bunch of different things well4:47 - Using your tech to make things better6:11 - Eliminating friction10:13 - Making Templates in Your Life11:11 - Blessing Your Future Self13:22 - The Power of Repeating Tasks19:05 - Lessons Learned From Frank's Dad24:00 - Email Management Strategy and TipsQuotes:"That's the good life man is when you have some clear expectatio

Time to prepare is a gift, a serious gift. I am in a state of preparation for many things in my life, and I wanted to speak to that. Making more time to prepare for what is surely coming is one of the best things I can do right now. "God is Trying to Talk to Me" (My First Poetry Book) - https://amzn.to/3H69gNZMy Newsletter - https://dallincandland.substack.com/Note: This podcast episode contains affiliate links. This means that when you click on one of the links, I receive a small commission. This helps me keep improving the content for you all. I am always digging to find the best of the best to help you. Of course, it's your choice, but I stand behind what I promote and hope it is helpful for you, too! Thanks for listening!Support the show

God is teaching me SERMONS in my present sufferings. I am thankful for all of them. The Lord is able to take care of everything for you. Continue to give Him your heart and soul. He is working while you sleep. I share some thoughts in my 5 AM stayed-up-all-night drowsiness. Hope you enjoy and are blessed by hearing this. :)I'm really praying that I'll be able to get some GOOD SLEEP soon lol. For now I'm being prepared and tested for all of the blessings that are coming up for me. One day at a time. Also, I definitely need to get the paperback version of my book out soon lol - that's clear.Patience in These Pages (Poem) - https://medium.com/p/45cec4f8ff45"God is Trying to Talk to Me" (My First Poetry Book) - https://amzn.to/3H69gNZMy Newsletter - https://dallincandland.substack.com/Note: This podcast episode contains affiliate links. This means that when you click on one of the links, I receive a small commission. This helps me keep improving the content for you all. I am always d

Amazon, Uber, YouTube... what do all of these have in common?They are playing their own game, and doing extremely well.I realize that I will be WAY more joyful as I really commit to playing my own game more and just enjoy the journey more.I talked here about playing my own game in life, improving my sleep schedule, and overall loving my life more.Ways to love the game more:1. Giving myself more constraints2.More clarity with taking it one day at a time "God is Trying to Talk to Me" (My First Poetry Book) - https://amzn.to/3H69gNZMy Newsletter - https://dallincandland.substack.com/Time Stamps:1:58 - Making the Wins Exciting6:57 - The Gap Between Where I am and Would Like to be8:15 - Making Your Own Progress More Satisfying13:09 - You Need to Build Your Own Thing19:10 - Enjoy Playing The Game20:00 - Making it Easier for You to Win24:10 - You Need to Keep Showing Up"You need to have clarity on your game so you don't get sucked up into someone else's game."Support the show

I'm about to jump into the hot tub and it's past 3 AM. I wanted to talk about just trusting in the seeds you're planting and not expecting immediate results, and being okay with waiting. Plant seeds of peace, courage, and love. Over time you will see the fruits of your labor. My Newsletter - https://dallincandland.substack.com/"God is Trying to Talk to Me" (My First Poetry Book!) -  https://amzn.to/3NCXtuiTime Stamps:13:00 - Trust in the Seeds You're Planting13:42 - The Highway of Life AnalogyQuotes:"If you're spreading love you literally can't lose.""Anything can happen so we have to be open for anything."Note: This podcast episode contains affiliate links. This means that when you click on one of the links, I receive a small commission. This helps me keep improving the content for you all. I am always digging to find the best of the best to help you. Of course, it's your choice, but I stand behind what I promote and hope it is helpful for you,

God will guide you to better days, better moments, and a WAY better you. Trust in His promises and what could potentially be down the road. Lately I've been seeing SO many things coming together for me and it really echoes the sentiment - the BEST is yet to come. I shared some stories and thoughts that have been giving me clarity. I hope they are a blessing for you too :)Acting with faith in God's promises leads to better decisions, and it often leads to those small, mighty miracles that help us keep going. Life is a Revolving Door Newsletter Post - https://dallincandland.substack.com/p/life-is-a-revolving-door"God is Trying to Talk to Me" (My First Poetry Book) - https://amzn.to/3H69gNZJoy Cometh in the Morning - https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/general-conference/1986/10/joy-cometh-in-the-morning?lang=engTime Stamps:11:50 - Trust in God can bring something new15:20 - God using past experiences to reach people on a deep level quickly16:33 - Why getting my book out is one of the b

These are cold days... yet much, much warmer days are coming.  A year ago I made an episode about raising your temperature of life in the cold. Today I talked about being compassionate with myself and loving myself through the cold. I know that the financial freeze I am in is temporary. I was in a bit of an emotional freeze a few years ago, and I am out of that now. Just learning from the journey. Hope this was helpful for you. :)Support the show

I have been stressing out lately about if things are going to work out. I had a special moment last night with God while writing a poem. It caused me to remember that God is mighty to deliver me from anything of this world, and bring me to where I need to be. "Bright Moments" Poem - https://medium.com/@DallinsYield/bright-moments-a-poem-1f321fbad315My Newsletter - https://dallincandland.substack.com/ "God is Trying to Talk to Me" (My First Poetry Book!) -  https://amzn.to/3NCXtuiNote: This podcast episode contains affiliate links. This means that when you click on one of the links, I receive a small commission. This helps me keep improving the content for you all. I am always digging to find the best of the best to help you. Of course, it's your choice, but I stand behind what I promote and hope it is helpful for you, too! Thanks for listening!Support the show

I have gotten to this elevated position in my life from taking a lot of uncomfortable thoughts and chances. I talked about how I need to scale that up in 2024 so I can get to where I need to go.Newsletter: https://dallincandland.substack.com/Support the show

You get to choose what gets through the gate of your life - your precious mind and time. When you let something not in line with your principles once you may still be okay, but if you keep on letting that happen, eventually you may find that it really costs you.I talked about this, in relation to something that happened last night where I let myself get caught up in the hype of making a YouTube short. Although I do not regret doing that, it did lead to me having less freedom the next day.Support the show

Your life is still worth living. Your story is still being written. This needed to be made for someone so this is for you - wonderful person. Your life is still worth living.  "Success is not final and failure is not fatal. It is the courage to continue that counts." - Winston Churchill"God is Trying to Talk to Me" (My First Poetry Book) - https://amzn.to/3H69gNZTime Stamps:Quotes:"All of this is going to sprout and grow if you keep on watering what you have been given. "God does not make trash. He makes glorious things, and glorious things need time to grow."Note: This podcast episode contains affiliate links. This means that when you click on one of the links, I receive a small commission. This helps me keep improving the content for you all. I am always digging to find the best of the best to help you. Of course, it's your choice, but I stand behind what I promote and hope it is helpful for you, too! Thanks for listening!Support the show

Happy 2024! As we move into a new year, you may find yourself needing to let go of some things to help you reach your goals. I would remind you that sacrifices are often necessary to get to greater heights. I'm learning this right now, and choosing to make the most of it. :)Seven Habits of Highly Effective People - https://amzn.to/3vkxAco Essentialism - https://amzn.to/3NM7h57Note: This podcast episode contains affiliate links. This means that when you click on one of the links, I receive a small commission. This helps me keep improving the content for you all. I am always digging to find the best of the best to help you. Of course, it's your choice, but I stand behind what I promote and hope it is helpful for you, too! Thanks for listening!Support the show

My sleep has been awful recently. I realize that if I am to get to where I would like to be I have to get better sleep. Books and Other Resources Mentioned:Mattress Clarity's Article About Lebron James' Sleep Routine -  https://www.mattressclarity.com/news/lebron-james-athletes-sleep/#:~:text=LeBron%20James%20has%20made%20headlines,The%20man%20sleeps%20a%20lot"The 2-Week Vacation Test" by Austin Netzley - https://amzn.to/3RYsXh5Chandler Bolt Morning Routine Video - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yIxb3CfltTkNote: This podcast episode contains affiliate links. This means that when you click on one of the links, I receive a small commission. This helps me keep improving the content for you all. I am always digging to find the best of the best to help you. Of course, it's your choice, but I stand behind what I promote and hope it is helpful for you, too! Thanks for listening!Support the show

When you know that you are doing what you need to do and are doing what you can - you are able to find a sense of calm. I talk more about choosing calm in the storm and trusting the journey and processBooks and Resources Mentioned:"Stillness is the Key" by Ryan Holiday - https://amzn.to/3RKnUzgNote: This podcast episode contains affiliate links. This means that when you click on one of the links, I receive a small commission. This helps me keep improving the content for you all. I am always digging to find the best of the best to help you. Of course, it's your choice, but I stand behind what I promote and hope it is helpful for you, too! Thanks for listening!Support the show

Your soul will become MUCH sharper from seeking to spread love in this world. Makes future conversations easierOpens doorsHelps you figure out what you like doingThe Practice of Groundedness - https://amzn.to/3tEhjP5Seven Habits of Highly Effective People - https://amzn.to/3vlJIdd "God is Trying to Talk to Me" (My First Poetry Book!) - https://amzn.to/3NCXtui Discord Link: https://discord.com/invite/KR5cdstcEBQuotes:"Love will sharpen you like nothing else."Note: This podcast episode contains affiliate links. This means that when you click on one of the links, I receive a small commission. This helps me keep improving the content for you all. I am always digging to find the best of the best to help you. Of course, it's your choice, but I stand behind what I promote and hope it is helpful for you, too! Thanks for listening!Support the show

Boldness can open doors that few things can. It is born of confidence in your mission and of a commitment to staying calm. Here we talked more about it.Support the show

It's humbling, but going back to the past can only help so much. At some point, you need to look to the future and create from there. Today I talked more about that.Support the show

Building confidence with yourself starts with small wins. Small wins are a LOT easier to celebrate when they are ones that you plan out for yourself.Working to be more true with my word and all the things you intend to do is powerful! It is another really good character goal for 2024. "God is Trying to Talk to Me" (My First Poetry Book!) - https://amzn.to/3NCXtui"The Four Agreements" - https://amzn.to/3venpWONote: This podcast episode contains affiliate links. This means that when you click on one of the links, I receive a small commission. This helps me keep improving the content for you all. I am always digging to find the best of the best to help you. Of course, it's your choice, but I stand behind what I promote and hope it is helpful for you, too! Thanks for listening!Support the show