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In this episode, I have shared 10 lessons that I have learned as a working mom. I have also talked about a Christmas tradition that I love.    10 Lessons:    #1: There is no such a thing as a “perfect” mom: 完璧なママは必要ない o   So much expectation on myself and I try to do everything “so perfect” but in reality, I mess up all the time, I fight with my kids, I get frustrated and sometimes being really hard on them.  Lesson: It is ok to let kids to be creative. We don’t have to make everything perfect. Kids are not looking for perfection! They just love you as you being  a caring mom.  #2: Understand what your kids want not yours: 子供の気持ちを大切に o   As a mom, we all want the best for our kids. I want my kids to have the experience, best learning environment and best everything!  Lesson: It is good to give opportunity but you cannot push kids to do it.  As a working mom, everything is a “go- go- go” so  I sometimes forget to ask how my daughter is enjoying. In stead, I get mad at my kids if they are not active and engagin