Andrew Dickens Afternoons

While the news coverage around the birth of the Jacinda Ardern’s baby might be seen by some to be a little over the top, here's hoping that it marks an opportunity to shift to a more positive discussion around parenthood in general. Because, apart from this notable exception, recent language and discussions seem to frame the idea of having children and looking after then in consistently negative terms.There is, of course, the ongoing discussion around the pay gap between stay-at-home parents and those who keep working. A recent article described the difference in pay outcomes as the motherhood or fatherhood “penalty”.It’s vital to continue these discussions, and for mums and dads to feel that they have a choice around this important issue. But I can’t help but feel that the role of the stay at home parent is portrayed in very negative terms. The conversation always seems to imply that the stay at home parent is somehow the loser in this equation.Add to that the complete lack of empathy for the plight of child