Dr. Judy Wtf

the best strategy for steering clear of narcissistic relationships is to heal myself. When you close your window of vulnerability, you create boundaries to keep out the bad and let in the good. It's important that you understand your childhood wounds so that you don't keep replaying them. And you don't enroll other people in the dance of dysfunction in order to steer clear of narcissist psycho, educate yourself, heal your wounds, and create a consciousness of being proactive rather than we actively picking people that make you feel good in the moment. Just because you love someone, it doesn't mean that they love you back. Be more, be more mindful of how they make you feel rather than how you feel about them, but should do it.