Ibc Podcast

In this episode, Mayra and I, engage again in a heated discussion about couple dynamics: attack and withdraw. This episode is the second part of a series of three evil dialogues (as named by Dr. Sue Johnson), where we attempt to explain the vicious cycles in which couples fall into and end up disconnecting and hurting one another. If you haven't had a chance to listen to our previous episode, (attack and counterattack), I highly recommend you do so to gain a better understanding of this episode. The following points were covered: Definition: why we engage in this dynamic where the pursuer protests against the discomfort, lack of attention and love. Meanwhile, the withdrawer withdraws taking all the criticism and in fear of poorly performing or even jeopardizing the relationship. Characteristics of this dynamic: attack and withdraw. Adverse Consequences. Recommendations. Consider taking this quiz to find out if you and your partner are falling into this cycle. We'd also like to recommend reading, Ho