Russ Rantz

I hate uncertainty...and I equally hate rejection. Isn't that great? The biggest thing I find frustrating in life is that there are no guarantees. There are no assurances that you're "nailing" the right objectives in life.  I wish that life had a report card that told you EXACTLY where you were at. That way, if you were failing, wasting your time, or making a fool of yourself you could at least adjust course. BUT! Life does not work that way, and because of that ever steady uncertainty I have often tried to avoid commitment as often as possible.  The unfortunate thing about that is I can make a lot of really STUPID decisions and knee-jerk reactions when I'm forced into a corner to make a direct and purposeful choice. Coincidentally...this desire to avoid awkward uncertainty almost made me miss out on one of the BEST DECISIONS OF MY LIFE. Not only that, if I'm not careful, I could potentially miss TONS of other amazing things in my life that require me to DTR (define the relationship/result).