Love, Life, Law of Attraction

The best way to waste a first date is to make it about you. It’s not a popularity evaluation. You aren’t a test drive. Don’t let someone take you for a spin over dinner and a movie. It’s an opportunity to see if there’s a connection with another human. Don’t waste your time and energy trying to be likable and miss that chance or the signs it won’t ever really be there. The most powerful place to be when you're dating is being the decider. You don't want to be hoping to be picked. You want to know you are in a position to choose. From that empowered place, dating is a lot less anxiety inducing and a lot more fun.