Mindset Academy

In today's Episode we answer one of our viewer's questions: “My Boyfriend is always trying to fix all my problems and I don’t want him to. What do I do?” In this Episode,  Relationship Experts Jan and Monika advise viewer Heather on her frustration with her boyfriend who is always trying to “Fix” her. Key Takeaways: [0:30] Is there a way that you can hear that everytime he gives you advice that all he is trying to do is love you?  Try to imagine that every time he tries to help or fix you that he is saying “I love you!”  [1:32] If you are sensitive to criticism and take it personally every time someone tries to help or ‘fix’ you, it’s likely that when you were growing up you were used to hearing a similar voice from your parents or loved ones. They may have always been trying to tell you how to live your life or control you. So pay attention to the fact that you are listening from a certain lens, and try to realize that all he is trying to do is love you.  [2:20 ] Let him know how you are feeling. Tell him th