Jerry Banfield

Why is it so hard to help myself, and why is it so easy to see exactly what everyone else could do to help themselves? People will complain to me about not liking their job or not getting along with their boss, and will often continue to work there even if it makes them miserable. To me the solution was always simple, I would suggest they find a new job. However, I was unable to fix the glaring problems I had in my own life. Even though I had multiple family members and friends tell me that I needed to stop drinking, I was unable to stop on my own. Just like feeling trapped at a bad job or being stuck in an unhappy relationship, I was afraid to face the unknown of a life without alcohol. Alcohol allowed me to run away from my problems and emotions, and I was terrified of the alternative of having to face them. It took me coming to a self-realization that alcohol was ruining my life and seeking help on my own before I was able turn my life around. I am grateful for the support group I meet with each day! ---