Kris Wilder

Be yourself is bad lazy advice. You know that question that you layout for people, “What should I do?” You know when you’re looking at possibly a date or a job interview or important moment. “What should I do?” You are seeking information. You are seeking counsel. “How can I make this moment better?” Just … Continue reading "Be Yourself Is Bad Lazy Advice" The post Be Yourself Is Bad Lazy Advice appeared first on Kris Wilder.

Secret societies don’t care about you. A fun little observation and it is that The Secret teachings of the Illuminati, the Rosicrucian’s, the Mason, Skull and Bones, the Trilateral Commission, generally the occult mysticism. And from the Mike Myers movie So I Married an Axe Murder, The Pentaverant, with Colonel Sanders before he died. Secret … Continue reading "Secret Societies Don’t Care About You" The post Secret Societies Don’t Care About You appeared first on Kris Wilder.

The unique and special formula. A conversation with a friend regarding the Google Algorithm turned into an observation. The levels of interest and focus you freely give to the almighty Google prove you are not that special.   We are all special except we are not. Amazon knows when you are ready to buy a … Continue reading "The Unique and Special Formula" The post The Unique and Special Formula appeared first on Kris Wilder.

Promising You an Easy Life. An easy life is something we desire, who doesn’t want that? And it is the kind of life that results in an unedited, soft life. I would argue a trivial life. We can’t escape the trauma the hardship of this life it is in the nature of our existence, it … Continue reading "Promising You an Easy Life" The post Promising You an Easy Life appeared first on Kris Wilder.

Craters of Improvement. We seek like-minded people. It feels good to get validating and to share similar ideas. We develop a tribe of sorts. But not a false tribe. As an example, your co-workers are a forced tribe. Your co-workers are constructed of people who meet the business needs and not yours. That is what … Continue reading "Craters of Improvement" The post Craters of Improvement appeared first on Kris Wilder.

I’ll give my energy to this. The old saying, “You get what you focus on.” That’s about thoughts, will, and intention manifesting into action. It’s true. It’s as true as the changing seasons the choice of where you put that energy is the way of your flow. It’s the way that you go. The more … Continue reading "I’ll Give My Energy to This" The post I’ll Give My Energy to This appeared first on Kris Wilder.

Building by Doing Your Work. Recently I donated a car to a company to get a tax credit and to easily get rid of my car it seemed like a good idea. The events lead me to need to contact them to make sure that they had received the car. The response was, “Do you … Continue reading "Building by Doing Your Work" The post Building by Doing Your Work appeared first on Kris Wilder.

The Robert’s Rule of News is about the speed of news. Recently the actress Tanya Roberts died and she died twice. That is a case of fast reporting, and being the 1st to have the hot take in play here. The story is the actress Tanya Roberts died. Then it came out that she wasn’t … Continue reading "The Robert’s Rule of News" The post The Robert’s Rule of News appeared first on Kris Wilder.

Your energy is key now “In these times.” That’s what the radio announcers and broadcasters like to say. “In these uncertain times,” or “These unprecedented times.” Yeah, yeah, yeah, heard a million times. Your Energy is Key Now, Right Now, More Than Ever The question is, “What do I do?” “What do we do in … Continue reading "Your Energy is Key Now" The post Your Energy is Key Now appeared first on Kris Wilder.

Custom built minds and bodies. Our bodies and minds are plastic or malleable. The body can be adjusted to lift massive weights through repetition practice and diet. Eddie Hall the English strong man was a swimmer in his youth and then he changed his direction. The serial killer Ted Bundy lost weight until he was … Continue reading "Custom Built Minds and Bodies" The post Custom Built Minds and Bodies appeared first on Kris Wilder.

There is a saying that goes, “Letting somebody live rent-free in your head.” That saying means a person has long since left the situation, but you continue to go over what happened. The saying is attributed to Ann Landers who wrote in an advice column for 56 years. They Are Gone The idea is that … Continue reading "Rent Free In Your Head" The post Rent Free In Your Head appeared first on Kris Wilder.

Circumstances and Fate in An Active Light. “If only this would be like that,” “If the situation would just break this way.” “What we need to have is the stars align yeah that will make everything right.” Well, there’s the crux of the situation. There’s the crux of the circumstances and fate. Standing around and … Continue reading "Circumstances and Fate in an Active Light" The post Circumstances and Fate in an Active Light appeared first on Kris Wilder.

Two distinct roles in your life. One is the role of citizen the other resident. These two positions result in how you hold yourself in your community. Resident v. Citizen A resident is a person living in a place, that’s pretty much what they do they live in that place. Done. A citizen has rights … Continue reading "Two Distinct Roles in Your Life" The post Two Distinct Roles in Your Life appeared first on Kris Wilder.

The Menu of Life. Life is likely not going to go as planned. Your life well, it does what it does and as much as you plan, things change. As much as you are an excellent planner, setting out that trajectory, establishing those goals, implementing them one after another successively. As you are moving towards … Continue reading "The Menu of Life" The post The Menu of Life appeared first on Kris Wilder.

Learning agenda. Learning with an agenda is predisposing yourself to a conclusion. This type of learning serves a purpose but it also narrows our lives. We create silos of knowledge and the desire to learn and be entertained. We create silos of knowledge. In those silos, we have a predisposition. We have a planned outcome … Continue reading "Learning Agenda" The post Learning Agenda appeared first on Kris Wilder.

Light the Lighthouse. Terror, fear, the pain they create confusion and then we go into survival mode. That’s not new the survival mode, but here’s a way to look at survival mode and how you might deal with it as somebody else is experiencing it. The Sub-Personality One way to look at this is as … Continue reading "Light The Lighthouse" The post Light The Lighthouse appeared first on Kris Wilder.

Whispers of defeat and crab pots. The story of the crab pot goes like this. A bunch of captured crabs are in a bucket and as one crab has made it to the rim of the bucket, about to escape it gets pulled back down by the other crabs. The truth is that this is … Continue reading "Whispers of Defeat" The post Whispers of Defeat appeared first on Kris Wilder.

Victim times three. The title sounds like rejection or oddly an acceptance of what is happening, but in a strange and odd way. “This is not happening,” or I am a victim of a certain circumstance is not an attractive look. Business Destroyed Recently my karate dojo got flooded. The dojo was destroyed. The unit … Continue reading "Victim Times Three" The post Victim Times Three appeared first on Kris Wilder.

Improve my life. The idea of improvement of getting better is not inherent in all of us. We do what we need to do and not much more. The caveman Grock needed a better smashing rock so what he did was he fashioned a new tool, enter the rock on a stick. The rock on … Continue reading "Improve My Life" The post Improve My Life appeared first on Kris Wilder.

Cultivating a life. Are you a cultivating person or are you something other? Are you seeking change in your life or are you letting it pass by? The post Cultivating a Life appeared first on Kris Wilder.