The Alpha Dude

Most of this series has been about getting better. But if you build the worlds best mansion on crappy foundations, it wont last. In this episode we start the digging and healing process. Only process when your ready to make long term changes. There are three type of people: Those who know they need to fix themselves or their past. Those who have fixed the past. Then Those who are ignorant (and think they don't have anything to fix - applies to all of us to a degree.) Been doing this for ages, milestones reached, serving countless people online and face to face. Now is a good time to Call it... Season Two.  

We all know about Projecting right? The Person who turns their anger on the innocent. The Boss under pressure who takes it out on their employee, or maybe the Partner who treats their innocent spouse with contempt. On this episode we learn not only how to deal with the above but reverse engineer it to see how you can utilize this superpower.  

When working with people who want to change, there is a difference.  Those who succeed are driven, and often pain is a factor. Just like pain is God's gift to allow us to pull our hand back when it feels the sting of a blade to prevent further damage, the type of pain that drives people to change is also a gift.  The only problem is that people then set about trying to change things only to fail, or even worse change the wrong thing that has even more negative consequences. Lets explore change technology, why it ruins some people, and how to apply it (successfully) with massive gain in your life!

We are all Lazy. Yes even you the Type A overachiever! This is the nature of the mind and how we interact with reality.  In this episode we will explore - WHY we are all Actually Lazy and  - How to HACK this to achieve anything (and everything!) Personal Upgrade: The different Approach to Self Discovery and Enhanced Abilities. The Last Stop in Personal Development.  Unique Approach designed for the Mind.  Books available, Course Release Date TBA. By Michael Pulser your Personal Upgrade Guide - Changing Countless Lives for Over a Decade...

This episode will focus on the Self Help Scams out there... Apart from the obvious (tens of thousands of dollars for coaching and courses) you may be surprised that it goes deeper and chances are many of your favorite 'content creators' are doing you a MASSIVE disservice. Watching the industry over many decades I have seen the changes and the problems from the past resolve and create new problems.  If you like Personal Growth Material then you should listen to this.     BTW - if you downloaded this episode on its release... MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!

Life is about challenges.  We solve problems daily with at work, home and in everyday life. Then along comes the bomb and we realize what a Problem really is! Learning to deal with these issues is complex, but I have broken this down to include: - The root of ALL problems - The two essential shifts you must make or else nothing will work - How to practically deal with all Problems - How to deal with the mental toll of each problem and believe it or not how you can actually grow from the process (I know - if your career, marriage or health is at risk its easier said than done, but listen in to see what I mean) This episode was done out of a need to assist people who have been told to look on the bright side, things will get better, do deep breathing, talk about it etc. - AND NONE OF THIS STUFF HELPED! As always let me know what you think.  

Too often we miss the mark when exploring our feelings, emotions and reactions. Once you discover the Driver of the emotions you have the tool to control everything. In this episode we: - Discover the tool - Unpack it and learn how it works against us - Learn how to control it  - Utilize a 3 step approach to Master emotions long term In less than 10 minutes you can at a minimum have a great day or best case - CHANGE YOUR ENTIRE APPROACH TO LIFE!

Someone is talking to you, then before long, they are dominating you. You go to a social event to have fun and find that people just want to talk over you. Everyone has dealt with something similar - this podcast covers what you can do to not only survive but thrive.  Then you can have fun.  Watch as the other person starts to conform to your reality. Of course your reality is one of pure motives, so there's no manipulation or cognitive dissonance. Enjoy! 

In this episode we will unpack many concepts including: - How to deal with difficult people - How to deal with your difficult states - Learn how to overcome past conditioning - Stop buying into other peoples Frames - Maintain your own Frame - Build and Upgrade your Frame all premised on one little Secret*  

We all hold past traumas in our physiology, like it or not. BUT you don't have to live with them, they are repairable, and you can even hack the same system that gave you the problem and use it to help with growth. This episode explores how. This is a little known field, where through deconstruction I have aligned it with the Systematic approach I tach and the synergy is amazing, you'll see. Book reference: Attract Love / Repel Hate: The illustrated guide to make you immune to psychological attack while instantly boosting your charisma (Rapid Reader) eBook : Pulser, Michael: Amazon.com.au: Kindle Store

This EPISODE is a prerequisite for life. I'm sure you know to take responsibility for things by now, but how deep is this really? Can it turn someone with no hope into a complete success. What is your story that holds you back. Not taking responsibility is an excuse, this episode holds the antidote. Try this and watch everything change!

You are being blasted with thousands of messages daily.  A lot of its good, a lot of its bad. However even the good stuff, there is simply too much to apply.  What do we do? This episode covers how the process of information acquisition works, how to discern and optimize the process. If you don't take into account the message of this podcast, you may be wasting many years - lets get this handled!

Ignore those seven step guides to being assertive, build your foundation from the ground up and create real assertiveness.  Only through being intentional in this process will you see results. This is possibly the simplest episode in my podcast series and definitely one of those which will change everything if you implement the advice. Side effects include self respect, more friends and defeating bullies. What's not to like?  

I know, I know - The title = Bold claim yes - Click bait no! However in this episode we look at ALL facets of eye contact - why most systems and books fail (and actually make your entire game worse) then what you can do to change everything. Speaking vs Listening Ratios - Back to front? The only way to communicate strength and warmth when Breaking eye contact Why working on your eye contact makes everything worse Why spending time interpreting eye contact is a waste of time The deconstruction approach to the entirety of communication (thanks Jacques Derrida) What to do to fix your flaws and so much more! A really comprehensive episode, hope its useful. Further information: Personal Upgrade: The different Approach to Self-Discovery and Enhanced Abilities using the Alpha Dude System - Kindle edition by Pulser, Michael. Self-Help Kindle eBooks @ Amazon.com.  

Capitalism by definition depends on profits and in order to make a profit YOU are selling something. Professionally its either your service as a teacher or a retailer.  Stepping outside of Capitalism we have social interactions which trades in value of a different kind. If you are being manipulative in either case you will fail, this episode will focus on the successful application instead.

A MUST FOR THE INTROVERT Last year we covered Introversion vs Extroversion, how to Capitalize on the Strengths and overcome the Weaknesses *see link below* This year we will dig into how you can overcome the negative effects of introversion so you can UPGRADE all aspects of your life.  An extrovert gets charged from interactions and as such electrify others with their energy (in a positive way) - before an introvert gets drained, they start at full charge, lets explore how to INCREASE your charge capacity, RUN longer before draining out and WHAT to do when you start to get drained. Extroversion vs Introversion Link: https://www.podbean.com/ew/pb-43smc-dca677

Last episode we unpacked how to heal the past, which is imperative if you want to move past those stumbling blocks that have held you back. Now its onto the future. If you have the right recipe you can make an amazing cake, this is essentially the recipe for an amazing future.      

If you don't truly understand logic, you could be living a lie, or worse living for a lie.   Just like Martial Arts - If you want to learn Boxing go to a Boxing gym. If you want to learn Personal Growth listen to this Podcast or read the book Personal Upgrade. If you want to learn logic and reason, go to The Place that specializes in it.   TESTIMONY OF A NPC   ...Not Really a Podcast, more like a: Complete Course in Logic, Spirituality and Apologetics. Packaged like a Tiramisu cake, multilayered and served in a baby bowl, all mixed together. No episode is the same. Each episode has a unique focus. Always educational and most of all fun!   Testimony of a NPC • A podcast on Anchor  

All of us have been hurt (or hurt others in the past.) If you want to know how you can resolve this, it is entirely possible. First we understand with the A vs B theory of time, working through the trauma and come out the other side healed. Sound too much? Try it out!

The famous book 'The Charisma Myth' informs the reader on how anyone can become charismatic. Using many of the concepts in the earlier written Personal Upgrade - we unpack and of course upgrade this work.