Shameless Sex

In this episode we dive deep into the juicy topic of squirting AKA gushing AKA female ejaculation. Join us for some how to's, as well as some personal stories about our own wet 'n' wild adventures.  Also, we answer your sex question on sex in long distance relationships. 

Robert Kandell has been helping men find themselves for fourteen years. An expert in interpersonal communication and relationships, he has helped thousands of students find a more balanced, energized life with better relationships, more sex and more happiness. His coaching style is challenging, fraternal and highly rewarding and definitely not for the faint hearted, he has been described as “part football coach, part loving dad and part slightly crazed drill sergeant”. He is the host of the highly successes podcast, Tuff Love, and the author of the upcoming book, unHIDDEN, A Book for Men and Those Confused by Them. Also we answer your sex question: Being told about an STI/STD (Genital Warts) a year into the relationship  Pure Pleasure code for 20% off anal toys for month of August - AUGANAL18

Dr. Hernando Chaves holds a BA in Psychology, an MA in Marital and Family Therapy, and a Doctorate degree in Human Sexuality. He is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Clinical Sexologist, Love and Sex Coach and Professor of Psychology and Human Sexuality. Dr. Chaves is a co-sexpert educator for Penthouse Magazine's Sex Academy instructional DVD's. He specializes working with erotic minorities (BDSM, alt expression, nonmonogamy, fetishism), relationships, and sexual concerns.

Is sex work really the oldest profession? How has sexual shame shaped modern day culture from a historical perspective? And where did the term blowjob come from? Tune in for more. Plus enjoy Daniele's sexy Italian accent :) Daniele Bolelli is a writer, martial artist, university professor, and podcaster. He was born in Italy and currently lives in Los Angeles. Check out his podcasts, The Drunken Taoist and History On Fire, or visit his website: danielebolelli.com/  

Andrew was raised as the son of a minister in a Pentecostal Christian Church in New Jersey. Andrew studied Bible at the Evangelical Christian Wheaton College and obtained his Master of Divinity from Princeton Seminary. While religion was his life's passion, Andrew suffered greatly from anxiety, depression, and guilt about his sexuality. After a slow and painful process, Andrew awakened to a new spiritual experience through secular humanism, meditation, psychedelics, and sexuality. Andrew offers workshops, writings, support, and coaching that can be found at lifeafterdogma.org

Shaun is a writer and host of The Love Drive, a playful and honest podcast that looks into the broad and captivating world of modern sexuality and intimacy. He brings humor and depth to the often awkward, scary topics of the heart and the loins. This podcast is unabashedly sex-positive, bright, and alive. To learn more visit thelovedrive.com

Tantra is a form of yoga designed to enhance one’s experience of being alive. It’s a holistic spiritual system that connects the sexual and spiritual aspects of one’s self for integration, healing, joy, and power. Dee’s classes and sessions do not have an overt gsexual focus, though we talk about how these practices improve sex, along with all aspects of life. Dee says she helps people find their bliss through relaxation, mindfulness, and sensuality. Her clients know her for being playful and accepting, and deeply-spiritual while solidly down to earth. Dee Dussault is a sexuality coach, Yoga Alliance-certified yoga teacher, and the creator of Ganja Yoga, with a Harpercollins book by the same name. Since 2009, she's taught easy partner yoga, vanilla tantra, and Ganja Yoga to thousands of people across the US, Canada, and Europe.  Dee has over a decade of research and study, with an honors degree in Sexuality Studies, and an additional Sexuality Certificate, with a focus on women's sexuality. She loves inspirin

Ashley is a mother, doula, apprentice midwife and sex coach who has been helping to guide women through the transformation from maiden to mother since she became a mother in 2013. She is a tantrika who loves coaching women into their own sensual sovereignty through the path of pleasure, and is passionate about helping women reclaim their pelvic floor and core strength postpartum. You can find out more information about coaching with Ashley, taking a workshop or reading more about her work on her website at www.AshleyShakti.com 

Is sex addiction real? How I navigate a new poly relationship? Can orgasms be too frequent and too strong? And how do I orgasm with my partner? Amy answers YOUR sex questions. Enjoy! And don't forget to checkout: Purepleasureshop.com - Use code SHAMELESSPP for 15% off sex toys Marginswine.com - Delicious, raw/organic wine

Kimberly K has traveled both domestically and abroad to some of the most remote locations and exclusive parties, modeling for audiences with widely diverse sexual tastes. As she's met friends in all sorts of walks of life, they've peaked her desires to explore her own limits. Her new website kimberlykmodel.com is a photo and video journal as she explores what turns her on and the power of sex in our society. 

April's mom came for a visit, so we decided to get both of our beloved mothers together to talk about...you guessed it...sex! 

Bondassage is a safe, playful, creative way to stretch your intimate boundaries and expand your sensual repertoire. It’s a lovely way to rekindle the passion and desire in your relationship. You’ll become more sensitive and adventurous with each other as you reach new levels of intimacy and sensuality. Bondassage takes the receiver on a journey of sensation surprises. You may be a seasoned traveler in the BDSM realm but want something different, or you may be brand new and want to be introduced gently to percussion play, sensation exploration, and bondage. Either way, we can create a Bondassage session that best suits your needs. We’ll take you toward your known (and sometimes unknown) desires in an environment that is kind, safe, and full of surprises. About Jaeleen: Jaeleen Bennis Is a Sensual Domina, a professional bodyworker, the creator and founder of Bondassage®, and co-author of ‘Bondassage®: Kinky Erotic Massage Tips For Lovers’. To learn more visit bondassage.com Click here for 50% off of their onlin

Robin Rivera is a a wild woman warrior and feminine leadership coach working with women on a mission, as well as youth empowerment for prevention education on sex trafficking. Robin is passionate about transforming trauma into freedom, sharing her story of resilience, radical transformation, and overcoming sexual trauma and sexual exploitation from a survivor's perspective. To learn more, visit robinriveraignites.com

How does food affect our sexuality? Are aphrodisiacs real, and if so, what should I be eating? Melissa Roberts specialized in a corporate sales consultant position of sexual health and wellness products for over 10 years. After reaching a breakthrough in her own personal sexual health struggles, it became her passion to empower individuals to heal their bodies by themselves, lead healthy lifestyles, hold lasting positive relationships, and ultimately achieve total mind, body, and spirit balance through self-love, appreciation, and care. Melissa studied at the Institute for Integrative Nutrition in NY where she acquired her Certification as a Holistic Health and Wellness Coach. Now as an entrepreneur Melissa is committed to serving her community through her private practice HoneyBeeHealing Holistic Wellness & Health Coach Services. Melissa is passionate about loving and supporting her family, personal development, as well as constantly educating and spreading awareness around the principles to achieve health a

We've had a few requests for more on Tantra, and while we have an awesome guest speaker or two who specializes on the subjest lined up to guest on our show, we decided to record a quickie on Tantra basics to hold you over. Enjoy! References: Urban Tantra by Barbara Carrellas Amy's online Tantra class

In this episode we discuss some creative ways to spice up your sex life. In fact, we take it one step further beyond "kiss here" and 'touch there" - to a place of deeper yet playful connection. Enjoy! Oh, and feel free to send us your favorite tips on how YOU prefer to spice up your own sex life.  References: The Body Keeps the Score  Juicebox - use code SHAMELESS for 60% off Gabor Mate  

How do we negotiate sex in relationships? What if I want to have sex more often than my partner (or vise versa)? How do we meet each other's needs? Also, more on Attachment Theory! Resources: Books: Attached  Mating In Captivity  Other: Esther Perel TED talks  Juicebox sex coaching app (use code SHAMELESS for 60% off)

We get 2-3 sex questions/day, AND WE LOVE IT! The only thing is it often takes us one month + to answer them on the air/Shameless Sex's FaceBook Live. Enter Juicebox, a quick, easy, and affordable sex and relationship when you need it. And guess what? We are now on the app as well. Tune in to learn more. We also share some creative ways to work with low libido. About Juicebox: Juicebox is an iPhone app that pairs you with professional sex and relationship coaches from a network of certified and vetted experts. With an easy (and anonymous) messaging platform and scalable technology, Juicebox is making sex and relationship coaching affordable and accessible to everyone. Use code SHAMELESS for 60% off your first week! Product References: OMGyes Magic Wand Atom Cock Ring Use code SHAMLESSPP at purepleasureshop.com for 15% off  

This episode is a redo of episode #10 to make up for the terrible sound quality (as well as blank audio on some of the apps). Plus April is no longer a backdoor virgin, so we have some new ideas and stories to share. So tune in to learn how to have awesome booty lovin'! For sex toy references, visit purepleasureshop.com. Use coupon code SHAMELESSPP for 15% off. 

If you've tuned in before, you know that we are huge fans of taking our time in the bedroom. So how do quickies apply? How can we have great, pleasurable, connected sex when time is limited? Tune in to learn more.