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Dr. Alison Ash aka Dr. Aly returns for her eighth time on our show to do the 2.0 version of How to Eat Pussy Like a Champ. Dr. Aly covers everything from anatomy 101 when it comes to munching the box, why some people don't like eating pussy and how they can become pussy lovers, how learning and practicing oral skills leads more confidence around performance, applicable tips and tools that might apply to most pussy pleasure, 2.0 intermediate tips and tools for the advanced pussy lover, as well as how to talk to your partner about wanting more pussy loving. About our guest: Dr. Alison Ash, aka Dr. Aly, is a trauma-informed intimacy coach and educator, Stanford University Lecturer, author, and founder of TurnON.love. As a sociologist with a PhD from Stanford, she understands the complex societal challenges that lead to unsatisfying and disempowering intimate experiences. She has pioneer research on the orgasm gap, heterosexual dynamics, and queer and trans experiences. She has extensive training in Hakomi Mindfu

Get ready to dive deep into the fascinating world of compersion with our latest Shameless Sex episode featuring the brilliant Dr. Marie Thouin! As a leading expert and scholar on compersion in consensual non-monogamy, Dr. Thouin brings a wealth of knowledge and groundbreaking research to our listeners. Stay tuned because this episode will have some gold for you, too! What's in store for you: Discover what compersion really is (and what it's not!) Explore the relationship between compersion and jealousy Uncover the latest research findings on compersion in monogamy and Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) Learn practical tips for cultivating more compersion in your relationships Understand why developing compersion is crucial for healthy relationships Get insights on essential questions couples should discuss about compersion Dr. Thouin, the author of the first-ever scholarly book on compersion titled "What is Compersion," shares her journey in the field of sexuality and how she became a pioneer in compersion st

Calling all penis owners and lovers! It's time to break free from shame and embrace your sexual confidence. In this eye-opening episode, we're joined by the incredible Keeley Rankin, MA, a seasoned sex and relationship coach based in San Francisco since 2010. Get ready to dive deep into the world of penis-related anxieties in this episode as we explore: The lowdown on erectile dysfunction (aka–erectile struggles–because it’s NOT dysfunction!), premature ejaculation (aka–ejaculatory control–because there’s NOTHING premature about it!), and delayed orgasm – what they are, why they happen, and how to overcome them Size matters... or does it? Discover the truth about average penis size and learn to rock what you've got Ejaculatory control mastery: Tips and tricks to last longer and enjoy more “Small” penis, big pleasure: Become a legendary lover regardless of size Hot sex hacks for partners of all penis sizes  Keeley Rankin, MA is not just your average sex and relationship coach – she's a mentor, expert in

Get ready to unleash your inner kitten, Shameless listeners! This week, we're diving into the deliciously naughty world of Killing Kittens with the queen of female sexual empowerment herself, Emma Sayle. Buckle up for a wild ride as we explore how this badass entrepreneur turned her anger at sexual double standards into a global revolution of pleasure! From exclusive parties where women call the shots to the launch of the world's first sex-positive social dating app, WeAreX, Emma's spilling all the tea on how KK is changing the game. Curious about what goes down at a KK party? We've got the steamy details that'll make you purr with excitement! But wait, there's more! Emma's dishing on KK's expansion into KK Homme and the upcoming KK Cruise setting sail in 2026. Trust us, you don't want to miss this Mediterranean adventure that'll have you saying "Oh, buoy!" Whether you're a curious kitten or a seasoned sex-plorer, this episode is packed with empowering insights, tantalizing tidbits, and a whole lot of shamele

Get ready to tantalize your senses and revolutionize your relationships, Shameless listeners! This week, we're diving deep into the world of tantra and body positivity with San Francisco's hottest power couple, Erwan and Alicia Davon. These relationship gurus have been spicing up love lives for 25 years with their game-changing Davon Method. Prepare to shed those pesky body hang-ups as we explore how shame impacts intimacy, debunk body myths, and learn to embrace our sexy selves. The Davons dish out sizzling strategies to stay present during steamy moments and create a safe space for vulnerability. Plus, hear a jaw-dropping success story that'll make you want to sign up for their next retreat ASAP! Whether you're single and ready to mingle or coupled up and looking to level up, this episode is packed with tantalizing tips to transform your love life. Don't miss out on the Davons' secrets to sensual success – your body (and partner) will thank you! Tune in now and discover how to work with Erwan and Alicia at

Suzannah Weiss is a writer and sexologist based in Los Angeles. She is the author of Subjectified: Becoming a Sexual Subject, which describes her search for sexual empowerment and her vision for a world where women are subjects, not just objects, of desire. She has written over 8800 articles, which have appeared in publications such as The New York Times and The Washington Post. As a sex educator certified by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists, Suzannah has taught courses and given talks on topics including consent, orgasms, childbirth, non-monogamy, and neurodiversity. She is regularly quoted as an expert in publications like Cosmopolitan and Men's Health and also works as a sex/love coach, birth doula, and sexual assault counselor. She holds a Master of Professional Studies in Sexual Health from the University of Minnesota, a Bachelor of Science in Cognitive Neuroscience from Brown University, and a Bachelor of Arts in Gender & Sexuality Studies and Modern Culture &

Get ready to blush, giggle, and maybe learn a thing or two as we dive into the steamy world of legal sex work with the fabulous Madam Tara from Mustang Ranch! This saucy episode is all about breaking taboos, spilling tea on client encounters, and exploring the ins and outs (pun intended) of Nevada's oldest legal brothel. From courtesan confessions to behind-the-scenes brothel gossip, Madam Tara's got the lowdown on everything from wild client requests to the art of running a pleasure palace. Whether you're curious about the courtesan lifestyle or just want to indulge in some deliciously naughty storytelling, this episode is guaranteed to tickle your fancy and challenge your perceptions. So saddle up, cowboys and cowgirls – it's time to ride into the sunset with Madam Tara and discover why the Mustang Ranch isn't your average pony show! About our guest: Tara has been involved in the legal sex industry for more than 30 years Beginning her career as a legal courtesan, Tara has served as the madam of the World Fa

What is it like being the man with the world’s largest medically verified natural penis? What are the current myths about penis size? How does fetishization fit into the mix? Is bigger really better? What are the pros and cons of having a huge cock, and what are some tools to make it more enjoyable for all parties involved? How can people learn to focus on the whole person instead of their shape or size? About our guest: Matt Barr is a London-based Cambridge-educated marketing expert with a difference - he possesses the world's largest medically verified natural penis, most recently independently certified at 36cm (14.2") long and 21.5cm (8.5") around. Matt originally gained publicity as a result of his size after appearing on the Channel 4 documentary 'My Massive Cock', where he was examined by a doctor while semi-flaccid to discuss reduction surgery. Since then, Matt has been involved in multiple medical studies and is working with the Iceland Phallological Museum to put his record-breaking member on displa

Is the newness or spark gone in your longterm relationship? Do you feel like your partner is more like a (best) friend as opposed to a lover? Maybe the communication has broken down, or perhaps it was never there to start. Or are you craving better, more connected hot sex? If so, guess what? Despite how frustrating this is, know that you are 100% normal! Also, we have plenty of episodes on how to reignite the fire (episode 381 with Dolly Josette is a great option), AND also starting November 12th, 2024 we offer a 5-night in-person luxury couple's retreat in beautiful Manual Antonio, Costa Rica! Spaces are limited so snag your spot ASAP here: https://tinyurl.com/58vwue52 Intimacy Retreat Details: Luxury all inclusive - gourmet meals prepared by private chef Beach front Daily yoga/breath work Waterfall adventure  Over $250+ in Sexy Goodies including our favorite sex toys from Magic Wand Endless Fun Activities: Murder Mystery Dinner, Sexy Tarot, Erotic couples photoshoot (a past retreat favorite) Workshop

What are the common problems women in particular face when it comes to orgasms, and what are some of the top tips for overcoming these challenges? What if someone has never had an orgasm? Why is masturbation a pivotal place to start and how can someone develop a helpful masturbation practice? And how do sex toys - both solo and partnered - fit into all of this? About our guest: Charlene Douglas is the author of Come Closer: Everything You Ever Wanted to Ask a Sex and Relationship Therapist and is the UK's leading Sex and Intimacy Expert. She can be seen on the hugely popular Married at First Sight UK, Ch4 imparting her highly sought after knowledge and advice to the newlyweds. She is also on screen relationship advisor on the hilarious Jon and Lucy’s Odd Couples, and has appeared on The Sex Clinic, Good Morning Britain, Steph’s Packed Lunch and TOWIE. Charlene is an experienced sex therapy counselor, relationship expert and life coach. Her ambition is to help others to enjoy the very essence of who they are a

In this episode we interview the revolutionary Anne Hodder-Shipp about her latest book Speaking from the Heart: 18 Languages of Modern Love. We discuss why the classic book 5 Love Languages is both limiting and dismissive of many people's experiences, the diversity of love languages can how they can evolve, the 18 and growing love languages for the modern world, and how you can apply them to your life here and now. Anne is also the founder of Everyone Deserves Sex Ed (EDSE) - a sex educator certification program we highly believe in. Anne shares about the current (not so great) state of sex education in the US, why she started EDSE, what makes EDSE different from other sex education trainings, and how anyone and everyone can become a sex educator. About our guest: Anne Hodder-Shipp, CSE, (she/they pronouns) is an award-winning, multi-certified sex and relationships educator with professional training in breathwork and natural dreamwork. They boast a unique understanding of age-appropriate sex education, traum

Why is touch so important to all humans? What is platonic erotic touch? How does it differ from other touch? What are the benefits of giving or receiving platonic erotic touch? How is platonic erotic touch created, and how do I find people to share it with? What if feels happen? Can I prevent catching the feels in platonic erotic touch?  About our guest: Despite how young she appears (thank goodness for all the GREAT orgasms), Monica Jayne comes with 25 years experience and many certifications to support you to thrive sexually, recover from trauma, shift your identity, rebuild your nervous system, recover from religious/strict upbringing / guilt & shame, shed conditioning that represses your authentic self-expression, upgrade your mindset, elevate beyond codependency, people-pleasing, or other behaviors of giving your power away, come into reverent acceptance, pride, and celebration of your sexual and relationship orientations and gender identity, and develop the deepest self-love and -respect such that you h

In this bonus episode we interview Pretty Ink, the talented content creator behind College Craze - a hot interactive video game designed for the female gaze. Learn why this is Amy's preferred "porn", as well as what goes behind creating story-driven content with lots of arousing sex scenes. About our guest: Pretty Ink is a black, female, solo developer passionate about sex, immersive gaming, and good storytelling. Her current project under Pretty Ink Games is College Craze, an adult dating and life simulation game. Her mission is to make sex-positive games for the female gaze. To learn more or try a FREE demo go to https://www.prettyinkgames.com

This episode is inspired by Hailey Magee's new book Stop People Pleasing and Find Your Power, as well as the "People Pleaser Support Group" skit on SNL. We discuss why people pleasing in the bedroom is different than other forms of people pleasing, why someone would say yes when they mean maybe or no, the common consequences of sexual people pleasing, as well as some tools to to stop people pleasing here and now. We also discuss why working on your relationship with rejection and disappointment is key on your journey towards embracing your inner power and not getting so stuck again. About our guest: Hailey Magee is a certified life coach who helps people around the world stop people-pleasing and master the art of self-advocacy. She is the author of STOP People Pleasing and Find Your Power, released by Simon & Schuster in May 2024. Hailey's refreshingly nuanced perspectives on boundary-setting and self-advocacy have captured the attention of millions on social media, and her workshops and courses have welcomed

Sexual Folklorist, podcaster and coach Dixie De La Tour joins Shameless Sex to teach us all about the magic behind erotic storytelling -just in time for Anal August! Learn about how developing your personal narrative can help you talk about difficult/intimate things (SEX!) + hear us share some of our own butt jam stories and witness the magic that is Bawdy Storytelling! Check out the Njoy plugs here and the Inflatable Plug here + get 20% off with code ANALAUGUST2024 Follow us on IG @shamelesssex here and @bawdystorytelling here to get your Butt Jams Playlist About our guest: Bawdy Storytelling (‘The Moth for Pervs” - LA Weekly) features tales of Carnal Wins & Epic Fails with No Scripts, No Nets, and No Holds Barred. These folks aren't reading from cue cards: this is honest-to-badness story time with true sexcapades and poignant, transformational tales at each and every show. Join Sexual Folklorist Dixie De La Tour & hand-picked Rockstars as they share their own stories of Love, Lust, and making you feel funny

This episode is an inside look into the wonderful world of sex work! From everything from favorite client stories to myth busting to the variations of sex work (stripping, camming, etc) - the fabulous Marcela Alonso shamelessly shares all about a day in the life of being a loud and proud sex worker. About our guest: Marcela Alonso is a woman of many hats and talents—she’s a content creator, social media influencer, podcast host, comedienne, and SAG card-carrying mainstream actress. With over two decades in adult entertainment, she knows adult entertainment and shares her knowledge with the hottest and most fascinating guests in all facets of the industry on her uber-popular podcast, Get Schooled. Marcela also hosts Sunday Funday featuring comedians. Join her private fan club at IloveMarcela.com. Tune into Get Schooled on Apple Podcasts and other podcast platforms and join Check out Sunday Funday on all the major podcast platforms, including YouTube youtube.com/c/MarcelaAlonsoYoutube/videos. Keep up with every

What are "sex parties" and why is The Play different from other play parties? What can anyone and everyone - regardless of their interest in sex parties or non-monogamy - learn from the way The Play beautifully orchestrates and curates their parties? Why is STI testing so important + unique to the way The Play operates? Also, can monogamous people go to sex parties? We known ENM isn't for everyone yet so many of you (yes you) are curious about threesomes and more-somes...and even sex parties! Tune in to learn about all of the above, as well as non ENM (ethical non-monogamy) ways to add newness to your relationships. About our guest: As the Founder and Creative Director of The Play, Michael Hollice has led the play party community for over 6 years, offering a wealth of firsthand experience and knowledge. Guided by the principles of Health, Consent, Intimacy, and Artistry, Michael creates safe and inclusive spaces fostering genuine connections and cultural evolution. His experiences in television and film produ

How can people find the right sex toy for them? What makes a sex toy a great toy or product? What are some of the top sex toys on the market? And what about lubes? Also, what the F is a praise kink? And why is having a sexual AHA moment so important? About our guest: Lisa Finn ("Finn" - she/her/they) is a Brooklyn-based Sex Educator. Since starting with Babeland in 2016, Finn has hosted countless interviews and workshops - both virtual to audiences of hundreds of attendees, and in-person from lectures at Ivy League Universities to kink demonstrations at dive bars. She's been featured in podcasts and print + digital publications on topics like beginner’s tips, BDSM how-tos, spicing up date night, self-care and sexual wellness, and - of course - the latest sex toys and trends. (She was even given the kinda absurd yet accurate title of “sex toy fairy godmother” in an article for Women’s Health Magazine). Always lacing humor into her lessons, Finn makes it a goal to "make sex-positive information accessible, and

When it comes to sex or relationships and wanting to find a therapist or coach, what should people know before they shop around? Are all sex therapists “created equal”? Why is it so important for therapists to be educated on how to support their client’s sexuality while not creating more shame? As a client, what are some of the signs my therapist or coach might not be a good fit for me? And how can I go about that? For people who want to become a sex educator or therapist, how can they start to venture down this path? And what makes SHA different from other sexuality training programs?  About our guest: Heather McPherson is the CEO and Founder of the Sexual Health Alliance, a premier education and certification provider for sexuality professionals. Heather also founded Respark, a national brand that encompasses a group therapy practice, Respark Foundation Nonprofit, and ReSpark Retreats. Respark Therapy & Associates (respark.co) is a group practice that serves Colorado, Washington and Texas specializing in se

In this episode we meet with ENM and relational expert Ally Iseman. We discuss everything from cheating and affairs to the how to's of non-monogamy, the many variations of non-monogamy, as well as how to become an expert communicator in your relationships. This episode is for monogamous and non-monogamous people who want to up their relational skills for more sexy success in and out of the bedroom. Bio: Ally Iseman is the Founder of Passport 2 Pleasure, through which she offers concierge guidance and online courses and resources for couples and individuals exploring healthy non-monogamy and alternative relationship dynamics. She has been a speaker, community organizer, and non-monogamy educator and practitioner since 2016, committed to promoting consensual, empowered, and respectful interactions as a leader within the sex-positive space. As a certified consent and communication specialist and respected non-monogamy ‘sexpert’, Ally sits on the executive leadership board of one of LA’s most distinguished sex-po