In The Trenches With The Toulons

Our baby is turning 1 this week!!!!!! The Toulons talk about the journey of starting a podcast and what they have learned from the guest on the show. Hit us up with what you have taken away from the podcast and maybe what you would like to see in going into the next year of our journey. Dont forget to tell a friend to join the Trench Mob, Subscribe, Rate and Comment.

This week have another first, Dee is a married but telling his journey solo because he is currently go through a divorce. Dee is hurting and hoping that his current situation will help someone before its too late. Taking us through two marriages, the hurdles of the current marriage, stress of the load of life taking him to a low place, turning it all to God, and how going to counseling may help him save his marriage.....to be continued. Please check out Dee professionally on instagram at @tripleakustom   Don't forget to tell a friend, subscribe, rate and comment.

For our 50th episode, we celebrate with my messy web of mess..lol In the Trenches this week, Ralph takes us on a very messy journey of what she went through before meeting Touly and a little after meeting Touly. From the drama of long distance lovers, cheating, small franks, and more. How this tiring journey brought her to the alter of asking God to not send anyone else her way unless they were for her...Enters Touly..lol If you like what you heard today, tell a friend. Subscribe, Rate and Comments...we love to hear what you have to say.

Already in the Trenches, Touly gives his testimony of his life before Ralph. Touly take us on the journey of how trying to do the right thing can go so wrong. How not staying true to yourself, listening to loved one, and taking time for yourself can end very badly for all parties involved. Touly tells of the lessons he has learned and in hopes that hearings his story, you too will not go down the same path he did. if you aren't already, follow us on @inthetrenchespodcast on IG

The episodes comes to an end with Ralph telling us how at the end of it all, he wouldn't change anything if he had to do it over again. That anyone in his position, wanting to get married but its been a long road, get to really know self. You may feel like damaged good, but the dented cans get bought too. Don't focus on being damaged, but being better.   Hope you enjoyed this episode, please share, rate, subscribe and comment. We love hearing from you all, so connect via all our platforms. Until next time...See you tomorrow!

Jumping into the Trenches with the Toulons is special guest and father, Ralph. Yes big Ralph, lol. Part 1 of this episode, Big Ralph talks about what it was like dating while being a basketball player, musician, and dj, outlook on dating then and the start of having children. Stay tuned to see if the party is really over in part 2

Jumping into the Trenches with the Toulons this week is married therapists, Dr. Jameson Mercier and Herdyne Mercier. Together 15years and married 12, these two are making it a point to help you grow. You will hear their journey to the jumping the broom, starting Mercier Wellness and Consulting, and their branding.  You can find them at: Podcast - The Couples Counsel on all podcast platforms website -http://mercierwellness.com facebook - https://www.facebook.com/DrJamesonMercier Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCMwNs4gy3jW-t6hCX58De_w Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dr.jamesonmercier/ https://www.instagram.com/thewifementor/ https://www.instagram.com/manfident/ 

This episode, we have another author joining us in the trenches by the name of Sean L Brereton. Sean is a christian author that writes about relationships, dating, and preparing yourself for marriage. His background makes him an ideal person to have in the trenches. Sean talks to us about how one really bad break up lead him to write one of his books. He discusses how he began backsliding when it came to courting. He also explains how he recovered from that situation in order to prepare for his engagement & soon to be marriage.   You can find Sean here: instagram: @seanlbrereton and @whateverywomanneedstoknow. facebook : facebook.com/SeanLBrereton and facebook.com/WhatEveryWomanNeedstoKnow Books:  www.slbbooks.bigcartel.com

The Toulons welcome Jamie, Ashley and Olivia into the Trenches with them this week. The three women kept it real and didn't hold anything back. The ladies gave their perspective on growth from past relationships, views on marriage and of course sex.  If you like this episode, please share and subscribe to the show on all podcast platforms.

Jumping into the trenches with the Toulons this week with the owner of "HerPleasure" Shop, an online sex toy line, Mrs. Iyana M. Mrs. Iyana is letting the men and especially the women know that its okay to brings toys into the bedroom. She enlightens us on some of the sex toys in her line, good ways to approach bringing toys into the bedroom and also shares her personal experiences with sex toys. Married or single, at the end of the day, you need to be satisfied! If you aren't comfortable telling your partner or spouse what you want/need, then what are you doing with them?? You can check out herpleasure at: Instagram - @herpleasureshop Website - https://herpleasureshop.myshopify.com

In this episode, the Toulons have Kenya and Carl Stevens of JuJu Mama, LLC joining them. The Stevens shared their journey going from monogamy, to poly, to open-relating. They discuss how they have built an empire on helping other couples get what they really want out of their relationships. This power couple may have you second guessing if the shackles of monogamy is really for you. Please check them and their love academy out: jla.jujumama.com facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kenya.stevens/ https://www.facebook.com/rakhem/  https://www.facebook.com/ProgressiveLoveAcademy/ instagram: @jujumama & @rahkemseku  

Jumping into the Trenches with the Toulons this week is recording artist, Suzann Christine. Suzann takes us on a journey to what dating has been like in the industry for her, love lessons, breaking ties to heal and leaves us with a little advice for our single friends who feel it should be them NOW!! Please check out and support Suzann Christine newest single, "Fallen Tears". Snippets of the song were played in this episode but you can listen to the full length on Apple Music, Spotify, Stitcher, Tidal, SoundCloud, GooglePlay, Amazon Music, Apple Itunes and Youtube. Follow her on instagram @SuzannChristine

This episode we have fellow podcaster, Jerry Thompson jumping into the Trenches with us. Jerry shares  communication, ambition, and a little dominance can take you a long way in his book. We even get a little dirty and find out the best place he has ever had sex. Check Jerry and his podcast out: IG @Jerry_the3rd Podcast IG @pointnoirshow ---->Every Tuesday and podcast platforms iTunes, Stitcher, GooglePlay, & Spotify.

We continue with "Men speak out Mondays" with Stan and Tee. We get down and dirty in the Trenches about what men think and want from females. You can check these guys out here! Tee - @TechnicallyTee on YouTube, IG and Twitter Stan - www.gobloom.com and @Stangotdamn on IG

The Toulons sit down with Author, Ariston Teleo to discuss his book "SHE CANT HANDLE THE TRUTH....But its all I can give. The questions women wanted answered and Im not holding back". The Toulons went into deep discuss on some chapters in the book to pick Ariston's brain to get more explanation on why the chapter and reasoning for what he said. You can connect with Ariston here: @KC_Aaron32 on instagram www.artisonteleo.com Book:https://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_sb_noss_1?url=search-alias%3Daps&field-keywords=ariston+teleo  

Happy New Year to everyone!!! Starting off 2019, The Toulons took a topic from an article, where Nikki Marinis talked about "healthy relationships" for the new year. In this conversation, the Toulons realize that still focusing on what you can change is#1 and communication. Enjoy and don't forget to subscribe if haven't already. Check us out @socialbutterflyphotobooth on ig

In the final episode with Evan, he rehashed how the divorce with his 2nd wife got ugly, petty, and how going back to jail was starting to look good again. Evan admits that in all his truths he isn't pointing the finger at any one person, because he too has played much of a part in the downfall of his marriages. Evan hopes that people will learn how to ask the right questions before getting married, in hopes to have the potential person reveal them true selves. Everyone be safe during this holiday season, please no drinking and driving. Don't forget to subscribe, rate and comment and will be see you on the other side of 2019. So until January 7th, See you tomorrow!!!!  

Evan continues his journey in the trenches, as he tells us how the first marriage comes to an end. Evan is no longer the boy trying to figure it all out, become a man and be the family man. Evan is now the man and the family man but no longer in a marriage where he felt he had to be.  Please remember to subscribe, rate, and comment. Follow us on instagram @inthetrenchespodcast

Join us on this three episode journey as we sit down with Evan, Touly's father. Evan gives his side of what it was like transitioning roles quickly in his personal life and career. The impact of the first and second marriage on him and what it is to date now. Hope you enjoy this episode, please tell a friend and subscribe - to never miss an opportunity to jump into the trenches with the Toulo

This episode, Touly talks about how NOT talking about personal issues causes MORE problems than none. Why he didn't want to share his personal feelings with Ralph, things taught growing up as to how men operate, and incorporating what he knows now into his marriage. Please share if you like what you hear, subscribe, rate and comments. We welcome all feedback, so hit us up at trenchespodcast@gmail.com