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With the years gone by,I have found thatmore and more people that I methave different views from mine.随着一年一年过去我发现我和越来越多的人观点不同Sometimes I couldn't even use the word 'different' to describe this, because our views were almost conflicting. 有时候甚至已经不能用“不同”来形容而是“针锋相对”In the past,I used to tend to argue with people like this. I always wanted to persuade them all and make them accept my view while admitting that they themselves were wrong.在以前我倾向于和所有这样的人进行争辩总是希望能在最终说服他们所有人让他们接受我的观点并承认他们自己是错误的But as time passed by I gradually came to realize that what I had been doing might be not right.但是后来我发现这么做本身似乎就是错的Every person has different experience.And our views are extracted from our own experiences.每个人的经历都是不一样的，而我们的观点正是自己经历的浓缩。There are too much subjective things in these views.And we think there's no need to question these beliefs.这里面有太多主观的东西有些东西在我们自己看来简直毋庸置疑But when you ask yourself"Why are these beliefs right?"但是，当你问自己“这些观点为什么是对的?”The only answer you can give yourself may just be "Because they are just right."你所能给出的回答很可能