Marriage Radio: Helping Your Marriage

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!This episode was taken from our 2nd Annual Very Merry Marriage Helper Christmas.Merry Christmas from all of us at Marriage Helper. We hope you leave with a little more hope after listening to this episode ❤️

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!What are the most important things to look for when searching for marriage help? Is it experience? Good reviews? A high success rate? The answer is yes… to ALL of those things.But success rate is a more nuanced metric. HOW the success rate is calculated matters just as much as the actual success rate, and that’s what we talk about on today’s episode.In this episode, Kimberly is joined by Dr. John Hill, Director of Research at Marriage Helper. Dr. Hill and Kimberly break down Marriage Helper’s success rate over the years, the process behind the research, and the CURRENT success rate and the research being actively conducted to determine it.You don’t want to miss this episode.

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!What if the secrets we hold closest are the ones that weigh us down the most? Join us for a powerful conversation with Ren Bester from South Africa as we unravel the intricate emotions of guilt, shame, and regret within the context of marriage and personal actions. Ren's journey of overcoming these burdens, especially given his religious upbringing and the pressure of performance-based acceptance, offers profound insights. Together, we navigate the delicate balance between acknowledging wrongdoing and the deeper self-condemnation that can accompany it. Ren's candid recounting of his struggles underscores the transformative power of confession, forgiveness, and faith, showcasing how embracing spiritual practices can renew the mind and offer emotional release.Ren's story doesn't stop at recognition—it's about redemption. By embracing the grace of salvation, Ren found a way to cleanse his past and alleviate the weight of guilt, despite skepticism from th

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!Is it possible to be in love with two people at once?

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!What happens when you're deeply in love with someone who isn't your spouse? Join Dr. Joe Beam, as we explore this emotional maze with Ren, who bravely shares his journey of multiple affairs and the overpowering grip of limerence. Together, we navigate the complex emotions tied to being infatuated with another person, and how Ren, with the help of Marriage Helper and his extraordinary wife, found a path back to rebuilding their marriage. This episode sheds light on the importance of shared values in sustaining relationships, even when faced with the fallout of infidelity.Want to have the proven, practical steps to save your marriage?Click here to sign up for our Save My Marriage Membership today!

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!What if the key to a thriving marriage lies in understanding sexual dynamics? Join me, Dr. Joe Beam, as we unravel the mysteries of sexual compatibility in marriage. Together, we'll navigate the often turbulent waters of varying libidos, preferences, and the external pressures that can cause friction between spouses. Through real-life stories and my own insights, you'll discover how these issues left unaddressed can evolve into serious marital challenges, highlighting the necessity of open communication and resolution for a fulfilling partnership.Explore the powerful influence of sexual education on your perceptions and expectations. From formal classroom settings to the often unreliable information shared among peers, our sexual education shapes us in profound ways. I'll shed light on the media's role, especially internet pornography, in distorting sexual schemas and relationship expectations. By acknowledging the impact of misinformation and unrealistic

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!In this powerful episode of our ongoing series on managing life’s disagreements, we dive deep into one of the most challenging topics for couples: parenting disagreements. Joined by expert guest David Mathews, we explore effective strategies for disciplining children, understanding each other’s perspectives, and fostering marital intimacy through these challenges.Parenting isn’t easy, and disagreements on how to discipline children can strain even the strongest marriages. In this discussion, we shed light on common disciplinary conflicts and share personal anecdotes that emphasize the importance of unity and mutual respect. Whether it’s dealing with the consequences of differing upbringing styles or navigating the complexities of co-parenting, this video provides valuable insights and actionable advice for all parents facing similar struggles.Key Highlights:•Understanding why parents disagree on child discipline and how to address it.•The impact of personal histories on paren

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!What if navigating religious differences could actually strengthen your marriage? Join us as we explore this idea with David Mathews, a workshop facilitator here at Marriage Helper. We promise insights into the complexities of religious disagreements and how they intertwine with respect, control, and open communication. Drawing on real-life stories, we uncover the core issues that can arise and how addressing them can transform your relationship, emphasizing the importance of mutual understanding and acceptance.This episode sheds light on creating a safe space for dialogue, even when unresolved personal traumas complicate religious conflicts. We discuss a couple's journey through a Marriage Helper workshop, where they discovered that issues beyond faith were affecting their relationship. The power of addressing and accepting these differences is highlighted as a tool for building stronger marriages. As we conclude with thoughts on parenting disagreements and the potentia

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!In this video, we talk about how to stay calm and kind when you and someone you care about don’t agree on politics. It’s the first video in a series where we look at big topics that often start arguments, like politics, religion, how we handle money, and how to raise kids.Nowadays, politics can make people very upset, even with their families or friends. Some folks even wish others who disagree with them weren’t around, which is really sad. But in our video, Meredith Ball, a wise coach, teaches us how to talk about politics without getting angry or hurting our relationships.Meredith shows us:1.How to have peaceful talks about politics.2.How to listen and understand why someone believes different things.3.How to grow and change together, even when you disagree.Click to watch and find out how to keep your marriage strong, even when you disagree. Don’t forget to subscribe for more great tips on how to handle disagreements with care.Want to have the proven, practical steps to sav

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!Unlock the secrets of navigating the intricate web of limerence with insights from Coach Jared, Membership Fulfillment Manager at Marriage Helper. Imagine the subtlety of a simple compliment spiraling into something more consuming; that's where Jared takes us. In this episode, he reveals the often unnoticed progression from casual interactions to a deeper, concealed connection. Jared's compelling narrative illustrates how easily one can slip into limerence without realizing it, and the potential emotional entanglement it brings. You won't just understand the theory; you'll witness its unfolding through an engaging story that highlights the thin line between innocent admiration and emotional captivity.As the episode unfolds, Jared provides invaluable guidance on recognizing and addressing the warning signs before they escalate. With vivid examples, listeners gain a firsthand perspective on how small actions can lead to significant emotional consequences. By

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!Join us as we tackle one of the toughest challenges a couple can face: rebuilding intimacy after infidelity. We explore the concept of creating "Marriage 2.0," discussing how it involves holding onto the good while addressing the issues that led to betrayal. Open communication and intentional actions are emphasized as vital steps in regaining trust and forming a stronger marital bond.Looking to transform your marriage and life? Our transformative Marriage Workshop for Couples offers insights into vital topics like communication, forgiveness, and attachment theory. With a 70% success rate over 25 years, this workshop provides new perspectives and actionable strategies in a safe and respectful environment. Whether you're navigating past pain or aiming to improve your relationship dynamics, our workshop offers tools to create lasting change. Discover why many attendees wish they had known these techniques before tying the knot.Want to have the proven, practical st

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!What if the secret to a thriving marriage isn't in finding the perfect partner, but in standing firm when the storm hits? Coach Jared from Marriage Helper shares his transformative journey from nearly walking away from his marital vows to discovering the profound rewards of unwavering commitment. You'll hear Jared’s compelling personal story of how he and his wife turned potential heartbreak into a flourishing relationship. This episode dives into the real, often overlooked value of sticking to your promises when everyone else might advise you to give up. Join us as Jared challenges the notion that relationships are disposable and unearths the potential for reconciliation and personal growth amidst marital struggles. He offers heartfelt insights into how perseverance, even when it seems most difficult, can lead to significant positive changes for you and your loved ones. Whether you're dealing with trust issues, family conflicts, or societal pressures, find out

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!What happens when the person you vowed to spend your life with seems to hate you? Joining us on today's episode is Roald Gerber, Marriage Helper's Workshop Fulfillment Manager, who sheds light on this challenging scenario. Unravel the misconceptions tying hate to love and indifference, and gain practical advice on mental resilience and understanding your spouse's perspective. We address a listener's poignant question about coping with a spouse's expressed hatred, offering actionable steps to transform negative emotions into positive connections and reduce tension in the relationship.If you would like to submit questions to be featured on Relationship Radio, click here!Want to have the proven, practical steps to save your marriage?Click here to sign up for our Save My Marriage Membership today!

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!What do you do when your spouse drops the bombshell that they want out of the marriage? Take a deep breath and join Coach Jared, Marriage Helper’s membership fulfillment manager, as he shares his own journey through this painful revelation and guides you through five vital steps to handle this emotional whirlwind. Jared's advice is grounded in personal experience, emphasizing the necessity of staying calm, genuinely understanding your spouse's perspective, and focusing on personal growth. He encourages you to become an attractive force through calmness, gentleness, and acceptance, avoiding the pitfalls of guilt-tripping behaviors that can push your spouse further away.Through Jared's candid storytelling and practical tips, you'll learn how to navigate this crisis with wisdom. Discover the importance of listening to your spouse without immediately offering solutions, and the power of working on your physical, intellectual, emotional, and spiritual attractiv

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!Can a perfect marriage ever truly exist, or is it just a figment of our media-influenced imagination? Coach Jared from Marriage Helper is here to challenge our conventional beliefs and offers a fresh, more attainable perspective on what makes a marriage truly fulfilling. In this episode, we dissect how media shapes our unrealistic expectations and why striving for perfection might be hindering your relationship's potential. By embracing the inherent imperfections in each other, we cultivate an environment ripe for deeper love, patience, and understanding. Join Coach Jared as he draws from personal experiences and practical advice to help you navigate the complexities of marital expectations. Learn how to communicate effectively and support each other's growth without falling into the trap of idealized perfection. Discover how to transform your relationship into a meaningful journey where imperfections are celebrated as opportunities for growth, making your marriage

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!How do you find the balance between being assertive and being a loving husband without being labeled a jerk or a doormat? Join Coach Jared on this episode of Marriage Helper as he offers practical tips and heartfelt advice on becoming the husband your spouse has always dreamed of. Jared dives deep into the art of active listening, showing appreciation, and the importance of spending quantity time with your wife. Learn why those seemingly mundane moments are vital for building emotional intimacy and strengthening your relationship. But that's not all. Jared introduces the transformative concept of "pies" – focusing on Physical, Intellectual, Emotional, and Spiritual growth – to help you become not just a better husband, but a better you. From hitting the gym and meditating to picking up new hobbies and engaging in activities with a glad heart, discover how these small yet impactful changes can enhance your personal growth and make you more attractive. Don’t miss

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!Could your partner's new friendship be crossing the line? Join us as Coach Jared from Marriage Helper sheds light on recognizing the subtle but powerful signs of an emotional affair. From increased privacy and unexplained defensiveness to growing emotional distance, discover the key behaviors that might indicate your partner is seeking emotional fulfillment elsewhere. Coach Jared introduces the intriguing concept of "the wall and the bricks," revealing how vulnerability can pave the way from harmless friendship to emotional intimacy.Stay calm and proactive as we explore practical steps to address these concerns without panic. Through self-improvement and open communication, learn how to navigate these challenging situations constructively. With Marriage Helper's expert guidance, uncover how recognizing the problem is just the beginning and find out the best ways to support your relationship in times of emotional uncertainty. Don't miss this comprehens

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!In this powerful and personal story, Coach Jared shares his journey from a place of deep unhappiness and hopelessness in his marriage to finding hope and healing with Marriage Helper. As the Membership Fulfillment Manager and a seasoned coach with over 10,000 hours of experience, Jared has helped thousands of couples navigate the complex challenges of marriage. But before all of that, he was a spouse who wanted out, convinced that the grass was greener elsewhere.Jared opens up about the struggles he and his wife faced—stemming from their unique backgrounds and personal baggage—and how these issues caused a recurring cycle of conflict and disconnection in their marriage. At his lowest point, Jared was ready to end it all. However, a chance encounter with a Marriage Helper article changed the course of his life. Through this video, Jared details his transformation: from a resentful husband sneaking out at night, to a man who discovered the power of vulnerability, emotional safe

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!It’s one of the most terrifying and confusing experiences in a marriage—suspecting that your spouse might be cheating, but not having enough evidence to be sure. In this video, Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Holmes from Marriage Helper present a practical “RD MAP” that helps you assess the likelihood of infidelity in your relationship. Each letter in “RD MAP” stands for a specific set of behaviors or changes that may indicate a problem: Respond, Different treatment, Missing elements, Altered patterns, and Protected items. However, it’s crucial to remember that these signs are not definitive proof of an affair. They are merely indicators that something may be off, prompting you to dig deeper and possibly have a crucial conversation with your spouse.Whether you’re facing suspicions of infidelity or dealing with shifts in your marriage that you can’t quite put your finger on, this roadmap can guide you toward clarity. But before taking drastic measures like hiring a private investiga

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!Can a marriage survive the weight of depression? Join us in this eye-opening episode of Relationship Radio as we tackle this pressing question and guide you through the labyrinth of depression within a marriage in crisis. We break down major depressive disorder, its symptoms, and the PHQ-9 screening tool to help you understand the profound impact depression can have on both individuals and their relationships. We explore how biochemical imbalances and external stressors like infidelity can exacerbate the situation, reinforcing the importance of seeking professional help.Moreover, we offer a lifeline of hope and practical solutions to reclaim your mental health and strengthen your marriage. We discuss a range of treatment options including medication, cognitive behavioral therapy, and even innovative methods like magnetic therapy. We share promising insights on the effectiveness of these treatments, especially magnetic therapy, urging listeners to take proactive measures. This