Triflin But True

WARNING!: This episode may sound a hot mess cause...well, we were! Sick and discombobulated but it’s triflin but true so what y’all expect?

The ladies, along with special guest Julia Shardae from Trend Influx, dive into colorism on this week’s episode. They each give their own personal experiences of colorism, the role it’s played in their lives and colorism within the media.   This week’s crush was a little different

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Hey TBT gang! Merry Christmas and Happy New Year! We are back with another episode all about the holiday season and we're sharing a few of our new year resolutions. We hope you all enjoy this episode because we will be on a short 2 week break to focus on revamping the show. Before you all throw a fit, be on the look out for new video content dropping during our break. We are cooking up some dope ideas for you guys and we can't wait to come back in 2020 better than ever! Thank you from the bottom of our hearts for your continued love and support! TBT would not be what it is without you all! Enjoy the holidays and we'll be back in 2020!! Our crush this week goes to an old friend of Jade's, Paula! She is the ownder of 'The Melanated Bar', a TRULY natural skincare line for both women and men. She provides everything from clay masks, facial serum, beard oil, massage oil....and the list goes on! The Melanated Bar is dedicated to self-love, self-care and self-awareness. If you're in the market to buy a birthday, ann

Have you wondered if numbers hold meaning? This week the ladies continue their spiritual episodes and dive into the art of numerology! Numbers play a significant role in your genetic makeup and how you exist in the world. Be sure to check out our astrology and spirituality episodes!    This week's crush goes to this amazingly talented man, aka Lori's cousin, CJ! He is the owner of Beautiful Tree Woodworks Custom Furniture and Cabinets! It's refreshing to know there are still people that love to create custom furniture that will last a life time! He builds custom cabinets, entertainment centers, tables, doors, wine racks, etc. Anything you can dream of he can create! Check him out on instagram @tallcj84_ or find him on Facebook at Beautiful Tree Woodworks! I promise you will want him to bring your next project to life!    Tune into our “Crush of the Week” segment this week! If you got something on your chest...let it off by submitting a “sis/bro, send help” to triflinbuttrue@gmail.com.   YouTube channel @trifl

This week's discussion is all about how to build and maintain boundaries for yourself and in relationships. They share stories on how they've personally been crossed and crossed other's boundaries. Tune in to hear more...!  Tune into our “Crush of the Week” segment this week! If you got something on your chest...let it off by submitting a “sis/bro, send help” to triflinbuttrue@gmail.com. YouTube channel @triflinbuttrue for our vlogs, mukbangs and additional behind the scenes footage! Follow us on Instagram @triflinbuttrue and let’s discuss this week’s episode! Are you loving the hosts? Follow their personal Instagram pages: @justjadealexis @realasiamonique @iamloreal For all business inquiries please contact us at triflinbuttrue@gmail.com and let’s work!

In lieu of Thanksgiving, the ladies decided to share some of their own personal “do’s and don’ts” for Thanksgiving, family traditions and things that they’re grateful for. From the Triflin But True crew, we’d like to thank all of our listeners who continue to support our crazy asses week by week!! We hope that you enjoy time with your family and continue to be grateful! This week’s crush goes to a good friend of ours, Deshon ‘Dapper’ Dixon! Deshon is a men’s fashion consultant who’s wardrobe game is A1! ☝

This week’s conversation gets real. Listen to the ladies of TBT as they discuss the ideology behind consent, societies views on rape, sexual harassment and of course...the ‘Me Too’ movement. Does “no” really mean “no”? Tune in NOW! This week’s crush goes to a woman we truly admire! You may know her on instagram as @englewoodbarbie! She is best known for doing God’s work by feeding the less fortunate people of Chicago! Now that winter is here and temperatures are dropping, she is peacefully protesting for the rights of our people who don’t have a voice by sleeping outside. In Chicago, police stations can be used as warming centers for the homeless, however, the police have been thumbing their nose to the law and denying them access. After 7 days of protesting, the Mayor of Chicago finally agreed to a meeting with her! The fight for our people isn’t over but it’s a step in the right direction! Thank you for truly putting God and his work first to help those that cannot help themselves! You truly are a blessing

In today’s society filled with social media and entertainment, it’s common to feel insecure or anxious about what other people think of you. So this week’s episode is all about social anxiety a.k.a social phobia. We discuss what social anxiety is, how you know you have it, and some methods for coping. Tune in to hear more... CRUSH OF THE WEEK ALERT

Does having kids truly make or break your life? This week the ladies give their own personal perspectives about what life is currently like without kids, societal expectations forced on women to procreate, whether we want to have kids of our own and much more! This week’s crush goes to...Kimmy A.K.A @young_bougie! She is a licensed esthetician in the Chicagoland area with her own business, Golden Bombshell, specializing in making women feel beautiful! Her services range from makeup artistry, body waxing, facial treatments and vaginal steaming. Check out her IG @@gbaestheticsllc and website, www.goldenbombshell.com, to book your appointment today! If you’re lucky enough to be located in the Chicagoland area, she also has store space at 1515 N Harlem Ave, Oak Park, IL to get your ‘girl’ right in time for the holidays!

This week we talk about if there is a difference between religion and spirituality, what our opinions are, our spiritual journeys and....you know we had to include Kanye in the mix. Let us know what you think about this episode triflinbuttrue@gmail.com! In honor of his first solo exhibit, this week’s crush goes to another talented black artist by the name of Felix Barnes! He considers himself a God taught visual artist and we absolutely agree! His paintings overflow with vibrant colors and impeccable detail. If you're an art enthusiast and are interested in some amazing pieces, please check Felix out on Instagram @creationsbyfb! Tune into our “Crush of the Week” segment this week! If you got something on your chest...let it off by submitting a “sis/bro, send help” to triflinbuttrue@gmail.com. YouTube channel @triflinbuttrue for our vlogs, mukbangs and additional behind the scenes footage! Follow us on Instagram @triflinbuttrue and let’s discuss this week’s episode! Are you loving the hosts? Follow their perso

This week the ladies go on a trip down memory lane as they discuss Homecoming weekend in college! They share stories about crackin ass parties, Greek Row, late night ride and of course...their infamous drunk stories. Tune in to hear more!

We would!! This week we discuss the pros and cons of dating ourselves. We get REAL personal about the issues that we are working on within our current relationships. To hear more... Tune into our “Crush of the Week” segment this week! If you got something on your chest...let it off by submitting a “sis/bro, send help” to triflinbuttrue@gmail.com. YouTube channel @triflinbuttrue for our vlogs, mukbangs and additional behind the scenes footage! Follow us on Instagram @triflinbuttrue and let’s discuss this week’s episode! Are you loving the hosts? Follow their personal Instagram pages: @justjadealexis @realasiamonique @iamloreal For all business inquiries please contact us at triflinbuttrue@gmail.com and let’s work!

“Meet me at the alter in your white dress”, or whatever Jagged Edge said! This week the ladies share their opinions on getting married and ring size...of course! They discuss everything from public vs private proposals to family disapprovals. How do you know when you’re ready to tie the knot? Listen in to hear more! Tune into our “Crush of the Week” segment this week! If you got something on your chest...let it off by submitting a “sis/bro, send help” to triflinbuttrue@gmail.com. This week’s crush goes to the amazingly talented @l_hommedejus

The season we’ve all been waiting for is amongst us ladies and gents! Hope you enjoyed your hot girl/city boy summer cause now it’s all about staying in and cuddling up with the MVP of your choosing. Yeah, we said it...MVP. Listen to this week’s episode to find out more! This week’s crush is going to the beautiful @jasthorn24! She is another personal fitness girl boss

How much is too much when it comes to disciplining your children? This week, the ladies discuss their views on whooping children, when it’s not appropriate to whoop your child and how lines can easily be crossed to establish dominance. Tune in and give your thoughts! Tune into our “Crush of the Week” segment this week! If you got something on your chest...let it off by submitting a “sis/bro, send help” to triflinbuttrue@gmail.com. (COTW) YouTube channel @triflinbuttrue for our vlogs, mukbangs and additional behind the scenes footage! Follow us on Instagram @triflinbuttrue and let’s discuss this week’s episode! Asia is now a certified reiki practitioner in the Chicago land area. If you are interested in booking a session with her or would like more info email her at infinitepowerreiki@gmail.com Are you loving the hosts? Follow their personal Instagram pages: @justjadealexis @realasiamonique @iamloreal   For all business inquiries please contact us at triflinbuttrue@gmail.com and let’s work!  

Dating Men with Kids.......Whew!! Ghetto AF! Dont Do it!! Haha.....In this episode we pretty much break down our experiences dating men with children and dealing with the extra drama and unnecessariness from their Baby Mama's. We also discuss our boundaries and how much we are willing to deal with when it comes to these situations. Tune into our “Crush of the Week” segment this week! If you got something on your chest...let it off by submitting a “sis/bro, send help” to triflinbuttrue@gmail.com. Asia’s COTW!! This week’s crush goes to my amazingly talented brother Jac aka @conspiracynix! My brother is dope at making beats so all you singers and rappers out there hit him up! He dropped a fire

Do public displays of affection make you uncomfortable? This week the ladies share their opinions on when PDA is TEW MUCH. They discuss what is considered “appropriate” and “inappropriate” plus they share their own personal experiences with PDA in public. Tune into our “Crush of the Week” segment this week! If you got something on your chest...let it off by submitting a “sis/bro, send help” to triflinbuttrue@gmail.com. The crush for this week is going to an old time friend, @bianca_pastel. Shorty is cooler than the other side of the pillow

Are you into dating older or younger? What is considered too large of an age gap? In this week’s episode we discuss our personal preferences and experiences dating younger and older men! Tune into our “Crush of the Week” segment this week! If you got something on your chest...let it off by submitting a “sis/bro, send help” to triflinbuttrue@gmail.com. CRUSH OF THE WEEK ALERT

Soooo do we go together or nah..... On this episode we talk about "The Talking Stage" and where you stand or should stand when it comes to dating. Everyone has been in the talking stage before unclear on where they stand in the situation and we are here to let you know, You are not alone.   Tune into our “Crush of the Week” segment this week! If you got something on your chest...let it off by submitting a “sis/bro, send help” to triflinbuttrue@gmail.com. This week’s crush is someone very special and near and dear to our hearts! ☺️Chicago born and raised (apparently he bleeds mild sauce