Marriage Radio: Helping Your Marriage

Live Caller Q&A With Dr. Joe Beam & Kimberly Holmes. In this podcast, Dr. Joe Beam & Kimberly Holmes address these questions:"How do I stand for my marriage as the wayward spouse?""My spouse and I are separated. What are some things to talk about to help foster communication between us?""How can I be honest about my affair when I'm being villified?""Am I am fool for wanting to be with my cheating spouse?""Is starting the divorce process a PUSH behavior?""My wife wants to live with us and her affair partner! What should I do?""How do I make healthy boundaries?""How long do I wait for my husband to leave his affair partner after we just divorced?"

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On today's live show, Dr. Joe Beam speaks with callers about the following questions: “My husband told me he has an emotional block against me, and he does not have interest in saving the marriage and wants a divorce. I just found out I have cancer, and I want him to leave the house while I deal with getting better. Is there anything I can do to help him overcome the emotional block? If I ask him to leave, am I giving up any chance of saving the marriage?”“My wife is considering coming back, but she does not want to just come back because it is comfortable. How can I be patient while waiting for her to decide?”“My wife told me she is done. I am making trip to visit her for my son’s graduation (which is also her birthday and our anniversary). I am wanting to give her a gift. Is it ok to give her a present?”“My wife has had two affairs in the past three years. We have four children together. How can I save the marriage?”

On today's live show, Dr. Joe Beam speaks with callers about the following questions: “Married for 41 years. ography use throughout marriage. Wife left unexpectedly. How do I save my marriage?”“My husband and I have been married for 6 years. Husband ‘can’t live this way anymore.’ I have confidence our relationship work, but he is not sure that he wants it to. How do I get past the strong emotions to do the things I need to do?”“I found out a year ago my wife had been in an affair for 18 months. We still live together. She has filed for divorce, but she is not actively moving forward with it. Is it smart for me to require coaching as criteria if we are going to stay together?”“My husband is having an affair with his coworker. He agreed he would not introduce children to affair partner. He wants our kids to meet her kids at work picnic. How do I talk to him about this without pushing?”“Wife had affair. I am moving 800 miles away for a job. What can I do from that far away to show her I still want her to be

Marriage Helper LIVE

Marriage Helper LIVE

On today's live show, Dr. Joe Beam speaks with callers about the following questions: “My wife left me for our children’s music teacher. She is in another country. She is vilifying me. How do I save my marriage?”“Coming out of the end of a midlife crisis with limerence involved. How do I save my marriage?”“My husband of 25 years left me. He filed for legal separation. Is intervention a good option to bring him to talk?”“My husband had an affair after being married for 28 years. We haven’t talked in a long time. I want to share my heart. What do I do?”“My wife left me for my best friend after 8 years of marriage. Would you suggest that I stay in SMART contact or interfere with SMART contact to try to get her to attend the workshop?”“My husband is having an emotional affair with a coworker. He is confused on what to do. What should I do?”You’ll also hear about:SMART ContactPush behaviors

On today's live show, Dr. Joe Beam speaks with callers about the following questions: “What is the success rate for the workshop?”“How do I navigate SMART contact with my husband and know when it is time to talk about our relationship?”“How can I increase my communication with my husband as he does not talk to me? He just wants the marriage to be over.”“I have been separated from my wife for about two months. Since we’ve been separated, she says I haven’t showed her any reasons to fight for the marriage. How do I show her I want to save the marriage?”“Separated for a year. I feel like all hope is lost. 9 year old child is involved. I don’t know what to do anymore.”“Problematic marriage. Go through periods of being separated and being together. We have a lack of intimacy and connection. How do I break down that wall?”“Basically roommates with my spouse. I am sleeping in the living room. I’m working on my PIES. How do I put my marriage back together?” 

Marriage Helper Live

Marriage Helper LIVE

On today's live show, Dr. Joe Beam speaks with callers about the following questions: “My husband had an affair, but wants to end it and come back home. He is afraid that his affair partner will harm herself if he leaves her. How do I help him navigate that?”“His family invited me to celebrate Easter with them, but other people are telling me I shouldn’t go. What should I do?”“My wife and I got in an argument, and she told me she is done. We’re still living in the same house. I don’t know what to do.”“I found my wife texting another man, and I told her to get out. She told me she wants a divorce. She says she misses me, but she is dating other men. She wants us to sell our house. What can I do to have her take a second to think about her decision?”“My wife is with another person, and he is trying to make himself a father figure to our children after only two months. Should I expect this to be a temporary phase, or should I be concerned that this person is going to be the step-father of my children?”“My h

On today's live show, Dr. Joe Beam speaks with callers about the following questions: “My husband wants to move back in part time, but he doesn’t seem committed. If he’s not committed, I don’t know if I show let him move back in. Do you think I should let him move back in part time?”“My wife said she was adamant about wanting a divorce, but it has been 6 months without her acting on it. I want to give her a timeline of when she needs to make a decision by. How long should I give her to decide?”“My wife and I are separated, but we are starting to hang out a lot. She recently told me she never sees us getting back together. What can I do to positively influence my situation?”“My wife agreed to work on our relationship, but a week later she told me she wants a divorce. She keeps changing her mind. I’m really confused, and I don’t know what to do.”“I jumped into the relationship with my current husband quickly after ending my relationship with my ex-husband. He treats me well, but I don’t have the feelings f

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On today's episode of Marriage Helper Live, Dr. Joe Beam responds to:"My wife filed for divorce. What I've learned through Marriage Helper is to try to extend the divorce time to give it time to calm down, so I responded that 'I didn't think the marriage was broken' and it infuriated her. How do I respond now?""My family friend has had an on and off affair with my husband for 7 years. Is this limerence?""How do I reconnect with my wife to get her to see that there's hope & change that can happen?""My wife and I are separated because she is having an affair. She is vilifying me, and telling me we have nothing in common. I don’t know what to do.”“My husband and I have been divorced for 8 months. Our relationship has gotten better, but his relationship with the other woman is still ongoing. He wants the other woman to be part of our children’s lives, but he has not told them the truth about what happened. Is it wrong for me to set a boundary an

On today's episode of Marriage Helper Live, Dr. Joe Beam responds to:"My wife filed for divorce. What I've learned through Marriage Helper is to try to extend the divorce time to give it time to calm down, so I responded that 'I didn't think the marriage was broken' and it infuriated her. How do I respond now?""My family friend has had an on and off affair with my husband for 7 years. Is this limerence?""How do I reconnect with my wife to get her to see that there's hope & change that can happen?"" You'll also hear:When we suggest dragging out the divorce is when the other person feels like they are "madly-in-love" with someone else. And if dragging out the divorce makes things worse- we may not suggest it if you're viewed as controlling.Demonstrate without pointing out/telling what you're doing and how you're changingThe valley

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On today's live show, Dr. Joe Beam speaks with callers about the following questions: "My husband had an affair and says he's in love with the other woman. Does he have a "love addiction" or is it limerence?""Have you worked with couples who have dealt with abusive behavior? Especially if the abuser won't take responsibility for his actions?""My mother-in-law contacted me saying that my husband wants her to be my point of contact with him. Should I use this as an opportunity to minister to her- or should I keep my boundaries up?" "What Marriage Helper information do you recommend sharing with my attorney?""Is there a strategy to speaking with my wife about the Workshop?""How do I not fall back into old patterns/habits I had previously?""I get more anxious, emotional, and physical in bed the evening and it puts pressure on my wife. Would it be helpful for me to sleep in another bed at night to bring about positive communi

On today's show, Dr. Joe Beam along with Client Representative, Marc Highland discuss the following: "I had an affair and I would like to work with my wife on our marriage. How is it possible to move past my emotional connection to the affair partner?" "My husband wants to work on the marriage, but he's still in deep, emotional limerence with someone across the world. How do I ask him about attending the Workshop without pressuring/manipulating him?""Did I do the wrong thing by confronting my wife about her past affair partner?" You'll also hear aboutThings a person can do in order to get past an affair. The best way to approach your spouse about the workshop.  

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