Father And Joe

Timestamps:00:00 - Introduction00:25 - Setting the context for the episode01:12 - Father's experience in Rome and the purpose of the trip03:45 - Hosting courses in Rome and exploring the city06:20 - Day trips to Subiaco and Assisi, Vatican Museum tour, Mass in Basilicas09:15 - Formation of a diverse and engaged community11:30 - Teaching a graduate-level course on accompaniment15:05 - Exploring the concept of accompaniment and trauma-informed approaches18:45 - Establishing routines and shared experiences in Rome22:10 - Universality of the Catholic faith and its unifying power24:30 - Embracing the journey of faith and the process of perfection in love28:10 - Conclusion and gratitudeTags: Rome travel, Catholic faith, spiritual formation, accompaniment, love and holiness, journey of faith, Catholic community, Rome experiences, Catholic education, graduate-level course, trauma-informed approaches, Saint Peter's Basilica, Vatican Museum tour, Benedictine College, diverse communityDescription: Join Father

In this episode of Father and Joe, Father Boniface Hicks and Joe Rockey delve into the concept of meekness, exploring its true essence and the importance of humility in building better relationships. But just as they're about to uncover the key to embracing meekness, a shocking revelation leaves them questioning everything. Tune in to find out what happens next in this captivating discussion.·          Explore the profound significance of modesty and meekness in Christian teachings, adding a fresh outlook to your spiritual journey. ·          Dive into the multi-faceted world of meekness, helping foster deeper self-awareness, and enriching life experiences. ·          Discover the far-reaching effects of trauma on the individual psyche and the restorative power of healthier relationships. ·          Acknowledge the presence of deep-seated hurt, and come face to face with your limitations, fueling a journey towards wellness. ·          Develop stronger relationships, born from humility and a conducive lea

Father Boniface Hicks delves into the transformative impact of St. Benedict on Western civilization, highlighting his rule's promotion of peace, order, learning, and evangelization. But what happens when chaos overwhelms? Find out how St. Benedict's teachings can guide us through the modern world, leaving us longing for answers.·          Uncover the transformative effect St. Benedict had on Western monasticism and civilization, and how it still resonates today. ·          Find out why St. Benedict's rule for establishing peace & order continues to serve as a beacon in chaotic times. ·          Discover the underestimated power of trust in forging unbreakable relationships, resilient societies, and productive groups. ·          Realize the deep-seated link between freedom, trust, and the allure of a harmonious life. ·          Learn the art of applying St. Benedict's age-old teachings to steer through the turbulence of modern life.  Timestamped summary of this episode: 00:00:00 - Intro

In this episode of Father and Joe, Joe Rockey and Father Boniface Hicks delve into the complexities of relationships and the importance of recognizing blind spots. They explore the role of emotions, the impact of shame, and the need for outside help. But just as they start to uncover valuable insights, a shocking revelation leaves them questioning everything. What will happen next? Tune in to find out.• Gain insights into managing emotions effectively within relationships for deeper connections. • Grasp the significance of defense mechanisms in fostering emotional resilience. • Uncover how the autonomic nervous system directly influences our emotional reactions. • Learn grounding techniques to enhance self-awareness and efficiently regulate emotions. • Discover the importance of identifying and addressing blind spots in relationships for long-term harmony. Timestamped summary of this episode:00:00:00 - Introduction, Joe and Father Boniface continue their conversation on defense mechanisms and emotional streng

Do you desire to connect with others on a deeper level and create genuine relationships? If so, you need to understand the power of love. The ability to manage emotions and communicate effectively is crucial in establishing lasting connections. As a guest, Father Boniface Hicks will share the solution to achieving this result, which is enhancing emotional intelligence. By understanding the significance of love in building relationships and learning how to deescalate situations, you can develop a stronger emotional connection with others. Join us as we explore the importance of love in creating authentic relationships.• Unlock the power of understanding emotions to steer your interactions positively. • Gain insight into accepting emotions as messages, rather than hindrances. • Develop skills to calm heightened emotional states using grounding tactics. • Explore the connection between vulnerability and our protective mechanisms in relationships. • Grasp the essential role of love in establishing authentic conne

Do you ever feel like your relationships could be more fulfilling and positive? Are you looking to improve your connections with others? As young adults, we all crave meaningful relationships but sometimes struggle to navigate them. The good news is that there is a solution. Join us as Father Boniface Hicks shares his insights on self-reflection and growth in relationships. Through his guidance, you will discover how to cultivate deeper connections with others, leading to a more satisfying and enriched life experience. Don't miss out on the opportunity to achieve the harmony and fulfillment we all desire in our relationships.• Unearth the benefits of introspection in enhancing relationship bonds. • Realize the impact of choosing groups with shared values for your personal development. • Explore the art of identifying crucial differences versus trivial disputes in your interactions. • Understand the need for being adaptive and receptive to growth in relationships. • Find the keys to dismantling detrimenta

Father Boniface Hicks found himself lost in the chaos of navigating complex human relationships in an ever-changing world. He discovered that while change is inevitable, we often struggle to accept it and adapt. In the midst of his turbulent times, he found that relationships were the key to providing the much-needed support and stability. Through his podcast, Father and Joe, he shared insights on how to cultivate strong relationships built on courage, justice, prudence, and humility. But then, something unexpected happened. What was it that made Father Hicks realize the importance of cultivating grounded relationships in a rapidly changing world? Stay tuned to find out.• Discover techniques to maintain equilibrium in professional and personal ventures. • Uncover the merits of both cautious and imaginative idea generation for business success. • Grasp the significance of establishing foundations when facing change. • Delve into the impact of strong connections for stability in a dynamic world. • Probe the obs

In this episode of Father and Joe, titled "Life Is Not Static – And Never Can Be," Father and Joe explore the dynamic nature of life and the importance of embracing change and growth. They begin by discussing the concept that life is not static, highlighting that change is an inherent part of the human experience.The conversation then turns to the idea of stepping outside of our comfort zones rather than running away to hide. Father and Joe emphasize the importance of embracing challenges and facing life's uncertainties with courage and resilience.They delve into the topic of emotional self-regulation and share insights on how to cultivate emotional balance and stability in the face of life's ups and downs. They discuss practical strategies for managing emotions, such as mindfulness and seeking support when needed.Father and Joe warn about the potential dangers of running away from life, highlighting the potential for creating a vicious cycle that hinders personal growth and fulfillment. T

In this episode of Father and Joe, titled "How to Engage With People to Create Meaningful Relationships," Father and Joe explore the dynamics of relationships and how we can create meaningful connections with others. They begin by discussing the challenges that arise when we have relationships that others disapprove of, highlighting the importance of discernment and seeking guidance when necessary.The conversation then turns to the superficial reasons people often have for engaging in relationships. Father and Joe emphasize the need to be selective in our relationships and focus on building connections that are based on genuine compatibility and shared values.They discuss the qualities of ideal relationships, emphasizing the importance of trust, mutual respect, and a willingness to push into the unknown together. They also acknowledge that nobody has a perfect decision-making process when it comes to relationships, and it's essential to be open to growth and learning from our experiences.Father

In this episode of Father and Joe, titled "What the Gospels Presume, and Why Some Things Are Revealed," Father and Joe explore the nature of the Gospels and why certain details are included while others are not. They begin by discussing whether Mary was with Jesus throughout His ministry, examining different perspectives on this topic.The conversation then turns to the individuals who accompanied Jesus and helped finance His ministry, shedding light on the various supporters and disciples who played a role in His mission.Father addresses the question of why God doesn't tell us every detail, highlighting the importance of faith and trust in God's plan. He explains that God reveals what is necessary for our salvation and spiritual growth, and that some details are left out to encourage us to seek understanding and engage in intellectual curiosity about the Bible.The episode emphasizes the need to approach reading the Gospels with an open and curious mind. Father and Joe discuss what the Gosp

In this episode of Father and Joe, titled "How Do We Trust In the Faith?", Father and Joe explore the concept of faith and how we can trust in it. They begin by discussing the questions that bring mankind into a belief in God and the importance of being in awe and listening to our conscience.The conversation then turns to the dawn of religion and what gives the most value in life. Father emphasizes the need to participate in the faith and the fruits that come from living it, including going from grief to grace.Joe asks why we should trust in the gospel, and Father explains that the gospel offers a path to salvation and a guide for living a fulfilling life. He notes that trust in the gospel comes from a relationship with Jesus Christ.The conversation continues with a discussion of how we can trust in faith, with Father and Joe emphasizing the importance of relationships. They note that relationships are the key to everything, including our relationship with God. Prayer is also discussed, with Father

 In this episode of Father and Joe, titled "What is Meant By an Apostolic Church?", Father and Joe delve into the concept of apostolicity in the Catholic Church. They begin by discussing what it means for the Church to be apostolic, emphasizing the importance of the Church's continuity with the teachings and practices of the apostles. Father explains that Jesus made apostles to ensure that the message of salvation would be passed down through the generations. He notes that the Church is the proof of the Holy Spirit, as it has endured and grown despite persecution and opposition over the centuries. The consistency of teaching the faith is also highlighted, with Father emphasizing that the Church has maintained its teachings on the sacraments, the Eucharist, and other core beliefs throughout its history. Joe asks how Catholics have come to know the Holy Spirit, and Father notes that the Church has provided us with a wealth of resources, including scripture, the sacraments, and the guidance of the

In this episode of Father and Joe, titled "What is the Belief of the Church?", Father and Joe explore the fundamental beliefs of the Catholic Church. They begin by discussing the teachings of the Church in the Creed, which is recited every Sunday. They emphasize the importance of understanding and embracing these teachings as a way to deepen one's faith.The conversation then turns to the mystery of the Kingdom of Christ and how the Catholic Church is considered holy. Father explains that the Church is holy not because of its members, but because of its divine origin and mission. He also emphasizes that the Church is on a journey and that holiness is a process of growth and transformation.Joe asks why anyone would rebel against God, and Father provides a perspective check, pointing out that rebellion often stems from a lack of understanding and a failure to recognize God's goodness and love. The mystery of iniquity is also discussed, with Father noting that evil exists in the world because

 In this episode of Father and Joe, they discuss the Divine Mercy Novena and how it goes around the same structure as the Rosary, with five decades of 10. The particular part that they focus on is the prayer that goes: "Eternal Father, I offer you the body and blood of Jesus Christ in his passion, soul, and divinity, in atonement for our sins and those of the whole world." They discuss the question of how one can offer something that is not theirs and how they could be worthy of doing so. The conversation delves into the fundamental questions of religion, sacrifice, and how to offer something to God.    Episode TimeLine:00:00 How Can We Offer Jesus?02:41What Cane We as Human Beings Offer?04:57 What Can We Offer to God, What Does He Care About?07:12 Why Did God Tell The Israelites What Offer?09:46 What Solves All the Problems that the Offerings Represent?11:11 What Was In Jesus’ Sacrifice?13:16 Divine Mercy Chaplet as a Teaching Tool of the Church15:01 Taking Credit for Other’s Work18:03 A Massive Mi

 In this episode of Father and Joe, they discuss the difference between the adult brain and child's brain, and how this affects our perception of the Easter story. They suggest that since we are learning about faith as adults, we should appreciate the magnitude of the Easter story and try to experience the joy of discovery. They also discuss the Catechism of the Good Shepherd, a Montessori-based approach to catechesis that encourages children to learn about Jesus through the mysteries of scripture and liturgy, and how it can help adults appreciate the Easter story.   Episode TimeLine:00:00 Letting the Gospels Be Alive in Our Mind02:12 How to Appreciate the Gospels With an Adult Mind that Get’s “Wowed”06:02 Rediscovering the Joy of Discovery09:10 Preparing Ourselves to Openness of Infinite Depth13:57 How Get Past Our Experiences to Get to Feelings From the Bible18:20 Living the Bible that is Not Complete   The podcast Father and Joe brings us, as individuals, closer to the Holy Spirit and His Church.Seek

In this episode of Father and Joe, they discuss the importance of recognizing the value of all life, even when it involves suffering. They address the idea of euthanasia and physician-assisted suicide and assert that every life is worth living, and that when it comes to transitioning to eternal life, it is up to God. They encourage entering into a relationship with those who suffer instead of running away from it. Father explains that Jesus identifies with the suffering and that when we care for the suffering, we care for Jesus. Episode TimeLine:00:00 All Life Has Value01:42 Is there a life that has too much suffering to be allowed to live?03:31 Relationships are how we ease suffering to find grace05:48 What is valuable in life?09:02 Finding Beauty by “Just Doing It”11:02 Suffering is Never Easy, But the Gains Are Much Beyond Worth It15:45 Accepting the Calling to Greater Love18:46 Cultivating a Mindset That Will Bring Us to Christ   The podcast Father and Joe brings us, as individuals, closer to the Holy Spi

In this episode of Father and Joe, they discuss the mystery of life and how it is critical to the faith. They delve into the questions of whether life has purpose and intentionality or if it is just a random occurrence. They explain that every life is a wanted life, intended personally by God. They highlight the importance of parents being intentional and making every act of love, a truly intentional act of love. This meditation is beautiful, and recognizing that life has meaning and purpose is a critical moment for many.  Episode TimeLine:00:00 Understanding Mystery of Life02:00 What is the Meaning of Life?04:31 The Gift of Life06:01 Your Life Has Meaning09:20 The Purpose We All Have13:13 We Can Never Be The Master Over Life17:42 Need for Gratitude and Reverence for Life19:37 Our Need to Share Our Own Pain    The podcast Father and Joe brings us, as individuals, closer to the Holy Spirit and His Church.Seek Peace. Be Open to God and Love. Learn from Your Sufferings. Thank you for listening.FatherAndJoe@gmail

In this episode of Father and Joe, the hosts discuss how the relationships we have, especially with those we are forced to be with, like our children, can impact their growth and development. They explore the question of how to raise the perfect child, acknowledging that there is no single answer, but certain foundational qualities, like love and holiness, are universal. They also delve into the concept of affirming love, as described by Conrad Bars, which involves seeing and reverencing a child's unique goodness and worth without desiring to change or possess them. The hosts recognize the challenges of parenting and emphasize the importance of being present, loving, and supportive. Episode TimeLine:00:00 How to Perfectly Raise a Child02:17 You See What A Huge Gift It Is To Be Parents 05:02 Our Need for Other People is Unsurpassed07:10 Proven Secure Ground that Each Individual Needs to Thrive08:51 Massive Amount Of Space Our Brain Dedicates to Feelings12:11 How To Respond Appropriately in Difficult Times

Many of us never recognize, let alone correct, the fact that a majority of actions are direct results of our minds first encounters with a given situation. As a results our “auto-pilot” was written by our much younger infantile brain. In this episode we discuss how to rewrite our brain to have more fruitful lives   Episode TimeLine:00:00 Your Private Relationship With Yourself Has Great Impacts Others01:49 How to revisit our past in an effective and powerful way04:46 How Father and Joe originated06:43 How Our Past Experiences Flows Into Our Adult Brains11:15 Our Brains Are Built for Feeling Over Logic13:41 What childhood thoughts are worth exploring16:24 Animals Going Through Trauma Cycles18:13 Bringing Ourselves into the Present20:01 We Have the Ability to Break The Negative Family Treat Received  The podcast Father and Joe brings us, as individuals, closer to the Holy Spirit and His Church.Seek Peace. Be Open to God and Love. Learn from Your Sufferings. Thank you for listening.FatherAndJoe@gmail.comhttps://

Passive aggressive people can lead us to feel trapped, threatened, or worthless. Learn from Father Boniface Hicks how we can improve our lives by improving relationships in these challenging environments.    Episode TimeLine:00:00 How Most Deal With Passive Aggressive Behavior01:43 The Science of Emotions03:15 How Do We Use Our Energy05:30 Consequences We Create From Being Passive Aggressive 07:51 Ability of Drawing Incorrect Conclusions 10:26 Emotions Having Different Lifespans Within Us15:48 Having Conversations That Do Not Escalate Hostility 18:09 Addressing a Disconnect within Ourselves   The podcast Father and Joe brings us, as individuals, closer to the Holy Spirit and His Church.Seek Peace. Be Open to God and Love. Learn from Your Sufferings. Thank you for listening.FatherAndJoe@gmail.comhttps://imf.saintvincentseminary.edu/welcome/Also you can find is on twitter @FatherAndJoe    Catholic, Church, God, Life, Jesus, Benedictine Monk, Father Boniface Hicks, Joe Rockey, Relationships, Family, Love, Friend